perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Jun 16, 2011 1:01:07 GMT -5
all im sayin is that if your at a party, you shouldnt be the quiet guy in the corner who is naturally quiet and doesnt go out of his way to be energetic and have fun.
i feel like its based on the situation your in or else you are going to look socially awkward.
canadiankid, you can be introverted and extroverted and still be yourself. your telling me that there hasnt been a single time when you were feeling like chillin/being laid back and another time when you felt energetic/loud or whatever?
all of us have two sides to us. be your best self on both of them.
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Post by Adam on Jun 16, 2011 1:51:55 GMT -5
^i agree with you I am introvertive and extrovertive but leaning more to the introvert. My defult mode is introvert but I also love working with teams and I'm good at public speaking. I just find some social extrovertive things tedious or unnesessary. I can be at a party sitting alone enjoying the music and 5 people will come up to me and ask 'Are you upset l' Sometimes when I say no they think i'm lying. Also I am not one to talk about my problems to people. I prefer it that way I can usually figure it out on my own. I remember when I was a kid and I cried people would crowd me asking me to talk to them about it and I was basically like gtfo.
I'm not completly introvertive I just find some extrovertive stuff annoying. Just like some people find introvertive stuff boring
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Post by Amb1valence on Jun 16, 2011 11:46:38 GMT -5
Dude this is amazing.
What I want to know is how does 60 years of challenge relate to this? From what you're describing, you're doing the same type of shit that that guy preaches in his ebooks. I just finished the second book and it's some craaazy stuff, stuff I never would have thought before, but i haven't really tested it out.
And on a side note, how do you find out if you're an introvert or an extrovert? Ever since i started PUA i started being a lot more extroverted, obviously, maybe cuz I was anxious to show off my newfound confidence....or whatever. But there are always times where I would much rather sit at home and read/play guitar/mess with computer shit/etc. where the geek/introvert in me comes out. haha. Yet when i go to parties, it feels natural to be extroverted.........idk, is there a simple way to find out for sure if you're a natural introvert or not?
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 16, 2011 12:33:03 GMT -5
perc - yeah we have both sides, i agree completely, but its most important to rock which ever one your feeling, not the one that your "supposed" to
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Post by def454 on Jun 16, 2011 23:03:13 GMT -5
its not so cut and dry amb. you can have bits of both.
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Post by jmac on Jun 17, 2011 20:35:00 GMT -5
Jmac, if you don't stop saying "yo" and "bro" i may be hitting you in the near future ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png) I would enjoy seeing that one play out ![8-)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/cool.png) . But thats how a lot of people talk in my town including myself so your gonna have to live with it BRO. ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) Anyways Adam I wasn't trying to put down your post it's just that if you planned on making this like an idea or technique for someone who might be able to use this I would try and add more detail because it is pretty vague. But all-in-all I'm extremely happy to see that you guys are finally talking about BEING YOURSELF. That is the most attractive thing is someone who is comfortable in their OWN skin because who really wants to be with a guy thats always fake? No, you wanna be with someone genuine and that can just turn any situation into a good time. For example, Andrew may be ugly and have a huge man crush on Taylor Lautner but he is still himself and I can give him credit that he can be a fun guy..... Even though he is a complete homosexual so maybe he isn't the best example. But just be you, sure you can learn things from different sites or life-experiences but incorporate that into your own personality and just grow as a person, not pretend to become a different one. Honestly, I think that this thread has become a lot more informational for people who could use help in this area off of all the posts by you guys haha so Adam I would recommend adding all that you can think of on this subject since you have seemed to master it off the get-go and write up a more detailed thread under the "Articles" section and I am sure a mod/specialist will move it whoever can idk but if you can add all these posts together then I am sure you'll make a great article. The only mod who won't is Andrew because not only is he a heartless douchemonster but he gets really jealous of people who are just generally better at life then him.... If you couldnt tell by the insults thrown at me in the messages sent to the users. ![8-)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/cool.png)
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