1andonly
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Post by 1andonly on May 12, 2011 18:03:22 GMT -5
Alright, im a soph in highschool and this other girl, lets call her HB, is a fresh.
I first met her about 2 weeks ago, when my friend and i went to go smoke a j and he happened to be texting her. I insisted that he invited her to come along, but she had plans already and couldnt come.
Later that night, when i sat in bed horny as fuck, i decided to bbm her(dont know why i had her pin). Basically said "sucks we couldnt hang out, was looking forward to meeting you" and a convo spinned off from there.
Since then, we been bbming/iming pretty much everyday(i usually initiate). I dont see her in school, so the only interaction in person with her has been thru the 2 vc sessions i had with her(both lasted almost an hour), as well as the occasional run into each other in the hallway kinda thing.
2 days ago, i was flirting with her on aim, and one thing lead to another and we got married on facebook. I've been trying to make plans to chill with her but it seems like she always has an excuse not to.
My plan as of now is to go to some party this weekend, and k-close with her there.
However, i feel like the bbm/im convos have died down because i feel like i always have to initiate or revive the convo.
Im a little lost, any advice would be helpful thanks in advance
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jester
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Post by jester on May 12, 2011 22:16:55 GMT -5
Be careful with the "cyber escalation". If you do not escalate in real life, you will get put in the friend zone, if even that.
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Post by canadiankid on May 12, 2011 22:27:59 GMT -5
^bingo. Plus what's the fun in escalating over text?
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jester
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Post by jester on May 12, 2011 22:51:33 GMT -5
^yeah! how are you gonna grab her penis through text?
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Post by canadiankid on May 12, 2011 22:55:50 GMT -5
awkward.......
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jester
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Post by jester on May 12, 2011 22:59:12 GMT -5
^awkward is my bread and butter baybay hahaha
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Post by taxman on May 12, 2011 23:27:08 GMT -5
Cyber escalation haha
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on May 13, 2011 8:31:27 GMT -5
wait so women DON'T have penises?! but seriously man if she is flaking get the fuck out, an alpha male doesn't meet women through the internet he is busy he does it in real life! (you will all love me for the quote now)
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RMO
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Post by RMO on May 13, 2011 14:31:00 GMT -5
your in the same school, find the time man. also txt/online game is good for comfort, but they pale in comparison to overt physical escalation.
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Post by scripts on May 13, 2011 14:35:19 GMT -5
Be careful with the "cyber escalation". If you do not escalate in real life, you will get put in the friend zone, if even that. Good to know what I was thinking was right
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Ari Gold
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Post by Ari Gold on May 29, 2011 18:47:56 GMT -5
Not to be an idiot and re-iterate what everyone else said, but I've fallen into this EXACT same trap before. Get this to real life as quickly as you can to avoid being friendzoned, otherwise good shit.
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