hollyhood
Newcomer
Posts: 33
Registered: Nov 23, 2008 0:56:28 GMT -5
|
Post by hollyhood on Nov 23, 2008 0:59:35 GMT -5
so theres this hb8 im into and to tell the truth she is really hard to read. everytime i start to give up on her i end up getting a huge ioi, when i think shes into me she shows disinterest. ive been texting her with some mixed results. basicaly i met her at a party and chilled with her the next day and had a bit of a neutral reaction. then i hung out with her and her friend and she greeted me with a hug and was excited. we talked and then she had to go back to her house before her parents got home. i tried to make my move quick and as we walked i put my arm around her and we kinda excluded her friend and then once we got there i wanted to k close but her friend was still there so i didnt want to make it awkward.
tomorrow im gunna ask her to come over to my place alone and hang out (hopefully k close finally) but im so confused over this one just from spending time with her i rly cant say either way shes like right down the middle.
any advice on my situation?, maybe a good line for getting her to come over other then "wanna come over blah blah". any way advice would be appreciated.
|
|
Rusty
Very Active Member
Posts: 205
Registered: Oct 1, 2008 22:27:00 GMT -5
|
Post by Rusty on Nov 23, 2008 1:05:06 GMT -5
Man don't worry about it, just assume attraction and move from there
|
|
SamethP
Extremely Active Member
Old Specialist
It's my world
Posts: 1,430
Registered: Sept 27, 2008 18:34:21 GMT -5
|
Post by SamethP on Nov 23, 2008 5:18:54 GMT -5
everything is an ioi  unless its an iod.... |
|
Luc
Extremely Active Member
Posts: 464
Registered: Sept 30, 2008 21:23:07 GMT -5
|
Post by Luc on Nov 23, 2008 7:44:04 GMT -5
Dude she is doing it on purpose. She wants you to be confused, women love doing that. Just do it.
|
|
Grape
Extremely Active Member
Founder/Ex-Head Admin
Posts: 2,926
Registered: Jul 3, 2008 19:26:20 GMT -5
|
Post by Grape on Nov 23, 2008 11:44:25 GMT -5
Yeah man. look into female psychology. it'll help a ton.
|
|
Chris
Extremely Active Member
Old Specialist
"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
Posts: 773
Registered: Jul 6, 2008 12:05:22 GMT -5
|
Post by Chris on Nov 23, 2008 12:08:05 GMT -5
Exactly. Just accept the fact that girls are unpredictable.
|
|
optimus
Extremely Active Member
Old Specialist
Posts: 606
Registered: Nov 5, 2008 1:18:42 GMT -5
|
Post by optimus on Nov 23, 2008 15:11:19 GMT -5
The girl is gaming you. She's using push/pull really well. When she does it, call her on it, push pull back, do whatever. She's into you, so you can use pretty much any routine you like, as long as you keep your frame: she isn't in control of you/you don't care if she likes you or not.
Keep up the kino escalation, he kiss close should be a peice of cake.
|
|
Volt
Extremely Active Member
Irresistable
Posts: 616
Registered: Nov 23, 2008 12:26:55 GMT -5
|
Post by Volt on Nov 24, 2008 23:02:35 GMT -5
When you begin to freeze her out, she becomes afraid of loosing you, and jumps back. If you can get her alone, greet her warmly, then freeze her until she just starts to get uncomfortable, then phase-shift into a *close routine.
|
|
nine
Extremely Active Member
Old Specialist
Posts: 511
Registered: Sept 29, 2008 23:16:11 GMT -5
|
Post by nine on Nov 24, 2008 23:04:16 GMT -5
everything is an ioi unless its an iod.... Ah but an IOD is an IOI because she's consciously shit testing you. Nine |
|
|
|
Post by Aleksander on Nov 27, 2008 12:06:13 GMT -5
u had a huge opportunity with her friend...jelousy plotline!
|
|
