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Post by Chris on Sept 14, 2008 16:50:48 GMT -5
im sure most of you have been in one of those moods where you are just having a blast and cocky funny comes natural and everyone just seems to love you. Well heres how i get into that mood:
-do not get analytical! this is the biggest mistake. just relax and make it a focus to have fun. let your good emotions come out. logic will cancel out emotion.
-start gaming immediately! even if there are no sets or girls or whatever, get into a social mood and just start talking to everyone. youll notice the more people you have talked to, the better you feel. obviously the best way to do this is to flirt with a bunch of girls because it is emotionally stimulating and instantly gets you into that mood.
-detatch yourself from any outcome. now your goal, say, at a football game is maybe to get a kiss, w/e. thats fine to have that goal, just make sure you know, "if i dont get that kiss, it doesnt matter because im just out here to have a great time."
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Post by enigma on Sept 16, 2008 16:14:20 GMT -5
Just to add to these great pointers, it also helps to listen to some upbeat music before you go out to help get you in that carefree mood.  |
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Post by Grape on Sept 16, 2008 16:18:39 GMT -5
Like Mychildren Mybride hehehe
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Post by Chris on Sept 18, 2008 19:11:03 GMT -5
Just to add to these great pointers, it also helps to listen to some upbeat music before you go out to help get you in that carefree mood. oh yeah! I knew i was forgetting to add something. Thanks bro. Motley Crue man! |
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Post by Grape on Sept 18, 2008 19:14:59 GMT -5
logic will cancel out emotion. dont you mean emotion will cancel out logic???  |
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Sept 19, 2008 11:37:06 GMT -5
logic will cancel out emotion. dont you mean emotion will cancel out logic??? Well actually it goes both ways. If you logic brain begins to dominate it will cancel out emotion. If your emotions are dominant it will cancel out logic. I might get more info pretty soon on this idea ofgetting into a good state because I'm gonna listen to RSDs decoding the blueprint progam. Later guys. |
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Post by Grape on Sept 19, 2008 14:39:16 GMT -5
Take a psychology course in school. Es muy interesante.
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Post by Chris on Sept 19, 2008 17:03:25 GMT -5
im just sharing what i learned from the PUMs.
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Post by nine on Sept 29, 2008 23:24:56 GMT -5
What really helps me is to just smile. Ever since I've got my braces off it's been a big confidence boost so I just smile whenever I want to. It doesn't matter if I'm doing work, at football, talking to a girl, a teacher, whatever! ;D
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Post by Chris on Sept 30, 2008 15:48:21 GMT -5
What really helps me is to just smile. Ever since I've got my braces off it's been a big confidence boost so I just smile whenever I want to. It doesn't matter if I'm doing work, at football, talking to a girl, a teacher, whatever! ;D Yeah actually you do bring up a pretty good point. Your body is connected to your mind so when you smile, you feel happier. I like to yell really loud like "yee haw!" or some shit it gets your emotions going:) |
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Post by Grape on Sept 30, 2008 16:56:04 GMT -5
HAHAHA. I like to do the spongebob laugh with my hand and move my arms with big gestures.
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Post by Chris on Sept 30, 2008 17:43:03 GMT -5
HAHAHA. I like to do the spongebob laugh with my hand and move my arms with big gestures. LOL that is way funny! |
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Post by nine on Oct 1, 2008 21:57:13 GMT -5
What really helps me is to just smile. Ever since I've got my braces off it's been a big confidence boost so I just smile whenever I want to. It doesn't matter if I'm doing work, at football, talking to a girl, a teacher, whatever! ;D Yeah actually you do bring up a pretty good point. Your body is connected to your mind so when you smile, you feel happier. I like to yell really loud like "yee haw!" or some shit it gets your emotions going:) It's basically using an already keyed anchor if that helps those NLP people out there. |
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Post by Dream on Oct 3, 2008 7:51:08 GMT -5
Be outcome independent, but still have goals that you are trying to attain.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 4, 2008 10:56:38 GMT -5
yeah, but one of your main goals is to just have fun
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