Analyze my online game

[Lys]

I was gaming an HB7, one thing to keep in mind, she reinitiated the chat about 10 times and she shows IOIs in school all the time.

IWantCessation (12:26:02 AM): go protestants!
IWantCessation (12:26:05 AM): its nick btw
her (12:26:35 AM): ooo hey whats up
her (12:26:42 AM): YAY protestants
IWantCessation (12:26:50 AM): lol why are we great?
her (12:27:02 AM): because we are
IWantCessation (12:27:07 AM): true
her (12:27:16 AM): so whats up
IWantCessation (12:27:25 AM): not a lot just chillin you?
her (12:27:32 AM): same
IWantCessation (12:27:40 AM): cool cool
her (12:28:05 AM): do you usually stay up this late?
IWantCessation (12:28:16 AM): only on fridays and saturdays
her (12:28:26 AM): do you go to service?
IWantCessation (12:28:33 AM): yeah, i'm going tomorrow
her (12:28:41 AM): dont you have to wake up early?
IWantCessation (12:28:54 AM): I go to an !! o'clock service
IWantCessation (12:28:57 AM): 11*
her (12:29:06 AM): wow lucky you
her (12:29:12 AM): mines at 9:30
IWantCessation (12:29:15 AM): ouch
IWantCessation (12:29:32 AM): we have one at 9:30, but my parents are to lazy to wake up then
her (12:29:38 AM): lol
her (12:29:56 AM): my parents dont go to church its kinda weird
IWantCessation (12:30:11 AM): eh, my dad doesn't attend sometimes
IWantCessation (12:30:23 AM): my mom's crazy about going though
her (12:30:47 AM): hardcore christian and a not so much
her (12:30:53 AM): wow interesting mix
IWantCessation (12:31:05 AM): yeah, my dad was catholic once, but he converted
IWantCessation (12:31:27 AM): alright, so I need your opinion on something
her (12:31:38 AM): sure?
IWantCessation (12:31:59 AM): alright, so I was at my other house in the poconos last weekend
IWantCessation (12:32:17 AM): and my friend was there and we were stacking wood, snowboarding etc.
IWantCessation (12:32:42 AM): and we were snowboarding one day when he said the sweats were better than jeans
IWantCessation (12:32:51 AM): so which is better sweats or jeans?
her (12:33:02 AM): hmmm in which way?
IWantCessation (12:33:08 AM): comfort wise
her (12:33:11 AM): because it depends on the situation
her (12:33:23 AM): ummmm.... thats hard
her (12:33:54 AM): jeans
IWantCessation (12:33:56 AM): yay
IWantCessation (12:34:06 AM): i knew you had good taste
her (12:34:12 AM): lol thanks
her (12:34:32 AM): like i really like sweats but you cant go to many places in sweats
IWantCessation (12:34:39 AM): true true
her (12:34:53 AM): and jeans do look better for catching peoples eye
her (12:35:03 AM): lol
IWantCessation (12:35:16 AM): yeah, I only wear sweats around the house
her (12:35:50 AM): yea me too and bs trips and before games
IWantCessation (12:36:18 AM): yeah, before anytime I swim competition wise I'll wear sweats
IWantCessation (12:36:25 AM): gotta love being state champs =)
her (12:36:34 AM): lucky you
her (12:36:49 AM): i wish i knew how that feels
IWantCessation (12:36:54 AM): lol
IWantCessation (12:36:55 AM): you play volleyball right?
her (12:36:58 AM): yea
IWantCessation (12:37:07 AM): Are you guys any good?
her (12:37:14 AM): kinda
IWantCessation (12:37:30 AM): not state champs?
her (12:37:34 AM): nope
her (12:37:54 AM): we always make the playoffs but then we get kicked out the first round
her (12:38:02 AM): we just arent that good
IWantCessation (12:38:17 AM): well you'll win states sometime or later, might take a couple years though
her (12:38:40 AM): a couple years
her (12:38:41 AM): ?
her (12:38:46 AM): i got one year left
IWantCessation (12:39:01 AM): lol never know, next year might be THE year
her (12:39:10 AM): maybe
her (12:39:19 AM): supposedly next year will be good
her (12:39:30 AM): because all the juniors are really good so next year should be fun
IWantCessation (12:39:37 AM): yeah
IWantCessation (12:39:58 AM): ok, so I'm going to try something
IWantCessation (12:40:04 AM): Do you believe in esp?
her (12:40:10 AM): esp?
her (12:40:13 AM): as in?
IWantCessation (12:40:23 AM): Extra sensory power like psychics
her (12:40:37 AM): as in read peoples minds?
IWantCessation (12:40:41 AM): yeah
her (12:40:47 AM): i guess
IWantCessation (12:41:00 AM): alright, well I'm going to atempt it over aim ok?
her (12:41:05 AM): ok
her (12:41:08 AM): but idk if it will work
IWantCessation (12:41:15 AM): lol me either never tried over aim
IWantCessation (12:41:23 AM): think of a number between 1 and 4
her (12:41:27 AM): ok
IWantCessation (12:41:30 AM): is it 3?
her (12:41:37 AM): whats weird
her (12:41:58 AM): youre right but did you guess?
IWantCessation (12:42:05 AM): hold on, not done yet
IWantCessation (12:42:13 AM): now think of a number between 1 and 10
her (12:42:24 AM): ok
IWantCessation (12:42:26 AM): is it 7?
her (12:42:28 AM): no
IWantCessation (12:42:31 AM): aww
IWantCessation (12:42:39 AM): well theres proff that it only works sometimes
IWantCessation (12:42:43 AM): proof*
her (12:42:51 AM): and it is?
IWantCessation (12:43:01 AM): between 1 and 4 i was right
her (12:43:37 AM): i think the fewer numbers the more chance you are going to guess it
her (12:43:47 AM): but i dont want to get math involved
IWantCessation (12:43:54 AM): lol who does
her (12:44:13 AM): true
her (12:44:22 AM): oo yea my number was 6
IWantCessation (12:44:29 AM): aww off by one
her (12:44:33 AM): yea
her (12:44:43 AM): i only picked it because its my number for volleyball
IWantCessation (12:44:54 AM): oh, I see
her (12:45:01 AM): yup
her(12:46:26 AM): do you guys have number for swimming?
IWantCessation (12:46:46 AM): nah, we just get asigned lanes dpending on ability
her (12:47:07 AM): so not even on your caps?
IWantCessation (12:47:17 AM): no, it just says our names and west
her (12:47:27 AM): oooo cool
her (12:47:35 AM): so how good are you?
IWantCessation (12:48:06 AM): I'm pretty good, in the summer, I'm ranked 1 in backstroke for our team
IWantCessation (12:48:18 AM): on west I'm still decent
her (12:48:29 AM): decent only?
IWantCessation (12:49:01 AM): was last year, froshman usually aren't that good
IWantCessation (12:49:12 AM): I only assume that I'm a lot better now
her (12:50:04 AM): you probably are
her (12:50:19 AM): but our team is pretty beastly from what i hear
IWantCessation (12:50:28 AM): swim team?
her (12:50:46 AM): yea
IWantCessation (12:51:02 AM): yeah, but we lost a lot of seniors that were incredible
her (12:51:14 AM): that usually happens
IWantCessation (12:51:17 AM): yeah
IWantCessation (12:51:43 AM): alright, I'm going to try another psychic thing over aim if you don't mind?
her (12:51:55 AM): i guess not
IWantCessation (12:52:01 AM): alright
IWantCessation (12:52:20 AM): Imagine in your head for now just three things
IWantCessation (12:52:29 AM): a sky the horizon and the desert
IWantCessation (12:52:51 AM): now picture a cube, where is it, what is it made of and how big is it.
IWantCessation (12:53:38 AM): now add a ladder, where is it, what is it made of, how big is it, where is it in relation to the cube
IWantCessation (12:54:20 AM): now add some flowers to the picture, how many are there, what kind where in relation to the cube and ladder
IWantCessation (12:54:53 AM): add a horse to the picture, where is it, what color is it, what is it doing, where is it in relation to everything else
IWantCessation (12:55:22 AM): and finally there's a storm in the picture, where is it, which way is it proceeding, what kind of storm and how big is it
IWantCessation (12:55:47 AM): alright, i'll let you process that for a little bit, only got another couple of minutes though
her (12:56:08 AM): ok im done
IWantCessation (12:56:11 AM): ok
IWantCessation (12:56:30 AM): answers?
her (12:56:44 AM): wait i tell you or you tell me?
IWantCessation (12:56:48 AM): you tell me
her (12:56:54 AM): ok
her(12:58:51 AM): tiny silver box in the sky, aluminum ladder right under its touching the box and the horizon, a sunflower on top of the box and bunch of them around the ladder on the horizon, a brown horse next to the sunflowers sleeping, and a tiny snow storm coming from the left in the sky
IWantCessation (12:59:06 AM): alright...
her (12:59:10 AM): idk
IWantCessation (12:59:18 AM): lemme think for a sec
her (12:59:31 AM): ok
IWantCessation (1:00:10 AM): alright the box means that your a daydreamer, imaginative, but unrealistic at times
IWantCessation (1:00:57 AM): the ladder means your outgoing, sociable and dfferent at times
IWantCessation (1:01:56 AM): the flowers mean your very close to children and you find them beautiful
IWantCessation (1:03:01 AM): the horse means your that you want a relationship in your life
IWantCessation (1:03:52 AM): and the storm means your that your not overwhelmed with anything
IWantCessation (1:04:12 AM): alright, I'm done blabbering, was I right about any of that?
her (1:04:25 AM): all of them but that last one
her (1:04:29 AM): thats really creepy
IWantCessation (1:04:32 AM): lol
her (1:04:58 AM): i do have thing overwhelming me
IWantCessation (1:05:05 AM): what some consider creepy others consider amazing =)
her (1:05:16 AM): well I'm bound not to be right about everything
her(1:05:21 AM): lol
her (1:05:30 AM): its amazing but really creepy at the same time
IWantCessation (1:05:35 AM): lol
IWantCessation (1:05:49 AM): alright, I have to go parents don't want me on this late due to Church
IWantCessation (1:06:13 AM): I wish I could be on aim tomorrow, but can't
IWantCessation (1:06:37 AM): If I wanted to continue this conversation tomorrow though, how would I go about doing that?
her (1:06:43 AM): ok me too
her(1:07:44 AM): cant you go on your ipod?
IWantCessation (1:08:16 AM): Later if I can find it, doubt it though
IWantCessation (1:08:25 AM): do you have texting?
her(1:08:30 AM): nope sorry
IWantCessation (1:08:33 AM): aww ok
her (1:08:37 AM): i know it sucks
her(1:08:41 AM): i wish i did
her(1:09:17 AM): well maybe ill aim your phone
her (1:09:20 AM): or something
IWantCessation (1:09:29 AM): alright bye =)
her(1:09:32 AM): bye

[Lys]

I do know her irl too

[Grape]

ehh.. too much 'material cold read' pizzazz. you never talked sexually with her!

[optimus]

Agreed. Cold reading is great, but you have to keep the attraction. In the absence of kino, talk dirty! Also use future time whatchawhosits, they're very powerful.

[Lys]

cool cool, xan you elaborate on the use of future time?

[optimus]

I think mystery calls them future time projections.

Say things like, "Imagine six months from now when we're bffs with benefits, we might be shopping or whatever ..."and then tell a little hypothetical story about her. Let's say you're talking about ESP (which is an easy segue from the cold reading) "... we'll be shopping and we'll meet some people while I'm buying some makeup. Let's say they're pretty cool and all, but we wanna get out of there, maybe fool around in a secluded corner. I feel like I have this connection with you, where I could start an excuse about my friend Lily, and you'd be able to continue about how we have to get her a birthday present, and we'd escape. It's almost like we think as one."

Especially when talking about your connection, come back to present tense. It's not "we will have a connection," it's "we do have a connection."

Naturally you need to calibrate to her comfort levels, maybe you can only talk about going out for ice-cream in six months, but I've had girls where I've used this and talked about buying condoms and having sex in the back of the car. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! If you can't do that you aren't a PUA.

[Grape]

i usually talk about completely childish love.
we're going to make cookies together, ride bikes, and goto the moon to eat some space cheese. =]
opens them up and then you slowly escalate

[Amplified]

Nov 16, 2008 23:56:03 GMT -5 optimus said:

I think mystery calls them future time projections.

I googled this and I couldn't find anything.

[Grape]

"we're going to blablabla later tonight."

[optimus]

Nov 18, 2008 4:56:25 GMT -5 Amplified said:

Nov 16, 2008 23:56:03 GMT -5 optimus said:

I think mystery calls them future time projections.

I googled this and I couldn't find anything.

Yeah, I've seen it in a couple vids, but I can't find anything at the moment. Still, the rough idea is in the post.

[hollyhood]

i read as far as i could, seems to me your opener forced you to go into small fluff talk. work on a better opener so you can easily transicion into your routines/materiel ect.

[SenorBubbz]

Nov 24, 2008 23:49:16 GMT -5 hollyhood said:

i read as far as i could, seems to me your opener forced you to go into small fluff talk. work on a better opener so you can easily transicion into your routines/materiel ect.

Openers don't matter, and fluff talk is ultimate.
If you're good at vibing, you can OWN the convo with fluff talk.

Routines aren't everything.. I barely even use them.

[optimus]

Fluff talk isn't everything. If you're good at vibing, you have a deeper conversation. A good conversation includes attraction switches, DHVs, qualification. If you maintain a screening frame, it isn't a problem.

Small talk, as a general rule, has none of these things.

[SenorBubbz]

Nov 26, 2008 23:55:27 GMT -5 optimus said:

Fluff talk isn't everything. If you're good at vibing, you have a deeper conversation. A good conversation includes attraction switches, DHVs, qualification. If you maintain a screening frame, it isn't a problem.

Small talk, as a general rule, has none of these things.

I thought vibing was fluff talk... =/