yes i am already talking prom

[rlouisj7]

oook, so im kinda torn with potential prom dates i have. heres the story:

ok hb8.3 seriously wants me as a prom date, and i know that shes 100% mine if i ask her. she has made this clear, and basically claimed me. im sure shes actually developing a serious crush on me. i dont see her as a gf but definetly a solid prom date. also i reaaally wanna f-close her. (massive tits)

BUT..

SHB9.6 has been flirting with me a lot and she might like me. all of my AFC friends are rooting for me on this one. i guess they want me to pave the way for AFCs everywhere lol. thing is, im not 100% sure that she would say yes 2 prom. she doesnt hate me by any means, she actually really likes me. im just afraid that she might have some1 else in mind.

THE FACTS:

HB8.3 is in my social group.

there will be drama if i pick hb9.6 & hb 8.3 finds out. (idc really as long as hb9.6 says yes)

but if im rejected by 9.6, hb8.3 is not a fallback plan because she would have been pissed at me for asking hb9.6 in the 1st place.

HB9.6 is NOT in my click. and i say that because i also have to decide whether it would be cool if i didnt sit with my closer friends during prom. my guy friends told me it would be cool with them only because its SHB9.6

i really wanna go with hb 9.6, but im afraid if i risk asking her and get rejected i'll have no1 else because hb8.3 wont be an option anymore and due to the HB drought in my school i prob wont have a prom date

PS: i am not scared of hb8.3, i just dont want to hurt any feelings

what should i do?

[Grape]

I say hit & run 9.6 and take 8.3 to prom.

[Luc]

i would try to game the 9.6 but don't make it TOO blatantly obvious. After you see how she responds you should be able to tell if she would say yes or no to prom.

[optimus]

I'd say wait until after winter break, then start thinking about it.

But yeah, ask the 9.6. Girls rarely/never reject guys who ask them. And if the 8.3 hates you for it, darn. You don't need to have a perfect relationship with girls, especially not the ones you're attracted to. Either chase her away or get the girl, don't try to preserve LJBF.

[Andrew]

have you tried a barrel roll?



Ask the hottie. On the offchance that she'll say no because your such a fantastically swell dude you still gain a lot from asking her. Branch out, my man

[Alek]

create a jealousy plot line

[Zomga48]

Nov 11, 2008 18:00:38 GMT -5 Andrew said:

have you tried a barrel roll?

Double Tap R.

[Andrew]

its z bro, but no big deal

[Zomga48]

Both of them work, trust me.

[nine]

Save it for /b/.

Nine

[Zomga48]

...must not return..to that..place...

[udate]

UPDATE need help agn. i decided 2 push for hb 10 but it wont be easy. shes throwing a birthday party in a few weeks and its in a hall. as u kno im not in her social group so the people there will be people im cool with but not best friends with. also because they all will come 2 the party 4 her they are gunna be all over her. how do i get my chance with her and how do i make it good.

[rlouisj7]

^^^^yea thats me up there 4got 2 log in

[optimus]

You aren't in a chatroom, take the extra two seconds to type everything out.

This birthday party sounds like an awesome opportunity. Just go in, game everyone. Lots of kino, tell a couple stories, run Style's EV on some of the girls and talk about what that means.

Before you go, think up a couple of stories about shopping for birthday presents. If your thread is dying, just cut it and lean over conspiratorially, "Psss, what did you get her?" then run the story about last year you were shopping for ... etc.

When you see her, give her a big hug, cold read her, and incorporate her into your conversation.

This party should rock for you because it'll build a bunch of social proof and DHV and then even if you only see her a couple times between the party and prom, you'll still have some attraction.

It's a lot easier said than done, but as long as you're not a wallflower (even if you only talk to two people all night, and you only say "happy birthday" to the girl) it's a success. Remember, all you're doing is going to a party to have a good time.