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Post by milehighclubber on May 11, 2011 7:52:42 GMT -5
Hey guys, I've been on hiatus for a while (not that any of you care ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png) ) for I've had another epiphany and a new mindset that came with it. I dunno why. I don't really bother trying to game anymore in my school and I practically talked to almost every guy, girl and teacher. As long as they are in my year cohort that is. They way I see it; almost everyone knows me, from grade 7 - 12. There is actually no point in me trying to do anymore natural game, or any game for that matter. ![:-/](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/undecided.png) I feel so desensitized to talking to anyone, only if I actually need something or just wanna talk. Yeah, I get up and down states sometimes but now I feel mostly indifferent to this whole thing. I just wanna talk to people. Yes I try to go C&F sometimes, trying to game girls but my mind just shuts that part of me and turns me into a "you're-a-human-get-over-it" mode of sorts lol. This has sort of led me away from my mates in my senior year. I'm "bored" with them, if there was any nicer way to put it as that. The same things are always being talked about; hot teachers, teachers in general, lessons, chicks, sports, cars, etc. Now I am more inclined to hanging out with grade 11s. Meh, I guess it was time to new people I suppose. I still hang out with them but not as much as I used to. Whether this is a good thing or a bad thing, I ain't so sure on that. Now I'm actually more focused on my personal development than trying to game nowadays. I feel bad, yet I feel relieved to letting go of game. Thoughts? ======================= P.S. congrats Andrew and Wes to getting "Specialist" status ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png)
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Post by wespeezy on May 11, 2011 9:32:26 GMT -5
I like that you shy'd away from gaming people and just started talking with them. It's safe to say that you may go through a few more epiphanies as you get through high school and start college.
Don't stress about going cocky and funny. A lot of this pick up stuff is designed just to help get guys to talk in the first place and you're there. Talk with people, get them to laugh and make them feel good about themselves.
A lot of guys make their high school lives about pick up. They think about pick up and gaming girls all the time during the day in school and thats not good. It should be a part of your life but not the main part. Focus on your hobbies/sports/school and being socially and the girls will fall in place.
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Post by DanZy on May 11, 2011 9:37:09 GMT -5
It sounds like you haven't internalized your game. You've talked to everyone and you might just be bored with all these people and need new people in your life. Personally being C/F has become a part of me. I'm always confident and have something to say. I think you're bored with your current situation as well. Don't go out of your way to game but you should be gaming all the time, just naturally. I game my teachers, my parents friends, everyone; simply because it's a part of me. People simply knowing you means nothing, you need people to want to be you and be with you. Find some motivation and go have some fun mate. Nothing is better than being able to have fun without girls and making sure they know it. Hope that helps
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Post by canadiankid on May 11, 2011 9:48:45 GMT -5
I agree with Wes on this. You don't need to game all the time, well not really much at all. Just be happy talking to people but it's on you to make it fun. When your just focused on having a great time and allowing anyone who wants to join in to be a part of it, girls and friends just fall into place. The less you try to game girls often times increases your success. Have fun!
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Post by taxman on May 11, 2011 10:16:20 GMT -5
Wes is right about guys in highschool focusing too much on game and needing just to be social and centered to do well with chicks, danz Is correct in saying find some motivation and having fun without girls and them knowing it. Get out of your comfort zone, go to parties solo and mack bitches .. You've got a mindset that's beyond indifference, much like mine. But you need more refrence experiences to actually feel 100% and act accordingly. Now that you have a new mindset go fuckin destroy infield not in school, school is a safe house compared to the adventures you could get up to. Experiencing much more is what you need to do
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Post by DanZy on May 11, 2011 10:17:19 GMT -5
^yea that's what I meant about "gaming" as such. Having fun conversations with people
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Post by milehighclubber on May 11, 2011 11:07:03 GMT -5
Yeah, I get what you mean guys. I guess I didn't provide enough info on my part and my question is being mistaken for something else, which I apologise. ![:-/](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/undecided.png) I've actually been doing PUA for nearly 3 years now and everything's been going great. I mean my quality of life has definitely gone higher and my life felt so much better. I joined school sport teams, became a school prefect, public speaking wasn't an issue anymore etc. And girls actually liked me without me lying (for once : ![:))](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/cheesy.png) . That was in grade 11. Then beginning grade 12 I started thinking about what my goal was when I started doing PUA. I HAD internalised my game, its just that PUA just sort of made me feel like someone I wasn't anymore. Nowadays I just talk to people not because of PUA (like what I used to do) but to build connections (thank you CYC : ![:))](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/cheesy.png) and having fun. None of that "try-to-get-her-with-this-line" mentality for me.
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Post by theory on May 17, 2011 8:11:49 GMT -5
That I think is a higher level of game. It happened to me as well, I have been doing game for a while and sort of just put it more in the back of my mind as a tool I can use whenever I feel the need to. Back when I started I would game every teacher and student in my school and I think that the alpha mentality has already become part of my personality. I have become alot more chilled out- I no longer have any problems skipping a party to chill at home. I don't think that PUA is something you should forget. But it is definitely not let it be one of the major factors in your life.
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