Break-ups (The why)

[comedic]

So, I business man talks to a client and he gets a new contract. Oh god he's happy! He starts investing in it. He already sees the profit it will make in a year or two. He concentrates all of his efforts in this new contract. A few months later, he gets a call from the client who offered him this amazing contract:

-Look...It's been a while but I prefer that we stay friends....UHMMMMM....I mean that we stay in touch for a smaller type of business.

See what i did here?

We could redo the story by saying that the contract is a girl, the profit : the energy you spend on her, etc.

Let's get down to the facts : GIRLS ARE LIKE INVESTMENTS!

Loosing a GF is like loosing an investment. The business man lost a lot of money with that contract. Since loosing almost all your money is pretty bad for your survivability it's best to avoid that kind of situation. Now you're all gonna tell me: '' Comedic, are trying to tell us to not have a girlfriend?''

HECK NO! When I game a girl, I want that girl to be my girlfriend. See, when we were living in tribes (Insert huge number) years ago,
loosing a woman might compromise your S&R (Survival&Replication) value because it means you won't have sex in a while.

Nowadays, we get the exact same feeling. When I broke up with my GF, I thought that I wouldn't have another one for another long period of time because I felt unattractive and left out.

So we need to NOT do certain things:

1. Never smash your head against the wall.

2.Don't tell yourself you are unattractive. I mean, you are a Venusian Artist! You have the skills to get another one!

3.Don't try to call her or re initiate the chat after the break-up and after a long period of time. (Took 5 months until I could talk to my ex.)

4.Even though it pisses you off BIG TIMES (I know I went there), try to pretend you are not that much affected by it.

5.Positive vibing.

All things must end and with that end comes a new beginning. (THATS AWESOME !!!)

[optimus]

Nov 20, 2008 21:40:11 GMT -5 comedic said:

4.Even though it pisses you off BIG TIMES (I know I went there), try to pretend you are not that much affected by it.

Honesty.

You can't pretend. Unless you're the greatest actor of our time, you will be seen through.

You have to know that you are fine with it and that you will be able to move on. You were hurt, and that's something you're man enough to admit to, but you have accepted it and have moved on.

This is all inner game. You can't decide this overnight, you have to develop it.

The great part is that becoming a PUA helps with all of this. Getting over a girl shooting you down at the club is the same as getting over your girlfriend dumping you.

PU isn't about putting up a facade to get laid, it's about building a better life. It just happens that a better life comes with a bunch of really hot girls.

[optimus]

And if your girl dumps you like that, you screwed up. You shouldn't be losing attraction. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean the game stops, it just changes.

Some people don't work out together, and that's fine, but "been there, done that" is not a legitimate excuse for a breakup.

[comedic]

That was in my AFC's days btw. And I agree that we don't stop the game even in a relationship.

[Grape]

Egos and Beliefs gentlemen. Those are the only two things I focus on these days.

[SamethP]

inner game ftw