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Post by Contempt on Jun 13, 2011 21:21:05 GMT -5
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 13, 2011 23:02:27 GMT -5
First link didn't work for me... Second link... It's not normal to think like that? Huh that explains a lot. That's exactly how I think
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Amb1valence
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yo dawg
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Post by Amb1valence on Jun 13, 2011 23:04:25 GMT -5
Brad Branson's article was the first real PUA article I read, it's like one of my #1 recommendations for noobs in my post in the newcomers section...........GOOOOOOOOOD shit. Omg I love that man so much.
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Post by Contempt on Jun 14, 2011 10:32:32 GMT -5
First link works now
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Post by amarok on Jun 14, 2011 19:13:27 GMT -5
First link didn't work for me... Second link... It's not normal to think like that? Huh that explains a lot. That's exactly how I think That's how I got after I first started PUA, but lately I thought it was better to cool down my ego. I guess not though. Since I haven't been so cocky, I really have been a lot more stressed.
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Post by Contempt on Jun 15, 2011 10:51:39 GMT -5
Its not supposed to be your ego, its supposed to be confidence that comes from "within"
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 15, 2011 18:42:29 GMT -5
Its not supposed to be your ego, its supposed to be confidence that comes from "within" Yeah
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Post by tozer on Jun 17, 2011 4:16:01 GMT -5
has anyone read Brad's ebook Command and Challenge?
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infamous93
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Life is easy.
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Post by infamous93 on Jun 17, 2011 13:53:27 GMT -5
This is awesome ;D
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Post by Contempt on Jun 17, 2011 16:33:20 GMT -5
has anyone read Brad's ebook Command and Challenge? Is it any good? I may go check it out now...
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Post by Slick on Jun 17, 2011 20:02:53 GMT -5
A few months ago I had this mindset, I kept thinking I was the shit. I noticed people stopped liking me when that mindset was going on. Are you sure this works?
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Post by tozer on Jun 17, 2011 20:16:36 GMT -5
has anyone read Brad's ebook Command and Challenge? Is it any good? I may go check it out now... Its not bad, just talks about tonality
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Amb1valence
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yo dawg
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Post by Amb1valence on Jun 17, 2011 21:47:25 GMT -5
A few months ago I had this mindset, I kept thinking I was the shit. I noticed people stopped liking me when that mindset was going on. Are you sure this works? It may have been because you weren't congruent with your actions. For that type of EXTREME self-love mindset, you have to be EXTREMELY genuine about it.....not just walking around like saying to everyone "hi I'm the shit!" and then sneaking off to check if your hair's alright. Like it's not one of those "fake it till you make it" things, you really have to genuinely be in love with how awesome you are as a person.
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 18, 2011 11:26:31 GMT -5
A few months ago I had this mindset, I kept thinking I was the shit. I noticed people stopped liking me when that mindset was going on. Are you sure this works? It's all about balance. If your an arrogant asshole then people dislike you but if you just know in your head, look at me I'm awesome girls love that.
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Post by Contempt on Jun 18, 2011 14:24:17 GMT -5
Also its a general mindset of just thinking that you are awesome. Its not some ego fed madness. If you truly have this confidence from within, your not going to go around bragging and being an arrogant asshole (as canadiankid said) because you know you don't need to brag about being the best, you just are (and people will see that). Guys who brag a ton and act like that are not actually confident with their skill level or how good they are at certain things because they find in necessary to try to prove to other people how "amazing" they are because they are not sure of it themselves. You should feel no such urge.
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