My First PUA Challenge

[SamethP]

Background

Around one year ago, me and my first ever legit girlfriend broke up. Crushed, Heartbroken, yadda yadda yadda, she hates me with a passion now apparently...
The other night, I had the strangest dream... It went as follows:
Me and my friends were fooling around with pens at lunch, attacthing the lids together so that it made a huge pen line. Everyone randomly got up and left, leaving me there by myself. I got up and took two steps to the bubbler to get a drink, I turned around and saw my ex with a mischeivous grin on her face, and she started disconnecting the pen lids. I quickly went over there and laughed and told her to stop. The next part was a blur, but what I remember is that i started trying to playfully wrestle the pens out of her grasp. The next thing I knew she was on top of me, I looked into her eyes, and she looked into mine, and we started making out.
I then woke up and realised it was a dream a minute or two later (slow reaction lol). But another strange thing happened. Before I realised it was a dream, it was the happiest I've felt in about a year...

Now I don't know what that means, so if someone could help me out there, it would be greatly appreaciated.

Challenge

So now, for the past day or so since it happened, I havn't been able to get her out of my head. We havn't spoken since we broke up, but she has maths in the room nextdoor to my maths room, so we get within 5m of each other but don't make eye contact or say anything. I saw her for the first time in a few months properly, she looked exactly how she did in my dream, except she seemed kind of sad... She was sitting near my group (new lunch time seating arrangements at my school), and I spent a lot of the lunch break just staring when no-one from her group was looking... She hasn't changed much, but she looks better than before...

So my challenge is to get her back on speaking terms with myself. I'm still friend with half of her group.

My plan is/was to start talking to her friends again, and show disinterest in her by not acknowledging her presence. Then when I walk past her 'randomly' when we are both alone, just say "Hi ____" make eye contact and keep walking.
So, this is just to get me back on speaking terms again...

I know it seems like one-itis and it probably is, but please don't critisize, I would really like some help
What do you guys think??
I was hoping some PUA skills would help me here, but I don't know what would work the best in this situation...

Help??

RoboCop

[Chris]

I would say dont go exactly with the M3 model.
I would start out with neutral rapport.
I like your idea of making friends with her friends first so do that. Then sooner or later, you will have a chance to talk to her.
Just start out fluff talking and take it from there.

[SamethP]

she walked past me yesterday
and she was just staring at me o.O
i got the weirdest feeling inside lol x]
took it as an IOI
and im gonna keep talking with her friends lol

[Rusty]

Nah man I don't think that's one-itus. One-itus is when you are absolutely crazy about a girl, believe she's better then you, that she's the only girl like that on Earth and you would kiss her feet for a hug. It's alright to think a girls cool and want to get to know her. That's not one-itus. I think a lot of girls are cool and i'd like to pursue them. There's this whole thing kicking around now that's like 'OMG! NO GIRLS ARE SPECIAL! ALL OF THEM ARE THE SAME! YOU CAN'T LIKE ANY MORE GIRLS THEN OTHER GIRLS! THAT'S NEEDY AND AFC! OMGGGG. YOU CAN'T WANT TO PURSUE ONLY ONE GIRL. YOUR A PLAYAAAAAAAAA'. I think that's completely wrong. All girls are special. You can like some girls more then others, that's not needy that's just attraction. I think wanting to pursue a certain girl is fine, as long as you aren't obsessed and are putting her above you and you're goals. Also as long as you understand that there are plenty of girls like that in the world and she's human just like everyone else. She just happens to have cools traits.

And I think she's just being stupid and she doesn't actually hate you lol so don't worry so much about it.

[comedic]

Yes, One-itis is not healthy.
Focusing on one girl is.
Having multiple target is fun. ;D

I'm also trying to get my ex back but I also have other girls in mind that I would like to meet.

[crash]

What everyone above says is basically true, just a quick interpretation, and I may be wrong this is just intuition, but the way I see it is; The pen caps represent your emotions and your feelings with her and you and your friends linking them together represents your relationship with her, everyone getting up and leaving could represent that maybe you didn't feel your friends were there for you when you needed them. Her breaking the chain down represents the break up and her pulling apart your emotions (depression, crushed, yadda yadda yadda). You trying to get them back from her is you trying to rebuild your life afterward and trying to move on but you two making out is what you really want.

Like I said, just what I think, I'm not a dream analyzer or anything.

[SamethP]

@ Crash
HOLY FUCK!!! ^
you are a dream analyser
that is pretty much spot on
thats amazing, you must teach me how to do that

@ comedic
yea man, i still have other targets as well, shes just my first goal to achieve in PUA cause itll be a huge challenge lol
and we should both report on how this goes aye

@ king
im starting to believe the doesnt hate part because she is always walking past me at school, and whenever she does i catch her just looking at me, and when she sees me seeing her seeing me she looks away and keeps walking

i dunno its confusing, but im gonna win this challenge >=]

[crash]

Lol, that was purely intuition, I'm pretty good at reading people though.

[nine]

ITT: robocop gets hooked on chick-crack ;D

Nine

[SamethP]

LOL ^