Pickup

[perceverance]

ok so as all of you know, pickup has expanded. lots of people know about it and it is slowly becoming something normal. everyday i see more dudes with the 'i dont give a fuck mindset'. everyday i see more guys who know what is attractive to girls and act that way. everyday the pickup lifestyle is becoming more and more common. it is not as exciting to chicks anymore.

it is starting to piss me off that now the only thing that makes me unique, that makes me stand out to girls, is becoming more and more common. this deep and complete confidence that i have that is so attractive to women is losing its value bit by bit everyday because more men are starting to develop it. men with better looks, more money, more social value perhaps.

so i ask you: in a system that is slowly becoming more common. what can we do now to make us unique and more attractive? you can be average looking with supreme game but everyday there are more better looking guys with supreme confidence as well.

pickup is evolving and we need to come up with new ways to stand out. pickup theorys and mindsets are becoming public now and there is more competition. lets evolve.

[nutrick]

um. you guys should find out who you are. yeah. cookie cutter approaches only go so far. fuck everyone else. do your own thing i don't concern yourself with other people. as apparent as it seems, guys are still pussies everywhere, your immediate environment isn't the best overall gauge. stop worrying about other people and get your shit handled boys.

[perceverance]

the fact of the matter is. if a hot ass girl has a choice between a confident average looking guy and a attractive confident guy, who do you think shes gonna pick? dont try to deny it bro

[def454]

perc, you are bugging out man.

1. People are starting to realize that anyone with the right mindset can attract women, however few people go as deep into it as you have.

2. Just because a guy is just as confident and more attractive than you doesn't mean a girl would prefer him. What if you are funnier? what if you have more in common? Don't forget how small an advantage attractive people have, and besides theres no such thing as an ugly person, just a lazy one. If you are in good shape, well dressed, and well groomed then odds are you are a pretty good looking guy, maybe not a model, but that doesnt really matter

3. I dont really care if people everywhere are forced to attend bootcamps and i am the only one not allowed to go, I will still better attract girls than them, because i have more to offer a lady and she can tell just by looking at me. you should feel the same way.

No matter how many people know about pickup, you should be confident enough in your skills, your experiences, and yourself to know that you can attract a woman, and a damn fine one at that.

[perceverance]

i appreciate that post man, i really do. and i really wish women were like you said. but the fact of the matter is, most young chicks(highschool to college) would much rather prefer a attractive guy with game than a average guy with game. young chicks are superficial and believe it or not, DO care about looks. not entirely, but if given the choice between attractive and average, its an obvious choice. of course this would only apply if you and the guy have the same amount of 'game'.

[DanZy]

Dude you'd do exactly the same! If there were two girls: one average looking and the other hot with similar personalties, you'd go for the hot one every time. Don't be hypocritical and say "I wish women were x and y"

[Contempt]

Jun 2, 2011 5:04:12 GMT -5 perceverance said:

i appreciate that post man, i really do. and i really wish women were like you said. but the fact of the matter is, most young chicks(highschool to college) would much rather prefer a attractive guy with game than a average guy with game. young chicks are superficial and believe it or not, DO care about looks. not entirely, but if given the choice between attractive and average, its an obvious choice. of course this would only apply if you and the guy have the same amount of 'game'.

As long as you keep thinking that your absolutely fucked.

[Shampoo]

Mankind has survived and reproduced for THOUSANDS of years. If fucking chicks was as hard as your making it sound NONE of us would be here right now. Dont worry bro, just be your best self.

[Nick]

It's not about personality, looks, or anything else you HAVE... it's about what you can DO.

The difference between your smart ass and every other idiot who thinks he's confident is that you can APPROACH women and ESCALATE while other guys stand around whooping and hollering. That's IT. So fuck your mindset and just go after women. Your self pity is fucking annoying.

[def454]

Amen, Nick.

[Eastcoast]

The thing is that pua is teaching this dont give a fuck and have confidence movement because thats what people NATURALLY do. When you see a guy who has no clue what pua is doing these things and succeeding its for a reason. These are the things that turn a girl on, its not gonna all of a sudden become the average and girls are gonna be like WTF I HATE CONFIDENCE. This is a natural process, its just people decided to break it down and define what actually works.

All of your threads are about how "the game is broken" and how you have "good enough" game. Maybe its you and not the stuff were preaching?

Im not trying to rag on you but what ive taken from this site has worked for me and quite a few others so it cant all be shit.

[perceverance]

ehh maybe your right. i might be trippin but its just a thought that pondered into my head and i decided to write a thread about it.

[Contempt]

^ i'm pretty sure you wrote a thread like this along time ago too...

[timmywimmy]

This is how i see it sure theres gonna be more guys getting chicks so just move onto the next bitch. If some guy with better game then you is gaming her go on to the next bitch their will always be available woman

[perceverance]

^ what if i wanna be at the top of the foodchain though