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Post by pumpum on Jul 18, 2011 23:49:51 GMT -5
Me and my girlfriend are pretty close. Unfortunately, today we had a fight and now were on some "time off". Basically what happened was that today me, my friends and her were hanging out. The problem is that, my friends don't know we are bf and gf, she really just doesn't want anyone to know except for maybe a few people because she's afraid they will question her and stuff. Anyways im fine with that i mean she doesnt want it to go public fine with me as long as i get the action  but the problem is that she barely talks to me when my friends are around. I told her about this and she said i don't talk to her, which i mean i agree i don't but thats because whenever i do she acts as if im gonna bust our secret and they are all gonna find out. To be honest i really want her attention, what i really want to know is how can i get her to want me more? Also, today when we were hanging out with my other friends she left the group to go for a walk with another friend of mine and i was like really Jealous i mean who wouldnt be? your gf goes for a walk alone. Thats what our fight was about and i knew like they didnt do anything, cause i know she wouldnt cheat on me if she would she would break up with me first, thats just the type of person she is. what do i do?  like i really want her to want me ? and plz don't suggest me to break up with the girl because its complicated, that is like my last resort if anything... |
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Post by pumpum on Jul 18, 2011 23:51:16 GMT -5
*how do i get her to really want my attention is essentially the questions...
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Post by pumpum on Jul 18, 2011 23:52:01 GMT -5
and btw its a week long time out if thats of any importance
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Post by Parkwhore on Jul 19, 2011 1:11:41 GMT -5
I would act disinterested toward her, don't be all over her dick. Be confident, be alpha. I'm not bothered by girls i date being with other guys because I know they won't do it and if they do, it's been made clear that there's no forgiveness and no second chances, it's done. Not to mention I've got other bitches to fuck.
The whole hiding your relationship shit is sketchy as fuck. That's not a relationship. What is this, 5th grade? You should have other bitches to go to, get her jealous.
Most of all, quit being needy.
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Post by Nick on Jul 19, 2011 13:09:53 GMT -5
What the fuck is with hiding the relationship? Does anyone else know but you two?! Lol... That's not good bro
Secondly, if you have a week break... make fucking use of it. Go out and get another girl. Get multiple girls. Forget about her for a second and do something fun. You're way too attached to this girl and she doesn't even want to tell anyone else your in a relationship lol
I'd break up with her. That's fucking stupid.
FUCKING STUPID
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Post by pumpum on Jul 19, 2011 13:11:28 GMT -5
Yeah man your right, the hiding out relationship IS sketchy as fuck and i fuck'n hate that the most.
and your right I should stop being needy and get her jealous... thx for the advice man
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Post by DanZy on Jul 19, 2011 14:58:59 GMT -5
You said don't say this BUT breakup with her! If a girl refuses to be seen in public with you and you agree, you're her little bitch. Stop acting like a pussy and dump the bitch. Tough love, plain and simple
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Post by pumpum on Jul 19, 2011 16:56:29 GMT -5
I hate to admit it but i think that might be my last choice, so i've decided this, im gonna act uninterested, you know not talk to her this entire week of "time off" and see how it goes from there... i have the feeling i'll probably have to dump her because your right, it makes me her little bitch
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Post by Parkwhore on Jul 19, 2011 18:38:59 GMT -5
You should never stick to just one girl, theres no reason. Have as many girls as possible until you're particularly interested it one and then make her yours. And by that I mean she's your bitch, not vice versa, and what you say goes. Be a goddamn man. There's an article on that which you should probably read.
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Post by theo on Jul 21, 2011 9:08:02 GMT -5
Sounds like she thinks she's better than you, and it's not on that she's trying to keep it a secret. I'd be seriously pissed if I were you. Dump her. And make sure you say something like "Now you won't have to worry about people finding out", then walk off like a boss.
Bitches and whores, man.
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Post by Adam on Jul 21, 2011 9:24:36 GMT -5
I say give her a choice, either we go public or I walk away. Its the right thing to do. If she actually likes you she won't choose the latter if she does who cares a "secret relationship" can't last long and be healthy. Refuse bounderies. Find a girl who would be proud to yell out I'M FUCKING *insert your name here* AND ITS GREAT  |
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Post by pumpum on Jul 22, 2011 11:32:09 GMT -5
You know thats exactly what i did Adam, and she agreed to go public |
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Post by Sloth on Jul 23, 2011 11:09:11 GMT -5
congratulations, now try and be more grown up about the relationship
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Post by $wagg on Jul 27, 2011 19:39:52 GMT -5
lool sorry to be dicklike about it but she's fucking other guys bro..playa playa  |
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Post by jbold on Aug 7, 2011 0:07:45 GMT -5
maybe shes fucking one of your friends?
but yeah just tell her grow the fuck up and make it public
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but the problem is that she barely talks to me when my friends are around. I told her about this and she said i don't talk to her, which i mean i agree i don't but thats because whenever i do she acts as if im gonna bust our secret and they are all gonna find out. 
like i really want her to want me ?
