Post by wespeezy on May 29, 2011 18:56:59 GMT -5
Today we are going to talk about something ridiculously important.
EYE CONTACT
Eye contact is so effective its not even fair. Like it is just instant tension, and the longer the eye contact is held between the two of you, the more the tension. More tension= more awesome. A hot girl can gauge your confidence level by your ability to make and hold eye contact with her.
Personally I struggled with this and it annoyed the fuck out of me how sly girls really are with their eye contact!
But I really couldn't do this article with out the help of a HOT GIRL. So my good friend Lindsay is gonna give us the girls perspective on it.
So with out further adieu, our resident hot girl..
LINDSAY!
I’m sitting with my friends at lunch and look up to see you walking in with your buddies. i watch you as inconspicuously as possible and when you look up, i make eye contact with you and hold it for a split second...
what’s going on in my head? well i’m immediately analyzing everything about myself. this includes my hair, the way i’m sitting, the food i’m eating and i start laughing and being louder than i was before. i want to look beautiful and fun at the same time and give a carefree appearance so that you notice me but don’t think i’m paying too much attention to you. the eye contact will continue through lunch and maybe i’ll even make an effort to stall my exit from the cafeteria just so i might bump into you.
it’s a thursday night and i’m at the bar with my girlfriends to start the weekend off. we look and feel sexy and we’ve had a few drinks prior to our arrival. i walk in the doors holding my best friend’s hand and walk straight to the stage to dance. while i’m up there, i notice you leaning up against the bar with your friends laughing about something and sipping on a beer. i grab my friend and start dancing on her and flipping my hair, periodically glancing in your direction. when i notice you noticing me, i look you straight in the eye as i dance with my friend and smile as i turn my back to you and drop down on my friend....
whats going on in my head? well i have a buzz going, if i’m not drunk already, and i’m in the stage where i feel sexy and invincible. by dancing on my friend, i’m showing what i’m capable of and showing off my body without subjecting myself unwanted male groping in the process. the eye contact established during this dancing is inviting you and challenging you to keep up with me. i will continue to make eye contact and smile at you while i dance and make sure that you see me at all times. it’s a direct invitation and i’m openly displaying my sexuality to you.
I’m walking out of class and towards my locker to quickly grab my homework for the next period. pushing through everyone i bump directly into you and look up in embarrassment. we make eye contact and i smile at you......
what’s going on in my head? i’m most likely freaking out about looking like an idiot! does my makeup look ok? do i have bad breath? how’s my hair? what time is it? i can guarantee you i’m blushing. men, this is the perfect opportunity for you to smile and laugh and break the tension. a cute girl has just slammed into you by accident (or is it?) and there are all sorts of conversation starters:
where are you headed?
what class are you coming from?
i’m headed in the same direction, how about i walk with you so you don’t get seriously hurt since that seems to be an issue?
take this opportunity to get to know her briefly, make an impression. the eye contact y’all make from here on out will be determined by how you handled the situation. if you were fun and sweet, she will start to notice you in the hallway. tell her friends about you. smile at you whenever she sees you and you’ll start to get “the look” where she looks up at you from under her eyelashes when she passes you and smiles a flirty half smile. BUT, if you’re a dick about it or just keep going, she will forever associate you with embarrassment and will most likely avoid you in the halls. cute or not, you always want the girl to have good things to say about you. GIRLS TALK.
men, eye contact is basically a green light for any situation. if you establish eye contact with a woman multiple times in a situation, she’s interested in you and wants you to come over to her. a woman’s eyes are powerful, why do you think we wear eye makeup?! it’s to make sure that you look at them and we can send the subtle signals of sexuality and desire without openly screaming across the room that you have something we want. take advantage of these invitations!!
I literally could not have said it any better myself.
So Lindsay just gave us the different scenarios, what the girls are thinking.
So now heres what you need to do from the guys side.
So you notice the girl looking at you, maybe she's dancing..you catch her eye. HOLD THE EYE CONTACT, SMILE AT HER AND GO DANCE WITH HER. Like Lindsay said its an open invitation To: You. From: Her.
Things you can do wrong here are: Not hold the eye contact and look away, lame. Low confidence, shes not feeling it.
Or you do hold it she looks away. Your doing ok still...but you don't go talk to her but like kinda hover around her...not happening. Shes gonna notice and be kinda weirded out.
Also, say your walking in the hall or on the side walk and you see the cute girl walking in the opposite direction. Get eye contact with her, hold it until SHE breaks it. If she breaks it immediately shes most likely not interested. If she HOLDS IT and then breaks it, you can go talk to her. If you're walking in the opposite direction its ok not to go talk to her, shes going to remember you and you can talk to her the next time you see her walking.
Something I used to do to practice getting good with eye contact, well I still do it because its awesome .I found a really easy way to practice making eye contact. So I work at a frozen custard place, and hot girls FLOCK to this place. Part of my job is to take orders from the customers aka hot girls. So you have to look at them right? So I would look them straight into their eyes and give them SOLID eye contact when they were ordering. I've had times where i just forget their order or she forgets what she is trying to order because, this is going to sound gay ass hell, but the eye contact was so strong that they just forget what they're saying! You're practicing eye contact WHILE flirting with hot girls!
So if you have a job like mine, take advantage of it. Even if you don't have hot girls do it on MILFS or something.
2 quick rules to follow about eye contact:
1) Anytime you make it with a girl you hold it and let her break it
2)Smile. When you make eye contact smile, maybe wave at her if you want to. Acknowledge her and don't her make her feel like a idiot for putting her self out there for rejection.
Read more: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=staffsociety&thread=2516&page=7#ixzz1NmyRJWjv
EYE CONTACT
Eye contact is so effective its not even fair. Like it is just instant tension, and the longer the eye contact is held between the two of you, the more the tension. More tension= more awesome. A hot girl can gauge your confidence level by your ability to make and hold eye contact with her.
Personally I struggled with this and it annoyed the fuck out of me how sly girls really are with their eye contact!
But I really couldn't do this article with out the help of a HOT GIRL. So my good friend Lindsay is gonna give us the girls perspective on it.
So with out further adieu, our resident hot girl..
LINDSAY!
I’m sitting with my friends at lunch and look up to see you walking in with your buddies. i watch you as inconspicuously as possible and when you look up, i make eye contact with you and hold it for a split second...
what’s going on in my head? well i’m immediately analyzing everything about myself. this includes my hair, the way i’m sitting, the food i’m eating and i start laughing and being louder than i was before. i want to look beautiful and fun at the same time and give a carefree appearance so that you notice me but don’t think i’m paying too much attention to you. the eye contact will continue through lunch and maybe i’ll even make an effort to stall my exit from the cafeteria just so i might bump into you.
it’s a thursday night and i’m at the bar with my girlfriends to start the weekend off. we look and feel sexy and we’ve had a few drinks prior to our arrival. i walk in the doors holding my best friend’s hand and walk straight to the stage to dance. while i’m up there, i notice you leaning up against the bar with your friends laughing about something and sipping on a beer. i grab my friend and start dancing on her and flipping my hair, periodically glancing in your direction. when i notice you noticing me, i look you straight in the eye as i dance with my friend and smile as i turn my back to you and drop down on my friend....
whats going on in my head? well i have a buzz going, if i’m not drunk already, and i’m in the stage where i feel sexy and invincible. by dancing on my friend, i’m showing what i’m capable of and showing off my body without subjecting myself unwanted male groping in the process. the eye contact established during this dancing is inviting you and challenging you to keep up with me. i will continue to make eye contact and smile at you while i dance and make sure that you see me at all times. it’s a direct invitation and i’m openly displaying my sexuality to you.
I’m walking out of class and towards my locker to quickly grab my homework for the next period. pushing through everyone i bump directly into you and look up in embarrassment. we make eye contact and i smile at you......
what’s going on in my head? i’m most likely freaking out about looking like an idiot! does my makeup look ok? do i have bad breath? how’s my hair? what time is it? i can guarantee you i’m blushing. men, this is the perfect opportunity for you to smile and laugh and break the tension. a cute girl has just slammed into you by accident (or is it?) and there are all sorts of conversation starters:
where are you headed?
what class are you coming from?
i’m headed in the same direction, how about i walk with you so you don’t get seriously hurt since that seems to be an issue?
take this opportunity to get to know her briefly, make an impression. the eye contact y’all make from here on out will be determined by how you handled the situation. if you were fun and sweet, she will start to notice you in the hallway. tell her friends about you. smile at you whenever she sees you and you’ll start to get “the look” where she looks up at you from under her eyelashes when she passes you and smiles a flirty half smile. BUT, if you’re a dick about it or just keep going, she will forever associate you with embarrassment and will most likely avoid you in the halls. cute or not, you always want the girl to have good things to say about you. GIRLS TALK.
men, eye contact is basically a green light for any situation. if you establish eye contact with a woman multiple times in a situation, she’s interested in you and wants you to come over to her. a woman’s eyes are powerful, why do you think we wear eye makeup?! it’s to make sure that you look at them and we can send the subtle signals of sexuality and desire without openly screaming across the room that you have something we want. take advantage of these invitations!!
I literally could not have said it any better myself.
So Lindsay just gave us the different scenarios, what the girls are thinking.
So now heres what you need to do from the guys side.
So you notice the girl looking at you, maybe she's dancing..you catch her eye. HOLD THE EYE CONTACT, SMILE AT HER AND GO DANCE WITH HER. Like Lindsay said its an open invitation To: You. From: Her.
Things you can do wrong here are: Not hold the eye contact and look away, lame. Low confidence, shes not feeling it.
Or you do hold it she looks away. Your doing ok still...but you don't go talk to her but like kinda hover around her...not happening. Shes gonna notice and be kinda weirded out.
Also, say your walking in the hall or on the side walk and you see the cute girl walking in the opposite direction. Get eye contact with her, hold it until SHE breaks it. If she breaks it immediately shes most likely not interested. If she HOLDS IT and then breaks it, you can go talk to her. If you're walking in the opposite direction its ok not to go talk to her, shes going to remember you and you can talk to her the next time you see her walking.
Something I used to do to practice getting good with eye contact, well I still do it because its awesome .I found a really easy way to practice making eye contact. So I work at a frozen custard place, and hot girls FLOCK to this place. Part of my job is to take orders from the customers aka hot girls. So you have to look at them right? So I would look them straight into their eyes and give them SOLID eye contact when they were ordering. I've had times where i just forget their order or she forgets what she is trying to order because, this is going to sound gay ass hell, but the eye contact was so strong that they just forget what they're saying! You're practicing eye contact WHILE flirting with hot girls!
So if you have a job like mine, take advantage of it. Even if you don't have hot girls do it on MILFS or something.
2 quick rules to follow about eye contact:
1) Anytime you make it with a girl you hold it and let her break it
2)Smile. When you make eye contact smile, maybe wave at her if you want to. Acknowledge her and don't her make her feel like a idiot for putting her self out there for rejection.
Read more: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=staffsociety&thread=2516&page=7#ixzz1NmyRJWjv
<3 good post though from both of you I'm sure you put some time into it so +1 to both of you. I am feelin generous today
