"Be yourself, everyone else is taken."

[jmac]

I would just like to say. I would like to come on here regularly and give advice but honestly, it would be a waste of time for me. And I say that because I know what you all take that to be when you read it. But how I mean it is, nobody actually needs this site. Any girl could possibly be yours, ever see that couple where it is really a case of beauty and the beast. But that's what it seems on the outside. And I bet most of you guys see a dope girl with a guy who looks like 10 leagues lower and you think "damn what does he have that i don't, i look way better than that kid!" But did you ever realize that maybe he was just being himself and she happened to like him for who he was?

Fake it till you make it right? But who wants to be with a girl who likes you for who you pretend to be, never revealing you true self. In reality, you can't get every girl. So you might as well get the ones that will actually mean something to you. You don't have to try and burst out of your shell thinking "well he told me on the forum i need to talk to her today to get rid of my anxiety." Because it's not you, it's fine to be shy. But a lot shy people do want to talk, some more than others but they get afraid. I can say that from first-hand experience as a little kid. But what's there to fear?

Now I am not bashing this site at all, nor trying to ruin it. But really, for everyone coming here looking for that magic key to go from zero to hero in one thread. You won't find it. Aside from the specific help questions this site isn't going to help you as much as you hope. Some of you may actually lose yourself more than before and not progress. All-in-all, be yourself guys and don't be afraid to show who you really are.

[mikedaman]

Great thread...im guessing your leaving? If you, i'd like your facebook or email. not to ask questions but to keep in touch. Youve helped me alot man and i thank you for that, so hit me up if ya want.

Mike ivie, [e-mail]

[Sloth]

As usual your right, you should really sit down with yourself and just think about everything. Get straight what you want, what you need to do and how you're going to do it. Y'know? i did that last year and it got me what i wanted in the end (university).

you're a top lad Jmac, you'll be fine regardless

[jmac]

Sept 9, 2011 19:55:59 GMT -5 Sloth said:

As usual your right, you should really sit down with yourself and just think about everything. Get straight what you want, what you need to do and how you're going to do it. Y'know? i did that last year and it got me what i wanted in the end (university).

you're a top lad Jmac, you'll be fine regardless

You always feel the need to woo me baby and mike i'll still come on here and there. It's whenever I have free time like i do now

[jmac]

I transferred back to the school. This past week I feel I have changed immensely and all for the better, I also realized that after college I really want to go to law school and I am determined to step my shit up as far as grades and just general improvement.

After talking to Amb I'm going to look up how to upload my music on youtube and then I might add it to a post I am going to write.

edit: after coming on later today I saw some more posts and realized how much this site has fallen. It has become overwhelmed with PUA and more questions that are just terrible and more than half that answers are even worse. And more arguing than when I am around. This site really has hit rock bottom. With that being said I am deleting my account. Good luck to whoever is trying to help on this site...