Need Help.

[welldonerahh]

So this girl is confuse of choosing either me or this other guy. She is getting to know us better coz she wants to choose the right guy that wouldn't break her heart. I love her, so i just wanna know how can show that i really love her, and that i do really deserve her.

[milehighclubber]

Firstly, welcome to the forums, where (hopefully ;D) most of us will be able to help you even further with your questions. BTW, this is not just a "Question and Answers" site for dating advice. So you should keep us posted about what ever happened to your situation we may help you out even further.

Second, either you can stop worrying about this girl or keep thinking on how you can get her to be "yours".

Your question tells me that you are desperate. Not that its a surprise.

'DO NOT worry about losing the girl.' This is a mentality that you must adhere and hold dear from now on. It doesn't matter whether you lose the girl you "love" to some other guy. You must not waste so much of your time and energy on this particular person. There are plenty more girls in the world, you are just too fixated on this girl to acknowledge or even take notice.

There are times when you are just putting too much effort that you think it will all work out with what you're doing. This is counter-productive.

'Just have fun' when you talk to her. I know it may sound vague to you but I can't define how YOU have fun. You may like to crack jokes from time to time, tell what happened to you on the weekend or something.

"Sometimes the best way to show someone that you're 'something' is letting them find out on their own."

[scripts]

What's the difference between you and him.
Girls like guys who are genuinely different.

[welldonerahh]

thanks for advice, ill start doing that.

[welldonerahh]

well, both of us are very different.
he's like kinda quiet and mysterious guy ( i dont really know him )
and im a humorous, down to earth, and confident person.