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Post by jmac on Aug 9, 2011 11:10:09 GMT -5
I seriously got this from "John Tucker Must Die" because it is so true. And this doesn't relate to everyone (no offense) but more towards the guys who are starting to get more girls, more than one. I know you might think, "alright sweet I am a huge player now I can let everyone know I get girls yes I am the fucking man." You could, but then you also lose all trust from girls, ya you might get that one dumb bitch who thinks "fuck it, maybe i can change him and make him mine." But what I like to do, and what you should do. Is juggle your girls. By that I mean, you need to stay out of a relationship, but also you need the girls to be from different friend groups. That way, they won't talk to each other, so nobody will find out, and you get away with secretly being a player. Ya it's a dick move to be talking to multiple girls, but who gives a fuck, at least you can do it. There are some general "rules" i like to follow. -Best friends, don't do it. They talk about everything. I got lucky because I hooked up with one girl and still text her earlier this week but I have been texting one of her best friends a lot lately and will definitely hook up with her soon so I stopped talking to the one I hooked up with. -Girls who hate each other. Had a scare here because the girl I am most serious with, hates this one girl who at a party had taken pictures humping me from behind with some other girls haha (i didnt even notice, i was fucked up) and needless to say, she was kinda pissed. But I sweet-talked my way out of it, saying I don't even know her (even though I texted her a bit too, but i stopped, she wasnt really that hot so i didnt care much) -Keep your shit on the down-low. Guys brag about getting with girls all the time, idiots. Don't do it, only some of my friends know what I do and shit. Just the ones I really trust and I don't even tell them. They just like to look at my phone if I leave it behind to see who I am talking too. Barely any girls know that I am always talking to multiple girls. Which means that basically every other girl thinks I am a sweetheart and trusts me, it makes life a lot easier. -Trust, this is probably the closest thing to an asshole move because you are getting a girls trust even though you are talking to other girls. But what it does is you can keep things between you two, so it goes along with keeping your shit on the down-low. Yeah, I understand the whole concept of talking to lots of different girls is a totally asshole-like thing to do with the lying and shit like "babe you know you are my only girl." But, it's worth it. Since technically, if you aren't going out, you are single and can do whatever the fuck you want, which is my excuse. The only thing I would say is don't do it to purposely break a girls heart, like get her to completely fall for you then be like "sike bitch, i have 2 other girls im fucking" because that is fucked up. I don't think i have really broken a girls heart since I am real secretive about it and shit so things don't get around. So just be careful with what you say and do, but once you are talking to multiple girls and being able to get with them whenever. It is awesome  |
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Post by RMO on Aug 9, 2011 11:33:42 GMT -5
This is just gaming multiple girls with social circles, and this post good for that, but I've never had multiple simultaneous relationships, like 2 or more girlfriends, I'd think that if I take it that far I would at least be honest about what I'm doing, not bragging of course, but I don't know about you, but I don't think that being secretive at that stage would be anything but harmful.
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Post by amarok on Aug 9, 2011 11:42:30 GMT -5
Yeah, you can have an open relationship, but the other half of it needs to know that it's open... There's nothing wrong with hooking up with multiple girls, but this is just lying. There's nothing manly about lying to girls you're with or have been with. That's just sneaky and sleezy.
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Post by jmac on Aug 9, 2011 13:09:51 GMT -5
That's why I specifically said, no relationships because then you are single whether there's a girl you are talking to or not. What responsibility do you have to the girl if you are single? Nobody actually has an "open relationship" because what girl is seriously going to be fine with having a guy who is going to get with other girls, that's just stupid. But if you aren't in a relationship and don't ask her out and she doesn't bring it up then clearly she doesn't mind being single at the moment either. It's high school/college, you aren't getting married..... and you aren't cheating on her being unfaithful or anything since you AREN'T in a relationship.
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Post by perceverance on Aug 9, 2011 13:25:25 GMT -5
why are we so fucked up to woman. breaking hearts and shit.
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Post by jmac on Aug 9, 2011 17:51:52 GMT -5
why are we so fucked up to woman. breaking hearts and shit. I haven't ever broken a girls heart. Unless it's like a girl I rejected because that isn't heartbreaking that's just standards. But no girl that I have been talking to and hooked up have I broken her heart, maybe one scenario but that didn't have to do with any other girls just me in a bad mood being a dick. On the other hand, do you know how many girls judge dudes because they are "nerds" and shit on them all the time. Girls constantly reject guys which is reasonable but sometimes they are extremely cruel to kids and don't give a fuck. It's a tough world, man up. |
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Post by amarok on Aug 9, 2011 23:32:43 GMT -5
I have a good amount of friends that make open relationships work. Responsibility or not, if you're such a facking man why do you have to manipulate the girl to get her?
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Post by Parkwhore on Aug 9, 2011 23:37:29 GMT -5
I have a good amount of friends that make open relationships work. Responsibility or not, if you're such a facking man why do you have to manipulate the girl to get her? You think it's possible to somehow just say to her "Oh by the way, I'm fucking 3 other girls right now, hope you don't mind." And have her say "Okay  "  ?? Jmac's not talking about girlfriending one chick, he's talking about having several chicks on that verge at once. Like he said, it's high school, you're not going to marry them, there's no reason to cockblock yourself by locking yourself in a relationship. |
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Post by jmac on Aug 9, 2011 23:50:03 GMT -5
I have a good amount of friends that make open relationships work. Responsibility or not, if you're such a facking man why do you have to manipulate the girl to get her? Haha cool yourself tough guy. I don't manipulate girls, that's a whole different subject. Whatever girl I talk to my compliments and shit are genuine and I get them to smile. THE GIRL IS HAPPY while she's talking to me. But to be honest if you are gonna keep complaining about it then just don't come on this thread? I mean, maybe if you actually had more than one girl you would know what it can be like....... Especially a situation where you might have feelings for more than one girl but don't want a relationship. With all that "PUA" shit I see you post I am surprised you aren't for it. Get off my dick. @parkwhore, +1 for knowing how to get it done, and knowing what the fuck you are talking about.  |
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Post by amarok on Aug 9, 2011 23:53:21 GMT -5
I'm not talking about girlfriending. I'm talking about this: "Yeah, I understand the whole concept of talking to lots of different girls is a totally asshole-like thing to do with the lying and shit like "babe you know you are my only girl." But, it's worth it."
Manipulating isn't the way to get girls. It's worth it to make a girl think you're actually taking it seriously? Saying she's your only one is making it personal and making her think it's gonna be closed.
"Girls constantly reject guys which is reasonable but sometimes they are extremely cruel to kids and don't give a fuck. It's a tough world, man up."
This isn't even remotely close to the same situation. They aren't lying to the guys. You say that you are and encourage others to do it. Wasn't it one of the basics of pua that manipulation wasn't the way to do it at all?
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Post by RMO on Aug 9, 2011 23:54:19 GMT -5
by the way I'm not saying I disagree with jmac, I'm just adding a little discussion to
'to avoid issues with gaming a lot of girls in social situations, you should not be a total tool and brag about your escapades and hang around different circles' (mega paraphrase)
because honestly, who the fuck is going to disagree with that? Its damn good advice, but I'm genuinely interested in experimenting with multiple relationships, I'll probably start a separate thread to minimize confusion.
EDIT: John tucker must die is about the issues that occur when he is dating 3 different girls at the same time and they find out, not just gaming many different girls. So I might have confused that when I posted, my bad.
In the end keeping things emotionally comfortable is the point, not lying for manipulation, not being brutally honest, but just making everything flow for everyone. Ive been on the verge with multiple girls, and its great, and you don't go off tell all of them what your up to, because girls don't want the logical concept, they'll take the simplest emotional judgement, and it will be that you don't care about them. In the end be honest, don't be a tool, and just have some fun with it.
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Post by jmac on Aug 10, 2011 0:00:42 GMT -5
I wouldn't know because PUA is gay as fuck and I don't look into that shit. And that statement is just something that would get a girl to smile, it was an example and I have used it once. But I have actually talked to that girl and neither of us want a relationship because she's going to college and I am going to be a senior so no fucking way am I getting tied down. And of course it isn't the same situation but girls aren't little angels. Girls will cheat on their boyfriends if you are good-looking enough and have the personality and know what you are doing to get her to want you. You are too one sided on this since clearly you have chicks on a pedestal like some pure creature. I too used to be all clingy only wanting that "one perfect girl" but once you know how to get with whatever girl and get yourself looking good enough and have the ability to be able to basically talk to and hookup with whoever it's a totally different viewpoint because you wouldn't want to be tied down. So this is a post for anyone who is starting to become really good with girls so they don't make any stupid mistakes even though most of this is common sense.
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Post by jmac on Aug 10, 2011 0:04:23 GMT -5
by the way I'm not saying I disagree with jmac, I'm just adding a little discussion to 'to avoid issues with gaming a lot of girls in social situations, you should not be a total tool and brag about your escapades and hang around different circles' (mega paraphrase) because honestly, who the fuck is going to disagree with that? Its damn good advice, but I'm genuinely interested in experimenting with multiple relationships, I'll probably start a separate thread to minimize confusion. And I wrote this basically because me and one of my best friends, both players, different reps. He has been great with girls since like the 6th grade, I always envied it until last summer where I just skyrocketed. Now I have probably hooked up with more girls but only he knows because we only tell each other and I don't even tell him everything. The difference though, I am talking to more girls than him yet all girls trust me and consider me a sweetheart and he has to find new girls because almost all of them know him for being an asshole/cheater/douchebag. He has done fucked up shit I won't lie because it's all about "who you have fucked or gotten with" to some guys. That's why this was basically just a heads up that you need to watch what you do. |
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Post by RMO on Aug 10, 2011 0:06:56 GMT -5
I wouldn't know because PUA is gay as fuck and I don't look into that shit. PUA is fucking retarded. but nobody, other then you, is even mentioning it. Don't make it an attack at the guy, all he's even said was manipulation and open relationships, the real issue is you guys aren't necessarily arguing about opposing views on one problem, but different problems entirely. on the issue itself, your totally right about the cheating thing, BF/GF is just a label, a label which doesn't really make any difference to her feelings if your the kind of guy who she's attracted to and if you go for it. Its actually much easier then people think it is. |
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Post by jmac on Aug 10, 2011 0:13:27 GMT -5
Don't make it an attack at the guy  |
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