Can't Keep It Up

[sublime4life]

I have a steady girlfriend who I've been going out with for a while now. We've talked about having sex for a while and last weekend we finally had the opportunity to. Everything was going great until it was time to put on the condom. I got nervous and lost my erection. What are the reasons that his happened? After that we went back to making out and I got hard again. But the condom thing turned me off. We are planning to try again soon hopefully it will work this time.

[misterflower]

you're nervous. If a girl came up and grabbed your crotch and said fuck me now, would you be able to? probably not, because you feel pressured. The key is to relax. really, RELAX. Sex is not that big of a deal, and your girl will follow your lead, if you feel nervous she will to, just relax to the point where you are so relaxed that you are aroused. Also, haha, well, this is just what I do, if I can't get hard but I really want to fuck and I know I have the stamina to fuck, I just slap my dick against her ass or thigh until I get it up, haha, it works for me, Idk. Also, pussy turns me on, a lot, so I like to finger her and that in itself makes me hard, so those are my suggestions.

[Purp]

JESUS! When it's time to put on the condom, you lost your erection!? Sorry man, I'm a little high right now. Prolly ganna regret writing this.

Anyways, my thoughts on this is you should DOMINATE the frame. LEAD! You are the MAN! Watch some pornos man. I guarantee you'll reconsider somethin' next time your ready to put on the condom. Like I said, you are the MAN. You LEAD. In another words, TEAR THAT SHIT UP! haha!

[scripts]

So what happens if you start making out with her and during that, she puts the condom on for you?

[misterflower]

haha? then you proceed to do your thing and encourage her to fuck the shit out of you.

[BROner]

Stop looking at porn, if you do. And tell yourself to relax if it happens again, if anything act like it didn't happen, go back to making out and have her grab your shit if you need to, and then try again.

[Amb1valence]

Congratulations, you have ED.



Hahaha jk that used to happen (still happens a bit) all the time. Let me know if you find the answer lmao. I think the key is just to make sure you're turned on, a lot. If you're not, and you guys start making out, and you're like "ooh ok sweet, this is cool". NO! Do whatever you have to, caveman that shit like a fuken bear, get aggressive and grab her, throw her against the wall or do whatever haha it usually works for me. Because sometimes girls just start making out and aren't sure how hard you want to go, so they're shy about doing anything that might actually turn you on. So just establish right off the bat that you're down to get crazy lol and they'll do crazier shit in turn, upping the tension for your erectile pleasure.

[joe]

Dude don't worry about it, same thing happened to me the first time. It really just has to do with how turned on you are. Your nerves probably just took over so you weren't able to be turned on enough to keep it up