incongruence is lame

[alfonzo]

I met a girl recently that goes to a nearby school... an all girls school. We text a few times a week and she always demonstrates IOIs such as sending 2 texts in a row to revitalize the conversation if I don't respond, also responds well to cockyness/ rollplays. Seems like attraction is there, but whenever I say something like "I really want to do ____ this weekend, you should come" she backs out sort of sarcastically. Why do you think this is and what can I do about it?

[Amb1valence]

What does she say when she backs out? If it's sarcastic, maybe you just needa be more alpha, be like "naa, you have to come with me. come on, it'll be sweeet" haha maybe she's just testing your manliness

But like where are you suggesting that you guys go together?

[Adam]

id say its a shit test

[taxman]

She doesn't wanna go out with you. Even if its a test, at the end of the day you can't plough with texts it will look like your begging. I don't understand how this tests your congruence though. Don't say vague pua things like "you should come" unless there's already bitches at the event your going to keep it real tell her your at the mall and that she must come now !, if she laughs its off give her the time to be there and then maybe something light like you don't kiss on first dates or tell her to wear something nice.. If she flakes more than 3 times she's prob a flake and I'd just move on

[scripts]

May 12, 2011 19:58:23 GMT -5 Amb1valence said:

What does she say when she backs out? If it's sarcastic, maybe you just needa be more alpha, be like "naa, you have to come with me. come on, it'll be sweeet" haha maybe she's just testing your manliness

But like where are you suggesting that you guys go together?

That's begging.

Honestly, I really think you've been LJBFd. Did you say anything dirty the first or second time you met?

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

either you're ljbf like scripts said, or you need to be more alpha like ambivalence said. if she says oh yeah we should totally go out sarcastically, i would say 1 of three things. "try not to seem to needy sweetheart" "yeah we can go to paris and blah blah blah(future projection)" "sure just don't try to seduce me i am not that easy how about (insert movie name)" in all three responses expect an Iod as a shit test, she will say something like"seduce you?! please!!" or maybe she'll continue the sarcasm and say "yeah i'm just so needy" in that case laugh it off cause if you weren't frustrated that would be funny. she'll usually respond normally to the paris thing.