Post by Eastcoast on May 11, 2011 20:51:11 GMT -5
SO
I have finished my first year of University/ college for you american faggles. Here is one of my most vital realizations and if only one of you guys can actually apply it I will be incredibly happy. I guarantee your life will dramatically improve.
Now the first thing a large quantity of individuals think of when surrounding college is most likely PARTYING. I know when I was thinking of heading off to College I was rather excited for these legendary bangers that I had heard about from people older than me and from American Pie (Movies are obviously just like real life).
So when I got there I went to a lott of parties during the first few weeks. And guess what... a lot of them really werent all that fun at all. My reality was fucking rocked, where were the people dancing on furniture? Where were the slip and slides in the hall way that I had heard about? Where were the thousands of hot girls throwing themselves at me? All of the parties that I was going to were pretty tame.
Then one magical night I got really fucking drunk, to the point where I lost any inhibition that was holding me back. By inhibition I mean that little voice in you head that says no those people will judge me and not like me. But I hit this point and damn did it feel good, I talked and made out with just about every single good looking girl I saw because I fucking wanted to. I also did some things I regret and will leave out of this post....
The next day I woke up with the largest hangover on the planet and realized how fucking wonderful and fun that night was. It came down to me not giving a fuck and doing whatever I wanted to do. If I felt like making out with the girl, I did. From that point on I decided that I would never let these social walls that were holding me back contain what I wanted to do.
So for every party after that I went to , I let loose completely and enjoyed myself not giving a fuck about anyone else. This meant I was doing things like
-Starting the drinking games
-talking to EVERYONE at the party
-doing keg stands (who the fuck wouldnt want to do a keg stand)
-Randomly yelling and starting chants
-Having a fuckload of fun
-Yelling and celebrating when someone came into the room especially if I didnt know them
-Stupid dancing
-getting people to do shots
-Singing very loud to the music (Im awful at singing)
-oh yes and perhaps hooking up with a girl or two
It just so happened that I started becoming the one who was bringing the crazy to the party, regardless if I knew everyone at the party or no one at all.I was the one who people could feel genuinely comfortable around and let loose. By being the guy who inspires others to let loose and enjoy themselves without judgment people will LOVE you. I wasnt relying on other people to provide the party because I was the party and wherever I went would become a party. Funny enough I started doing all the the crazy shit that I had heard about and people started following me because it was FUN (and only faggots dont like that) Fun is like a magnet for people, so pull them the fuck into your fun times.
By doing this by the end of the party everyone knew who I was because I automatically became the center of the party. Then as time went on my phone would BLOW UP with invites to all the different parties because they knew that I would bring the good times. Girls started literally throwing themselves at me. People cant figure out how to have fun themselves so YOU have to show them. Be the leader and take charge of that shit.
By having fun and doing whatever the fuck I wanted I incorporated all the pickup aspects in at once unintentionally. But doing this i became the definition of a value provider.
So what i'm trying to say to you is that its really not all that hard to do and its FUCKING FUN. I know this happened in college but I have gone back to high school parties that were shitty and done the same thing. I know there arent nearly as many parties in high school usually but if you can rock the ones you go to then you will get invited back every time. Its a pretty simple concept but it took me a while to master completely letting loose. To me its finding hearing that voice that holds you back and saying FUCK YOU to it.
Good luck guys and party on!
I have finished my first year of University/ college for you american faggles. Here is one of my most vital realizations and if only one of you guys can actually apply it I will be incredibly happy. I guarantee your life will dramatically improve.
Now the first thing a large quantity of individuals think of when surrounding college is most likely PARTYING. I know when I was thinking of heading off to College I was rather excited for these legendary bangers that I had heard about from people older than me and from American Pie (Movies are obviously just like real life).
So when I got there I went to a lott of parties during the first few weeks. And guess what... a lot of them really werent all that fun at all. My reality was fucking rocked, where were the people dancing on furniture? Where were the slip and slides in the hall way that I had heard about? Where were the thousands of hot girls throwing themselves at me? All of the parties that I was going to were pretty tame.
Then one magical night I got really fucking drunk, to the point where I lost any inhibition that was holding me back. By inhibition I mean that little voice in you head that says no those people will judge me and not like me. But I hit this point and damn did it feel good, I talked and made out with just about every single good looking girl I saw because I fucking wanted to. I also did some things I regret and will leave out of this post....
The next day I woke up with the largest hangover on the planet and realized how fucking wonderful and fun that night was. It came down to me not giving a fuck and doing whatever I wanted to do. If I felt like making out with the girl, I did. From that point on I decided that I would never let these social walls that were holding me back contain what I wanted to do.
So for every party after that I went to , I let loose completely and enjoyed myself not giving a fuck about anyone else. This meant I was doing things like
-Starting the drinking games
-talking to EVERYONE at the party
-doing keg stands (who the fuck wouldnt want to do a keg stand)
-Randomly yelling and starting chants
-Having a fuckload of fun
-Yelling and celebrating when someone came into the room especially if I didnt know them
-Stupid dancing
-getting people to do shots
-Singing very loud to the music (Im awful at singing)
-oh yes and perhaps hooking up with a girl or two
It just so happened that I started becoming the one who was bringing the crazy to the party, regardless if I knew everyone at the party or no one at all.I was the one who people could feel genuinely comfortable around and let loose. By being the guy who inspires others to let loose and enjoy themselves without judgment people will LOVE you. I wasnt relying on other people to provide the party because I was the party and wherever I went would become a party. Funny enough I started doing all the the crazy shit that I had heard about and people started following me because it was FUN (and only faggots dont like that) Fun is like a magnet for people, so pull them the fuck into your fun times.
By doing this by the end of the party everyone knew who I was because I automatically became the center of the party. Then as time went on my phone would BLOW UP with invites to all the different parties because they knew that I would bring the good times. Girls started literally throwing themselves at me. People cant figure out how to have fun themselves so YOU have to show them. Be the leader and take charge of that shit.
By having fun and doing whatever the fuck I wanted I incorporated all the pickup aspects in at once unintentionally. But doing this i became the definition of a value provider.
So what i'm trying to say to you is that its really not all that hard to do and its FUCKING FUN. I know this happened in college but I have gone back to high school parties that were shitty and done the same thing. I know there arent nearly as many parties in high school usually but if you can rock the ones you go to then you will get invited back every time. Its a pretty simple concept but it took me a while to master completely letting loose. To me its finding hearing that voice that holds you back and saying FUCK YOU to it.
Good luck guys and party on!
