Post by RMO on Jun 27, 2011 18:39:39 GMT -5
Heres how I see the evolution of adult game, for naturals* or MM or whatever the fuck you use
1.) You are an AFC, bad at social and seductive game, you dont know how to deal with women, they are like a separate species and in order to make up for your lack of knoweldge you fall into the cliche nice quy stereotype
2.) As soon as you read anything related to PUA or exposing the limiting beliefs of society you Immediately become an rAFC or reformed average frustrated chump, you still arent great with the ladies, but you know that you can improve and learn more, and thats half the battle right there.
3.) You begin experimenting with different responses, openers, approaches, body language, vocal tone, ect ect. You begin to understand how social circle game actually works and you begin the path of improvement, you also get REJECTED A SHIT TON, you are on the path to becoming a PUA.
4.) Some of your girls actually pan out and you get closer to sex, and you get rejected alot less at the social level and AA isnt such a big deal, but they are still inexperienced with escalating physically and they begin tapping into thier inner beast and many of their basic routines and stacks in the social game are starting to internalize, they are still PUAs in training.
5.) Social and seductive game is tight, they still get rejected quite a bit, but they know actually fully succeed and dont worry about rejection. there are still routines and stacks, but more advanced ones are becoming internalized. You are now a pick up artist, women arent a problem in your life anymore.
6.) You become a mPUA and have widespread success, you also devolop your own routines, but still rely on your stacks and you do most of the approaching still. These guys are likely to find something else on thier life to work on, or they teach. mPUA's arent necessarily leaders or providers and their personalities may be the same since they were rAFC's, but they have enough success that they dont give a shit, and they find women that they actually like and build great relationships.
7.) you become a true alpha male
When you approach a woman your stacks are so internalized you just talk to her, you engage in social circle game without any issues and effortlessly transition to sexual all while escalating normally. This is always direct, it may not be overbearing or consciously direct, but the alpha male doesnt hide his intentions. One big difference between a mPUA and an alpha is alphas have other things going on in thier lives, they dont need women and are content without them. They also dont rely on actually talking or approaching, they run intense nonverbal game, and girls are throwing themselves at his feet. Alpha males are like movie stars or athletes when it comes to women, they dont have to say a word in order to immeditaley generate sexual attraction and escalate quickly.
You'll find that few instructors are alphas, many are just mPUAs or PUAs, and that teaching someone how to be alpha is not only very marketable, its very hard, because most of it is centering a persons morals and finding thier beliefs and generating a fully formed and balanced personality. It is an intense personal journey. It is also not the end, there is infinite room for improvement even at the stage of alpha male, its just much more introspective then social. Theres hundreds of levels above simple alpha male, leading to personalities which are movie stars, CEOs, politicians, ect ect
There is an issue. This escalation isnt exactly right for highschool.
Highschool is all social, and unless you already know sexual, experimenting is dangerous because everyone gossips. The alphas,mPUAs, and PUA personalities in highschool were able to get most of their experimenting out fot he way in junior high and thier freshman year, they are comfortable in their social circles and no longer need to work on thier social skills, just stay in the game, and fix their inner problems. This presents an issue for anybody older then a freshman who is an AFC. Once you discover this PUA stuff much of the advice doenst apply, but not becuase it doesnt work, or because tis not compatible, but because its too complicated. girls in highschool are REAL easy to game because they arent very mature.
I think that focusing on your introspective qualities, and not giving a shit about outcomes and learning how to have fun in social circles, make friends, and escalate will allow you to quickly jump up many rungs in the HS social ladder, and that you cant use many routines or stacks, you need to become an improv PUA making things up that are congruent to who you are, because you already have enough stress in your scholarly life without memorizing gambits and stacks. Now you should have some basic responses, particularly to amogs, but for the most part, play the social circle game and build up confidence, find your girls, learn how to sexually experiment without worry of social backlash. That way when you go into college you will at least be at PUA level if not an mPUA or even an Alpha.
*The only difference between naturals and PUAs in adult game is naturals developed the skills earlier and they never looked at PUA material to develop their routines.
but thats just my opinion, feel free to comment.
1.) You are an AFC, bad at social and seductive game, you dont know how to deal with women, they are like a separate species and in order to make up for your lack of knoweldge you fall into the cliche nice quy stereotype
2.) As soon as you read anything related to PUA or exposing the limiting beliefs of society you Immediately become an rAFC or reformed average frustrated chump, you still arent great with the ladies, but you know that you can improve and learn more, and thats half the battle right there.
3.) You begin experimenting with different responses, openers, approaches, body language, vocal tone, ect ect. You begin to understand how social circle game actually works and you begin the path of improvement, you also get REJECTED A SHIT TON, you are on the path to becoming a PUA.
4.) Some of your girls actually pan out and you get closer to sex, and you get rejected alot less at the social level and AA isnt such a big deal, but they are still inexperienced with escalating physically and they begin tapping into thier inner beast and many of their basic routines and stacks in the social game are starting to internalize, they are still PUAs in training.
5.) Social and seductive game is tight, they still get rejected quite a bit, but they know actually fully succeed and dont worry about rejection. there are still routines and stacks, but more advanced ones are becoming internalized. You are now a pick up artist, women arent a problem in your life anymore.
6.) You become a mPUA and have widespread success, you also devolop your own routines, but still rely on your stacks and you do most of the approaching still. These guys are likely to find something else on thier life to work on, or they teach. mPUA's arent necessarily leaders or providers and their personalities may be the same since they were rAFC's, but they have enough success that they dont give a shit, and they find women that they actually like and build great relationships.
7.) you become a true alpha male
When you approach a woman your stacks are so internalized you just talk to her, you engage in social circle game without any issues and effortlessly transition to sexual all while escalating normally. This is always direct, it may not be overbearing or consciously direct, but the alpha male doesnt hide his intentions. One big difference between a mPUA and an alpha is alphas have other things going on in thier lives, they dont need women and are content without them. They also dont rely on actually talking or approaching, they run intense nonverbal game, and girls are throwing themselves at his feet. Alpha males are like movie stars or athletes when it comes to women, they dont have to say a word in order to immeditaley generate sexual attraction and escalate quickly.
You'll find that few instructors are alphas, many are just mPUAs or PUAs, and that teaching someone how to be alpha is not only very marketable, its very hard, because most of it is centering a persons morals and finding thier beliefs and generating a fully formed and balanced personality. It is an intense personal journey. It is also not the end, there is infinite room for improvement even at the stage of alpha male, its just much more introspective then social. Theres hundreds of levels above simple alpha male, leading to personalities which are movie stars, CEOs, politicians, ect ect
There is an issue. This escalation isnt exactly right for highschool.
Highschool is all social, and unless you already know sexual, experimenting is dangerous because everyone gossips. The alphas,mPUAs, and PUA personalities in highschool were able to get most of their experimenting out fot he way in junior high and thier freshman year, they are comfortable in their social circles and no longer need to work on thier social skills, just stay in the game, and fix their inner problems. This presents an issue for anybody older then a freshman who is an AFC. Once you discover this PUA stuff much of the advice doenst apply, but not becuase it doesnt work, or because tis not compatible, but because its too complicated. girls in highschool are REAL easy to game because they arent very mature.
I think that focusing on your introspective qualities, and not giving a shit about outcomes and learning how to have fun in social circles, make friends, and escalate will allow you to quickly jump up many rungs in the HS social ladder, and that you cant use many routines or stacks, you need to become an improv PUA making things up that are congruent to who you are, because you already have enough stress in your scholarly life without memorizing gambits and stacks. Now you should have some basic responses, particularly to amogs, but for the most part, play the social circle game and build up confidence, find your girls, learn how to sexually experiment without worry of social backlash. That way when you go into college you will at least be at PUA level if not an mPUA or even an Alpha.
*The only difference between naturals and PUAs in adult game is naturals developed the skills earlier and they never looked at PUA material to develop their routines.
but thats just my opinion, feel free to comment.
