I need help, please =[

[SamethP]

ive noticed this a lot lately
i have horrible control over my emotions
and by this i mean, when im in a tiny down mood, i have an exceedingly short temper...
i havent lashed out at anyone in years, but today i made the mistake of doing that, in front of a lot of ppl, DLVing me a shitload...

heres the story
The girl ive been talking about in previous FRs... i just found out that she is my sister's friend
me and my sister are really close, like the siblings at are actually best friends, we always laugh and cheer each other up and what not
anyway, when she found out today, she went nuts at me, so i spent half the day arguing with her via text messaging...

my best mate (who i set up with the girl's best friend) knew what was going on and was stopping people from saying shit to me.
best kid going round imo

anyway, at lunch, i was sitting there, very worked up while arguing with my sister, this german exchange cunt went into the classroom (where the windows are about 10cm from where i sit) leaned out the window and poured water all over me. I pretty much lost it...

got up
said quietly "thats fucking it"
walked into the classroom and pushed the cunt head first over a desk
walked out and sat down like nothing had happened
it took soo much effort to stop myself from decking the cunt >.<

anyway, this half abbo fuck who tries his hardest to be C&F (even though he doesnt know what it is and fails) and full tries to AMOG the group/extremely competative etc and, who used to be my friend, started being a smart ass and saying shit to me

you know when your full of adrenaline and you dont hear anything? yea, i just saw him smirking and talking to me, and i knew that he was insulting me (later confirmed by my mate)
anyway, i cut him down. but he kept saying shit
i noticed his bag next to me, pulled out his cheapo little lunch box and smashed it and threw it across the path in front of him

im still seated, he gets up and comes over and starts screaming at me "GET THE FUCK UP AND FIGHT ME CUNT"
i had regained a little bit of composure now and decided itd be safer to stay seated and just flicked him off by not paying attention and continued texting
when he realise i wasnt listening, the fucker slapped me
wtf, who the fuck slaps someone to start a fight
anyway,
i looked him in the eyes and said "yea man, we all know you need to show how tuff you are" and held that look while he continued screaming and swearing, my best mate told him to chill and go sit down
he said one final thing as he turned and i said "put your steroids away mate"
he swore and said "one day your gonna get whats coming to you, ill guarantee that" and i said "what are you gonna give it too me?" he swore and didnt say a word for the rest of the day

so yea, thats my story for today, me and my sister are cool again, but i havnt spoken to her since i left school to go to uni today...

i desperately need advice for controlling my emotions
i cant take having to put up with all this shit, these stupid things are gonna get me in a lot of trouble, and i just cant deal with anything extra at the moment

ADVICE PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[Zomga48]

You're fine in my opinion dude, I would have gone insane and beaten the shit out of both the german cunt and the dick who was talking crap.

Especially if they slapped me, I literally would have just tackled them and pummeled the shit out of them..I know kids like the one you mentioned.

[enigma]

Damn that's kind of intense, shit like that never happens at my school. He slapped you? Really!? Who the hell slaps another guy...

Anyways on controlling you're emotions, I've just learned to not give a shit about what other people think because when it comes down to it, the person who is talking trash about you usually isn't even worth you're time to begin with. Now I'm also really laid back, but thats my two cents.

[Luc]

yea dude i'm with enigma on this one. Telling people to fuck off is generally enough. The last time i really got worked up over something the other kid won. Basically i tell them that i don't have time for their childish games and tell them to go away. That ends up making you the bigger man and a lot of people can see that.

All in all though, you need to stay away from people that aggravate you like the kid that slapped you did. But yea i would have fucking rocked that German kid.

[SamethP]

lol truu =]
well i picked my fights, the german i coulda beat the shit outta, the homo slapper woulda been in his odds, so i chose to ignore him [kinda] lol

[Grape]

Dude, just keep amogging and being the guy who looks like he's the calm and mature one.
Tell the damn principle in private too.
No one will know who told and you'll be safer.
Nothing is worth endangering your safety.

[Andrew]

keep breathing and have something in your pocket to wring or squeeze out.

No lie stress balls do wonders

[nine]

Reply for the German kid: "Oh look, now I'm all wet like your sis was last night "

That way if you get into a fight, it makes it look like the other kid lost it.

Nine

[SamethP]

haha i like that xDD

and yea, i will invest in a stress ball

[hotdemon]

once a wise person said in the forum that masterbation decreases controls your emotion and shit

now that i told you that...go easy !

[hotdemon]

LMAO....the german kid haha....let me ask you something....slapping another man is gay....but how about throwing some1 else's LUNCH BOX!!! if i were you i would have put a bug or something in his lunch and just imagine his face afterwards when u tell him...........priceless

peace

[SamethP]

LOL at the masterbation thing xDDDD
because i just sit in class and jerk off o.O
hahaha

meh bout the lunch box, it was the closest thing and it was sticking out of his bag, so meh
plus its in like 12 pieces now

[Nike]

that was the funniest story ever, i wish shit like that happened w/ me...but u should just carry a blade or glock w/ u at all times

[Volt]

Yeah, so people die and blood runs in the streets. Free glocks for everyone! And shit happens if you make it happen.

[Zomga48]

Violence is not the best answer.....




But it's still an answer...