Post by Eastcoast on Jun 20, 2011 23:38:20 GMT -5
The concept of inner game is often an ambiguous misunderstood idea in this weird world of creepers we have.
What I interpret it as is the self-confidence that you have whenever your doing anything at all in your life. If your self belief is strong then the other outer game concepts that are taught are so so so simple and almost insignificant.
Many of us try to emulate Naturals, we observe their behaviour and try to disect it down to every specific mannerism that they have. This is great and all but if you pay attention to one thing alone that makes them stand out it is their SELF-BELIEF that seperates them from the crowd of chodes that exist everywhere on this planet. They genuinely believe in themselves 100% without question.
Some of you might say “ No their just cocky faggots” do they come off that way sometimes? Yes sure they do, but they honestly dont give a fuck because they are who they are. There is no questioning that. They understand they are good enough and through the feedback they have in life they BELIEVE everyone will accept them.
Now I know your all sitting there jerking off to old episodes of pokemon and saying “ Ok excellent naturals believe in themselves and all that, but they also steal all of my women AND my mother. Preach to me how to be like them”
Well because you are on this website it most likely means that you are not really happy of content with who YOU are as a person.
I too used to have this hurdle an this was the most important thing I had to get over in order to level up.
The first thing you have to do is identify and reconize any limiting beliefs or thoughts that are coming up in your mind.
Mine were
-My acne
- I NEEDED to have muscles (LOL WTF)
I needed better style
I wouldnt actually know what to do in a real life situation with girls
These would come up every time I would approach a girl. And if I fucked up they would be my rationalization. I would make these illogical excuses like “ If i was jacked that girl would have liked me.”
Now unless your Andrew and try to live your life exactly like mine then you will have to identify your own personal demons that are hurting you.
After you identify them you must put thought into how to conquer them.
Some things were simpler for me such as
-Getting better style
Getting more muscular
Losing my acne
I started looking at better styles that worked for me. Hitting the gym consistently. And taking products to clear my face up.
Did I become the most stylish? Nope
Did I become the most jacked person I knew? Nope
Do I still have acne from time to time? YEP
But what helped my confidence as a person was knowing that i was growing and working to become a better person in my eyes and progressing every day.
With the experience that I was gaining and the time I was spending talking to girls I started to realize that I WAS ENOUGH. Nothing distroys your old beliefs like the constant reinforcement of new, better reactions that were happening every day.
Once you conquer your limiting beliefs that are holding you back you will gain 100% SELF-BELIEF. Thats how I got to where I am today and its pretty liberating. Your self confidence is everything.
So next time you feel your doubt in the back of your mind. Remember
FUCK THAT YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH.
What I interpret it as is the self-confidence that you have whenever your doing anything at all in your life. If your self belief is strong then the other outer game concepts that are taught are so so so simple and almost insignificant.
Many of us try to emulate Naturals, we observe their behaviour and try to disect it down to every specific mannerism that they have. This is great and all but if you pay attention to one thing alone that makes them stand out it is their SELF-BELIEF that seperates them from the crowd of chodes that exist everywhere on this planet. They genuinely believe in themselves 100% without question.
Some of you might say “ No their just cocky faggots” do they come off that way sometimes? Yes sure they do, but they honestly dont give a fuck because they are who they are. There is no questioning that. They understand they are good enough and through the feedback they have in life they BELIEVE everyone will accept them.
Now I know your all sitting there jerking off to old episodes of pokemon and saying “ Ok excellent naturals believe in themselves and all that, but they also steal all of my women AND my mother. Preach to me how to be like them”
Well because you are on this website it most likely means that you are not really happy of content with who YOU are as a person.
I too used to have this hurdle an this was the most important thing I had to get over in order to level up.
The first thing you have to do is identify and reconize any limiting beliefs or thoughts that are coming up in your mind.
Mine were
-My acne
- I NEEDED to have muscles (LOL WTF)
I needed better style
I wouldnt actually know what to do in a real life situation with girls
These would come up every time I would approach a girl. And if I fucked up they would be my rationalization. I would make these illogical excuses like “ If i was jacked that girl would have liked me.”
Now unless your Andrew and try to live your life exactly like mine then you will have to identify your own personal demons that are hurting you.
After you identify them you must put thought into how to conquer them.
Some things were simpler for me such as
-Getting better style
Getting more muscular
Losing my acne
I started looking at better styles that worked for me. Hitting the gym consistently. And taking products to clear my face up.
Did I become the most stylish? Nope
Did I become the most jacked person I knew? Nope
Do I still have acne from time to time? YEP
But what helped my confidence as a person was knowing that i was growing and working to become a better person in my eyes and progressing every day.
With the experience that I was gaining and the time I was spending talking to girls I started to realize that I WAS ENOUGH. Nothing distroys your old beliefs like the constant reinforcement of new, better reactions that were happening every day.
Once you conquer your limiting beliefs that are holding you back you will gain 100% SELF-BELIEF. Thats how I got to where I am today and its pretty liberating. Your self confidence is everything.
So next time you feel your doubt in the back of your mind. Remember
FUCK THAT YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH.
