perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Aug 12, 2011 17:29:18 GMT -5
when a girl runs or walks by wearing either spandex, short shorts, or short spandex, do you guys think its ok to stare? i mean, i understand that its natural to look, but to stare? i usually just look at her ass and then at her face.
what do you guys do?
P.S.
i fucking <3 spandex, especially shorts that womens volleyball players wear, soo sexy.
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Post by jmac on Aug 12, 2011 18:16:58 GMT -5
as long as you dont do it looking like a creep
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Post by perceverance on Aug 12, 2011 19:55:11 GMT -5
but i read somewhere that when a girl asks you, "are you staring at my boobs/ass/whatever.", you are supposed to say yeah/i sure am/whatever cocky shit you can come up with.
it said that it shows honesty and not giving a shit or something.
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Post by jmac on Aug 12, 2011 20:42:09 GMT -5
but i read somewhere that when a girl asks you, "are you staring at my boobs/ass/whatever.", you are supposed to say yeah/i sure am/whatever cocky shit you can come up with. it said that it shows honesty and not giving a shit or something. Dude, you can't believe all that you read and to be honest. It's good to have questions and ask them because that is what this is for but simple things like "are you supposed to look at her ass?" I understand you just don't know and that's fine but sometimes fuck it, you can't worry about everything girls really aren't hard. And not just getting them but talking to them befriending them. Do what feels right, and some people say "well you can't say that, he might not be as naturally comfortable as you" but everybody has a feeling inside them letting them know if they shouldn't have just done that or shoulda capitalized on their last opportunity. Like if you are talking to a girl and say something totally awkward, you can feel that you are forcing it into the convo. But the answer to your question is either way I guess, I have seen both versions but usually I like to say "no way" with a smirk. But it depends on the girl, if you know her and you two flirt you could say "you'd like that wouldn't you" but if I feel like being an asshole "girl don't flatter yourself" but i'd say that with a smirk too. It's all about feeling to me, I will do whatever I feel like doing and since I have been with and around so many girls I know my limits and what will work and not. Experience tops everything, so just try doing what feels right to you so soon enough you don't even need to bother asking because you can know that you will be able to trust your instincts. |
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Post by canadiankid on Aug 12, 2011 21:36:00 GMT -5
"me?? No way!" with a smirk that says yeah, and you like it is my usual lol
But I rarely get caught, cause let's be honest, staring at a random girl IS creepy.
PS one way sunglasses ftw
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Post by jmac on Aug 12, 2011 21:39:18 GMT -5
"me?? No way!" with a smirk that says yeah, and you like it is my usual lol But I rarely get caught, cause let's be honest, staring at a random girl IS creepy. PS one way sunglasses ftw I agree with all that, I am talking about friends who say that haha sorry if i didnt clarify. And you don't stare, thats kinda weird. You can like check her out but don't like have your eyes peeled open watching her every move |
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Post by Shampoo on Aug 13, 2011 1:49:06 GMT -5
Haha when you get caught staring at her ass you have to use your senses. Some girls make a face when you go direct and say yeah I was staring at your ass, while others will laugh and giggle. Use your gut cause either way the chick KNOWS you were staring at her ass.
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Post by Sloth on Aug 13, 2011 10:19:13 GMT -5
shampers is spot on (nickname brah)
in the moment, depending on the person and there mood, it's going to vary
extreme example
1.her grandad died and your staring at her ass, if you say 'yes i was staring' she ain't gonna be happy
2. she's in a good mood because she's a naught little slice, now there ya go, potentially a good time to be flirty.
Also, if you let it phase you is whats the big deal, so:
you look, she notices, you look up and see that she notices. WHAT HAPPENS NEXT, If you freak out or something because you've been caught, then you're gonna look like a creep if you say you were checking her out.
If you just smile and then flirt then your chances are better.
Similar situation:
In Zante i was eating in a restaurant, a group of hotties walked past and i stared at all of them as a group, then saw one staring back, so i singled her out, looked her up and down, then smiled back. And she was watching me the whole time and she fucking lovvvved it. Hence it's all about confidence. Imagine if i'd tried to check them out without them noticing, and had kept looking away to look like i hadn't been looking, she'd of probably been like 'ugh' and turned her nose up at 'that loser'... Understand?
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Post by Shampoo on Aug 14, 2011 7:17:23 GMT -5
Shampoon would be a more appropriate nickname  |
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Post by canadiankid on Aug 15, 2011 0:40:15 GMT -5
Thats looking not staring IMO. Looking has intent and is confident, staring is just for eye candy and general weirdness.
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Post by jester on Aug 17, 2011 19:58:33 GMT -5
Eh. I agree with the Sloth guy. It's situational. And if she doesn't notice... You win twice
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