Post by braddocksintern22 on May 26, 2011 16:43:07 GMT -5
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www.braddocksblog.com/2010/07/15/meeting-girls-in-college-q-and-a
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Question:
Hey Braddock, just wanted to let you know you’re hands down my favorite instructor and I relate to you the most. I was also the popular kid in High School and now I’m going to Arizona State University this fall which is one of the biggest colleges in the nation and infamous for its party reputation. I know you’re extremely busy working with Lovesystems (I want to become an instructor in the future by the way)but I was wondering if you could answer my question on college game. I need advice on what to do during the first month or so to build an awesome social circle? Is it essential to join clubs, go to sporting events,etc. what will give me the best chance at “buzz” with girls in the future? I can’t afford to join a frat so that’s out of the picture. Plus, I have my best friend who’s going to college with me and essentially he’s the only guy I know there. He’s a smart guy who’s good with making friends with women and isn’t socially retarded, but he’s open minded and also wants to learn the system you teach. Do you have any master plan him and I could use to team up and take over that school? Please help us!!!
Your loyal fan and future Lovesystems instructor,
-Jason
Short Answer
Live near the action.
*Dorms if you guy have that are great
*The cool apartment complex where everyone lives and hangs out with the cool pool.
*House right near campus and all the parties or near the bars or near the tailgating for football games.
*The farther you live away from the action (even if it’s an awesome house) the more frustrated you will be and the more out of the loop you will feel.
*If you can live in the dorms….do it at least for a semester. You will meet so many girls it’s stupid.
Get involved:
*The more things you are involved in the more chances you get to meet girls.
*Pick stuff that is easy and doesn’t take a lot of extra time. School is hard enough. Don’t pick something that will eat up your week.
Throw Away Class or 2:
*Take at least one throw away class per semester that you know will be PACKED with girls.
*This class won’t help your major requirements and will be expensive way to meet girls, but it will assure you multiple encounters (a semesters worth) with the same girls, study sessions, etc… Which will give you multiple times to slowly get on their radar, invite them to stuff, and when you go out you will see them at parties and bars and have girls to say hi to “Buzz”
*Journalism classes are usually full of girls, education etc..
Ballroom Dancing:
*I took this every semester for 4 years. I fucking hate dancing, but it had 200 girls and 40 guys. We had to dance every song and as a result had a chance to flirt with and get to know every girl in class. I dated 8 girls one semester just from ballroom dancing. (Doesn’t have to be ballroom dancing, that was what mine was called…I’m sure there are other classes like this).
Never Turn Down A Good Time:
*Don’t let it mess up your grades, but you need to try to go to every good frat party/bar/whatever is going on. Exposure is key. If you only go out once a week, you will look up and feel like everyone on campus knows everyone and you will feel like you are on the outside looking in.
*Make guy and girl buddies. Meet people and introduce them to people. Make it a habit of texting people and asking them what’s going on and inviting them to things you hear about.
*Frat guys may be annoying as hell, but on some campuses they hold the key to the castle so to speak. Make some buddies in the houses and they can get you into the parties and introduce you to people.
*Try to get a schedule that allows you to have Fridays off or at least start late on Fridays. Most colleges have big party nights on Thursdays.
Good luck and thanks for the kind words,
-Braddock
www.braddocksblog.com/2010/07/15/meeting-girls-in-college-q-and-a
Follow him on Twitter at www.twitter.com/ls_braddock
Question:
Hey Braddock, just wanted to let you know you’re hands down my favorite instructor and I relate to you the most. I was also the popular kid in High School and now I’m going to Arizona State University this fall which is one of the biggest colleges in the nation and infamous for its party reputation. I know you’re extremely busy working with Lovesystems (I want to become an instructor in the future by the way)but I was wondering if you could answer my question on college game. I need advice on what to do during the first month or so to build an awesome social circle? Is it essential to join clubs, go to sporting events,etc. what will give me the best chance at “buzz” with girls in the future? I can’t afford to join a frat so that’s out of the picture. Plus, I have my best friend who’s going to college with me and essentially he’s the only guy I know there. He’s a smart guy who’s good with making friends with women and isn’t socially retarded, but he’s open minded and also wants to learn the system you teach. Do you have any master plan him and I could use to team up and take over that school? Please help us!!!
Your loyal fan and future Lovesystems instructor,
-Jason
Short Answer
Live near the action.
*Dorms if you guy have that are great
*The cool apartment complex where everyone lives and hangs out with the cool pool.
*House right near campus and all the parties or near the bars or near the tailgating for football games.
*The farther you live away from the action (even if it’s an awesome house) the more frustrated you will be and the more out of the loop you will feel.
*If you can live in the dorms….do it at least for a semester. You will meet so many girls it’s stupid.
Get involved:
*The more things you are involved in the more chances you get to meet girls.
*Pick stuff that is easy and doesn’t take a lot of extra time. School is hard enough. Don’t pick something that will eat up your week.
Throw Away Class or 2:
*Take at least one throw away class per semester that you know will be PACKED with girls.
*This class won’t help your major requirements and will be expensive way to meet girls, but it will assure you multiple encounters (a semesters worth) with the same girls, study sessions, etc… Which will give you multiple times to slowly get on their radar, invite them to stuff, and when you go out you will see them at parties and bars and have girls to say hi to “Buzz”
*Journalism classes are usually full of girls, education etc..
Ballroom Dancing:
*I took this every semester for 4 years. I fucking hate dancing, but it had 200 girls and 40 guys. We had to dance every song and as a result had a chance to flirt with and get to know every girl in class. I dated 8 girls one semester just from ballroom dancing. (Doesn’t have to be ballroom dancing, that was what mine was called…I’m sure there are other classes like this).
Never Turn Down A Good Time:
*Don’t let it mess up your grades, but you need to try to go to every good frat party/bar/whatever is going on. Exposure is key. If you only go out once a week, you will look up and feel like everyone on campus knows everyone and you will feel like you are on the outside looking in.
*Make guy and girl buddies. Meet people and introduce them to people. Make it a habit of texting people and asking them what’s going on and inviting them to things you hear about.
*Frat guys may be annoying as hell, but on some campuses they hold the key to the castle so to speak. Make some buddies in the houses and they can get you into the parties and introduce you to people.
*Try to get a schedule that allows you to have Fridays off or at least start late on Fridays. Most colleges have big party nights on Thursdays.
Good luck and thanks for the kind words,
-Braddock