Post by RMO on Nov 14, 2010 14:27:14 GMT -5
In our modern world there are a plethora of ways to communicate. It used to be for hundreds of years you would either speak to the person or send a painfully time consuming letter. However thanks to the exchange of information we can communicate with the opposite sex far easier and faster than ever before. From calling a girl up, to sending her an email, hitting her up on facebook, and sending her messages from your cellular device of choice. There is now absolutely no reason why you should ever lose a girl because you can't communicate with her. The one that highschool guys really focus on, and girls, is that of txting. It is a much better medium in my opinion than both phone conversations and email, and especially facebook chat (ugh)
Txting is beautiful, you send short , less than 140 characters usually (like tweets), messages directly to a Hot Babes phone, its like a fail safe way of getting someone information. Unfortunately since guys don't txt anywhere as much as girls, they frequently make mistakes with that mode of communication. You all know that less than 7% of our communication is actually the words that are said. Less than 7%, let that sink in, that means you are only interacting with this chick in the most minimal way possible. Now if you can only give her about 7% of an interaction at most, than you need to understand that txt game is only a big deal if you fuck it up, because if you put something she doesn't like, or does it is a double edged sword, she will add the other 93% of the conversation with her imagination.
Now this idea does not just apply to txt game, but it is integral for my txt game to work. Girls LOVE sex. Girls LOVE adventure. and Girls LOVE unpredictability. Now what if I said that most guys never even think about using txts to send these concepts to a girl.
Txts should be short, fun, sexual, and give off an aura of charm. NO LOGICAL DEBATES! if it starts getting logical STOP, or redirect. Now girls txt pretty boringly, since they txt a shit ton, so you need to immediately make it crazy and ramp it up in your first response.
'hey cutie, thinking about me much?
'
nvr respond with her generic responses. If she asks how you are, dont tell her
'fine, how about you'
a better response to 'how are you?' is
'I was gonna kidnap you to vegas and get us married by elvis, but nevermind...' she responds than you txt 'yea married by fat elvis'
I have a comparison. I dont use twitter to much, only for business, but there is one twitter feed I follow religiously, Kanye West's twitter feed. why? Im not a big fan of kanye, or his music, but his twitter feed is the most weird hilarious stupid unpredictable thing I have ever read. It is different from 99% of the dumb twitter feeds out there, your txts should be like that, she should secretly desire getting txts from you.
RULES OF TXT GAME
1. Always refer to her by pet names
i.e. darlin', sweetie, cutie pie, dork, adorable brat ect ect
2. Use proper grammar, NVR USE 1337 speak! The sexier your message, the more proper your grammar needs to be. you can use some slang, like rents (parents), of fam (family) but try to make your messages clear and concise.
3. Sign your name for the first 2 txts
-prodigy just insert your name.
4. Use smiley faces. no winky face '
'. No P faces '
' Words, punctuation
5. If you are describing something, make it really descriptive, take her on a journey with your words.In response to
"how R U?" I might reply "Just saw the sunset over the bay, the sky's glowing orange - looks incredible!"
6. Jump on the offers a girl makes. An "offer" is a term from improv acting. It is when one actor says something that describes something about the other actor.
Example, one actor says to the other, "I like that large funny hat you have on", the other actor then would go on with that theme of wearing a large funny hat.
It is a little different with text messages, but if a girl sends you something that you can make fun and sexy, do it. For example, I got a text message from one of the girls the other night, "buenas noches. Dulces suenos guapo." [translates: good night. Sweet dreams, handsome]. I replied the next morning by writing, "good morning, beautiful. Have a good day." Except I wrote it in french. I took her theme, and replied in a way that was similar, but original and charming.
TOOLS
word count, punctuation, timing, who you are
Keep your word count low, you should be able to flirt in less than 12 words.
send her txts all the time, if you call or email her, use it for setting up meets. send the first txt one day after meeting her. Txt at the speed she does, if she sends you txts that are 5 mins apart, send her txts 5 min apart ect ect
Use all the punctuation and grammar you can
-CAPS are exciting
-ellipses
-exclamation!!!
-Question marks
- [brackets] action [rolls eyes]
- (parenthesis) added comment (I wont spank you to hard)
- smiley faces,, 
Dont share your life story over txt, cultivate an aura of mystery and unpredictability.
I think the most important thing is to try to make the girl smile. That is the point of all this. It doesn't matter if she responds. You should only be trying to write something that will make her feel good, or feel special, or feel sexy when she reads it. You are NOT fishing for getting anything back. You should be inspiring her to want to send you a text back. Pay attention to the subtext of the text. Often times what is really being said is not what the words actually are. The obvious example is a late night text asking if you are out and about means "I want you to come home with me". Subcommunication is pretty complicated. I won't really get into it. I do suggest paying attention to it though.
These are some simple tools, remember to not attach to much power to txting, dont let a bad txt ruin your day. This guide should be all you need, focus on your real goal, the other 93% you can get in face to face communication.
Txting is beautiful, you send short , less than 140 characters usually (like tweets), messages directly to a Hot Babes phone, its like a fail safe way of getting someone information. Unfortunately since guys don't txt anywhere as much as girls, they frequently make mistakes with that mode of communication. You all know that less than 7% of our communication is actually the words that are said. Less than 7%, let that sink in, that means you are only interacting with this chick in the most minimal way possible. Now if you can only give her about 7% of an interaction at most, than you need to understand that txt game is only a big deal if you fuck it up, because if you put something she doesn't like, or does it is a double edged sword, she will add the other 93% of the conversation with her imagination.
Now this idea does not just apply to txt game, but it is integral for my txt game to work. Girls LOVE sex. Girls LOVE adventure. and Girls LOVE unpredictability. Now what if I said that most guys never even think about using txts to send these concepts to a girl.
Txts should be short, fun, sexual, and give off an aura of charm. NO LOGICAL DEBATES! if it starts getting logical STOP, or redirect. Now girls txt pretty boringly, since they txt a shit ton, so you need to immediately make it crazy and ramp it up in your first response.
'hey cutie, thinking about me much?
'nvr respond with her generic responses. If she asks how you are, dont tell her
'fine, how about you'
a better response to 'how are you?' is
'I was gonna kidnap you to vegas and get us married by elvis, but nevermind...
' she responds than you txt 'yea married by fat elvis'I have a comparison. I dont use twitter to much, only for business, but there is one twitter feed I follow religiously, Kanye West's twitter feed. why? Im not a big fan of kanye, or his music, but his twitter feed is the most weird hilarious stupid unpredictable thing I have ever read. It is different from 99% of the dumb twitter feeds out there, your txts should be like that, she should secretly desire getting txts from you.
RULES OF TXT GAME
1. Always refer to her by pet names
i.e. darlin', sweetie, cutie pie, dork, adorable brat ect ect
2. Use proper grammar, NVR USE 1337 speak! The sexier your message, the more proper your grammar needs to be. you can use some slang, like rents (parents), of fam (family) but try to make your messages clear and concise.
3. Sign your name for the first 2 txts
-prodigy just insert your name.
4. Use smiley faces. no winky face '
'. No P faces '
' Words, punctuation5. If you are describing something, make it really descriptive, take her on a journey with your words.In response to
"how R U?" I might reply "Just saw the sunset over the bay, the sky's glowing orange - looks incredible!"
6. Jump on the offers a girl makes. An "offer" is a term from improv acting. It is when one actor says something that describes something about the other actor.
Example, one actor says to the other, "I like that large funny hat you have on", the other actor then would go on with that theme of wearing a large funny hat.
It is a little different with text messages, but if a girl sends you something that you can make fun and sexy, do it. For example, I got a text message from one of the girls the other night, "buenas noches. Dulces suenos guapo." [translates: good night. Sweet dreams, handsome]. I replied the next morning by writing, "good morning, beautiful. Have a good day." Except I wrote it in french. I took her theme, and replied in a way that was similar, but original and charming.
TOOLS
word count, punctuation, timing, who you are
Keep your word count low, you should be able to flirt in less than 12 words.
send her txts all the time, if you call or email her, use it for setting up meets. send the first txt one day after meeting her. Txt at the speed she does, if she sends you txts that are 5 mins apart, send her txts 5 min apart ect ect
Use all the punctuation and grammar you can
-CAPS are exciting
-ellipses
-exclamation!!!
-Question marks
- [brackets] action [rolls eyes]
- (parenthesis) added comment (I wont spank you to hard)
- smiley faces,
, 
Dont share your life story over txt, cultivate an aura of mystery and unpredictability.
I think the most important thing is to try to make the girl smile. That is the point of all this. It doesn't matter if she responds. You should only be trying to write something that will make her feel good, or feel special, or feel sexy when she reads it. You are NOT fishing for getting anything back. You should be inspiring her to want to send you a text back. Pay attention to the subtext of the text. Often times what is really being said is not what the words actually are. The obvious example is a late night text asking if you are out and about means "I want you to come home with me". Subcommunication is pretty complicated. I won't really get into it. I do suggest paying attention to it though.
These are some simple tools, remember to not attach to much power to txting, dont let a bad txt ruin your day. This guide should be all you need, focus on your real goal, the other 93% you can get in face to face communication.
