Asking girl out

[kidd]

So theres this girl ive been wanting to ask out. i kinda know her and i usually chill with her and her friends before school which is the only time i see her. im not really all that talkative with them but i joke around with them alittle bit and im pretty sure she knows i like her cause i told her friends a while ago and they tell each other everything. So what im worried about is f**king up some how and then everybody will know and idk if shes into me. i just want some advice on how i should ask her out or what i should say. Any help??

[Purp]

Bro, pull her number next time you guys meet if you haven't done so. When you get the number ask her to hang out with you. Make sure she knows you are interested in her. Don't worry about if shes not into you, if shes not into you then fuck her. Theres a lot of females around in your school you can game on. Work on confidence. You shouldn't be at that point where you have to tell her friends that you like her. That should be done by you. Have that don't give a fuck attitude, if shes not down, rethink your DHVs (look up DHVs) then bounce to another hoe. Social value/DHV's is very important in High School. When you have huge DHV's with super confidence, you are the man.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

^ blackest reply evar haha
ok, let's start with adressing the issue at hand why are you so worried about screwing up? second why do you like her? It's common in the pua world to make the girl show interest before you show interest because it demonstrates that you get past looks, if you like her cause she is hot then you need more hot friends

[scripts]

1) Get past AA
2) Be Alpha with her
3) Just ask her out
That is if you aren't LJBFd

1) Freeze out
2) Best Friend Boyfriend Method
If you are in the FZ

It's just a confidence issue here, you have to just ignore that little voice in the back of your head that says "She's going to turn you down, I just know it." Just forget it and do what you know. But first yes, do what Luis said

[stubblejumper]

Just do it. No worries if you fuck up, just shake it off. It may seem like the hardest thing in the world to do, but I think the best thing to do is just do it. If she says yes your wheels are working. If not, well there are more beers in the cooler ;D

[Andrew]

stick it in her pooper.


sorry. Whatever it is that you do my man make sure that you're doing it for yourself and not because you are afraid of what someone else may or may not think of you.

I remember early in high school I asked this girl to get coffee with me, and she told me unfortunately that she couldn't and I let it go. The next day she came up to me and was like, you werent asking me on a date or anything, right? And my answer was something like HAHAHA no way girl just to hang out im a huge faggot please rape my face.

Now granted early high school there was a LOT for me to work on. But the point is if when she came up to me AGHAST that I would ask her out and I looked her in the eye and was like NAH LADY YOU ME DATE SATURDAY or something equally confident and full of myself we would have had a very different story.

Look man it's hard hearing all these dudes just TELLING you not to give a fuck or have some attitude that you don't have, and I don't blame you. That attitude is hard to come by. It takes work to not care. You NEED to be shot down a few times to have that attitude. Believe me.

You gotta ask yourself what kind of man you want to be. You want to be the man who in a quivering voice asks her politely whether or not she wants to get coffee sometime but if she cant make it that's cool we can do it some other time or not it's okay too? Or you wanna stand with your shoulders back and your arm around her shoulder telling her that y'all going on a DATE this weekend.

And for that matter, think about which guy SHE would rather be asked out by?


We can only really outline the mindsets for you man. We can tell you how to think and how to act but it's gotta be on you to actually do it.

I wish you luck.

-Andrew