The Introvert Pua

[Adam]

This is an experiment I'll be trying. The objective is if I can be an introvert and successfully pull girls. My motivation for this experiment is that pua has felt fake for me. I felt like I was doing all this crazy shit 'cause pua told me to'. Forcing an Introvert into an extrovert is not the answer. So i'll tell you how it is going.

Pua Introvert

What this means

• meeting people through friends rather than cold approaches
  
• Be more low energy alpha male
  
• Seductive glances and listening.
  

What this does not mean

• Being a pussy
  
• Being a shut in
  
• Being 'too' standoffish
  

[nutrick]

i like this idea. let me know how it goes. +1

[jmac]

To be honest bro, I would call that being normal.

[milehighclubber]

^Congratulations Captain Obvious.

BTW Adam, I'm an introvert my self and I felt the same way about my game not feeling right. The hook ups weren't so much on my part last time. But that's just me. The variables differ, so let me know how it goes too. I might just learn something again. +1

[jmac]

Jun 14, 2011 7:21:25 GMT -5 @milehighclubber said:

^Congratulations Captain Obvious.

Yo tough guy im saying that because there is no reason to call it "introvert pua" if your acting like a normal guy. The only difference is that an "introvert" is usually more of a loner or socially awkward kid. So I don't understand how I am "captain obvious" dumbass.

[Contempt]

Nice rep jmac. Seems we switched.

Chill out guys. Mile, I think what you were trying to say was:



Jmac, if you don't stop saying "yo" and "bro" i may be hitting you in the near future

The only reason he said introvert (i'm assuming) is because nowadays theres alot of emphasis on that "player guy" being more extraverted and high energy alpha as opposed to low energy alpha, he's just describing what he's going to be doing. No need to get picky about his word choice.

[smoob]

Are you actually introverted?

And I actually like the idea - I'm pretty mellow and all the advice about high energy doesn't really interest me.

[Adam]

^exactly

I finally get it this is crazy I think I'm on to something. Today I hooked up with an HB 7.5. This mindset works for me alot. I did not expect to see instant results.

You know what pissed me off though, it was so fucking easy. I hardly said a word. Usually in the interaction I would be like: dhv, show more intent, vibe in my mind keeping a mental checklist but this time all that I was saying in my mind was: chill.

I'll post a FR soon

[canadiankid]

So what your saying is you've internalized it. That's good

[perceverance]

i think you should be both introverted and extroverted depending on the situation. keep it alpha on both though

[canadiankid]

Or he could be himself. That makes people like you more. Just sayin.

[Adam]

I think this is my natural self. I just slapped pua at the end of it haha. I let go of the concept of "If you wanna get girls you have to be an extrovert and do crazy shit durr." because I read an article I reached through stumble upon. I think it was 'Ten myths about introverts'. I remember the last myth being 'Introverts can be fixed and changed into extroverts' the article basically said introvert cannot be changed nor should they try to. That is their personality and introverts are as much if not even more intersting people as extroverts and also a great contribution to society.

Thats when I said to myself maybe I should stop trying so hard and be myself. The person who day dreams, watches clouds, and sits in the sun for fun.

[smoob]

^mhmm I saw that article too via stumbleupon (I'm assuming its the same one) - thats why this thread caught my eye.

I'm introverted to a degree but really what I like about it is the emphasis on being yourself. Telling someone introverted to become extroverted is a big change so I think this is a good idea.

[def454]

eye contact alone can get you hookups, your results dont surprise me at all.

In sports they usually call it "playing YOUR game"

for example, a football team that plays fast-paced, finesse football will beat any team if they can keep the pace fast and build momentum.

however, if they meet a team that sticks heavily to solid, fundamental play, who doesn't fall for their tricks, then they will never gain their initial momentum and fundamentals will beat finesse.

The point is whichever team does not allow the other's style of play to dominate the game will often win.

talking to women is much the same, in fact living your life is just the same. live life YOUR way. If you are laid back and slow-paced then be that guy. The key is to make it your reality. If you're a slow-paced guy, then everyone should feel a strange calm when talking to you.

If you are a slow-paced guy, and she feels relaxed and calm just by your presence that is OBVIOUSLY attractive.

If you are a fast-paced guy and you can bring her into that fast-living crazy world then that is obviously attractive as well.

so PLAY YOUR GAME, it all works in the end.

[Adam]

^couldn't have said it better myself