SamethP
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It's my world
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Post by SamethP on Nov 9, 2008 5:19:48 GMT -5
wow, this stuff is amazing, it truly is since reading the game about a month ago, i have become so much more successful. i have f/k/n closed and its amazing. even today, my mum had a bday party and i gamed this HB7 (who was the daughter of one of the people who came), she was extremely shy, so i negged her about being anti-social, everyone knew everyone except her, so i was doing the great thing of opening and talking to her, 30 mins after she leaves, she adds me on myspace, i have no idea how she even found it. So its great stuff but i have to say this [shadow=red,left,300][glow=red,2,300]DO NOT LET ANY SUCCESS GO TO YOUR HEAD!!![/glow][/shadow]as soon as you get complacent and allow yourself to develop a god complex, you will lose, everytime. you may get lucky once in a while, but trust me, thats why they call it getting lucky... So just remember, no matter how good everything is going, keep your feet on the ground and just have fun peace, RoboCop
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Nov 9, 2008 8:50:51 GMT -5
Yeah, don't feel like "I can't screw up with girls anymore! I'm supposed to be a pimp!" Instead, focus on things like "I'm going to have fun and close tons of girls tonight"
This is also a part of NLP, the more you feel you HAVE to do something the more chance you'll have of failing. The more you feel you WANT to do something the more chance you'll have of succeeding.
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Chris
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"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
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Post by Chris on Nov 9, 2008 12:50:27 GMT -5
This is all related to having the identity of a pick-up artist, which creates unnecesarry anxiety.
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Post by Andrew on Nov 11, 2008 17:51:26 GMT -5
Also, when you start to get more, you may develop an intent with your gaming. Like grape said, you may start to go in there like "im gonna get these girls because I have to" rather than "im gonna go have some FUN tonight and whatever happens sweet."
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enigma
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Registered: Jul 7, 2008 13:57:09 GMT -5
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Post by enigma on Nov 11, 2008 22:07:57 GMT -5
The most important thing I've learned from pickup is when you are going out, try to just have a good time. When you are having fun, it will show, and girls will see it. Whereas when you go out looking solely for girls, you are more likely to just have anxiety and failure, and no fun comes out of that!
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