Post by vincentthaman on Aug 25, 2011 4:54:40 GMT -5
This really belongs in the confidence sub forum but I don't have enough posts to put it there. I have been reading this forum for a long time but I just now made an account because I would like to share my feelings with y'all.
So in my life I have notticed a lot of "AFCs" for the lack of a better term blame every failure with girls on their looks. If I had a knickle for every time I heard someone say "If I looked like that guy I would get some many chicks..." but the other guy is probably saying the same thing about someone else.
Now here comes my opinion. There is no such thing as being born ugly. (ok I know someone is going to pull out some 1 in a 100000 case now but bear with me) No one is ugly by nature, but you might have some, ehmm anomalies that make you ugly like, being fat, being too skinny, having bad hair, bad teeth or whatever. The good news are, all of this can be fixed and a lot of guys are already good looking but they don't realise that.
Now there is one really good thing about having an ugly feature, I see it almost like a blessing. My problem are my teeth, and thats probably the worst luck you can get, its the hardest one to fix but if I was overweight or had bad acne or whatever the point would be the same, for so many years I thought I had no luck with girls because of my teeth and then when I discovered these forums and started getting more and more success even with my bad teeth it made me appreciate the GOOD THINGS ABOUT MY LOOKS MUCH MUCH MORE.
Because of my bad teeth I value my handsome face and my slim but athletic body (wow that sounded gay) much much more and I have more success then people who dont have any ugly features and because of that are better looking then me but they dont realise that.
Now here comes the most important part. I am really happy with my looks except my teeth, and I will get braces soon and start fixing them. While im fixing them i will ofc continue to work on my inner game and so on and when I finnally fix them I will be 100% happy with my looks and thats a big deal. I still wont be the best looking guy out there but I will be the best looking guy TO ME, and that gives you a shitload of confidence.
So appreciate the good stuff about you and get to work on fixing the bad ones.
So in my life I have notticed a lot of "AFCs" for the lack of a better term blame every failure with girls on their looks. If I had a knickle for every time I heard someone say "If I looked like that guy I would get some many chicks..." but the other guy is probably saying the same thing about someone else.
Now here comes my opinion. There is no such thing as being born ugly. (ok I know someone is going to pull out some 1 in a 100000 case now but bear with me) No one is ugly by nature, but you might have some, ehmm anomalies that make you ugly like, being fat, being too skinny, having bad hair, bad teeth or whatever. The good news are, all of this can be fixed and a lot of guys are already good looking but they don't realise that.
Now there is one really good thing about having an ugly feature, I see it almost like a blessing. My problem are my teeth, and thats probably the worst luck you can get, its the hardest one to fix but if I was overweight or had bad acne or whatever the point would be the same, for so many years I thought I had no luck with girls because of my teeth and then when I discovered these forums and started getting more and more success even with my bad teeth it made me appreciate the GOOD THINGS ABOUT MY LOOKS MUCH MUCH MORE.
Because of my bad teeth I value my handsome face and my slim but athletic body (wow that sounded gay) much much more and I have more success then people who dont have any ugly features and because of that are better looking then me but they dont realise that.
Now here comes the most important part. I am really happy with my looks except my teeth, and I will get braces soon and start fixing them. While im fixing them i will ofc continue to work on my inner game and so on and when I finnally fix them I will be 100% happy with my looks and thats a big deal. I still wont be the best looking guy out there but I will be the best looking guy TO ME, and that gives you a shitload of confidence.
So appreciate the good stuff about you and get to work on fixing the bad ones.
