Post by canadiankid on Aug 27, 2011 19:23:12 GMT -5
I have had a bit more free time yesterday and today than usually since I got my wisdom teeth out.
As a result I've been texting a lot as well as Facebook messaging pretty much anybody who is on.
This has led to some new insights for me that I shall share with y'all.
First, if you haven't talked to someone (especially vagina creatures) in a quite a while it is often best to start off with some inane banter. If you rush too quickly into very flirtatious and/or sexual messages its pretty creepy and she is less likely to respond positively because she will feel used and slutty, like you only want one thing.
Take a genuine interest in the questions your asking, it makes it less like an interrogation and more like a cool conversation where the person can tell you are interested.
Don't be an accidental one upper, you don't need to tell your own story that matches or beats theirs. Rather make them feel special about themselves (not over the top but you know what I mean)
It doesn't always have to be sexual (although it is better
) Know when to make it sexual and when not to. This comes from practicing and know the girl.
"Hey whats up" "not much, u?" "nm" sound familiar? spice up your answers. for example "watching a new episode of the phillyd show on youtube. have you ever seen it?" or "jamming out some air guitar in the hot tub" pretty much anything that isn't boring and can be responded to in an interesting manner! hot rolls with hot, boring responds with boring
Don't complain about being bored or something else easily fix able. Do something about it!
Thats about it for now I do believe since the more flirtatious stuff has already been covered by 3 or 4 people
As a result I've been texting a lot as well as Facebook messaging pretty much anybody who is on.
This has led to some new insights for me that I shall share with y'all.
First, if you haven't talked to someone (especially vagina creatures) in a quite a while it is often best to start off with some inane banter. If you rush too quickly into very flirtatious and/or sexual messages its pretty creepy and she is less likely to respond positively because she will feel used and slutty, like you only want one thing.
Take a genuine interest in the questions your asking, it makes it less like an interrogation and more like a cool conversation where the person can tell you are interested.
Don't be an accidental one upper, you don't need to tell your own story that matches or beats theirs. Rather make them feel special about themselves (not over the top but you know what I mean)
It doesn't always have to be sexual (although it is better
) Know when to make it sexual and when not to. This comes from practicing and know the girl."Hey whats up" "not much, u?" "nm" sound familiar? spice up your answers. for example "watching a new episode of the phillyd show on youtube. have you ever seen it?" or "jamming out some air guitar in the hot tub" pretty much anything that isn't boring and can be responded to in an interesting manner! hot rolls with hot, boring responds with boring
Don't complain about being bored or something else easily fix able. Do something about it!
Thats about it for now I do believe since the more flirtatious stuff has already been covered by 3 or 4 people
