New here, help

[gettingskills]

Well im new here. Lets start out with who i am. Right now im 17 years old, no girls and no game. But im gonna change all that.
Want to know how i end up being 17 and having no girlfriend, well this is why.
My older brother brainwashed the crap out of me when i was younger. He let me beleive that talking to girls or even being close to a girl is something bad and something to be ashamed of. When i was 10 i was forced by the teacher to sit in front of class next to a girl, and one day my brother walked in my class and saw me next to a girl and he laughed at me and teased me about it. So i was then brainwashed for good. This one time when i was 11 i had a crush on this girl and some one found out and told my brother that she was my girlfriend, he laughed and teased me about it. So he let me beleive that it was something bad. I went to a new school when i was 12, and there was this (hot) girl in my class who i liked. She liked me too, it was as clear as day that she liked me, she did not know i liked her. and somehow even though we liked eachother we did not get together. And all because of how i thought. When she saw me she would call me and i would ignore her, when she touched me i would tell her not to touch me, i did this the whole year around. So eventually she lost interest in me. (fast forward). Puberty hit me hard, and i did not care about that whole crap i believed, and i saw my brother talking to girls so i thought it was okay, i was 15. I was all ready to get a girl and acne hit me hard, and i was very underweight, not sexy at all. I fixed the underweight problem when i was 16, i got 6-pack, i got hot. BUT acne was still there and this prevented me from getting my game on. So im now 17 no girlfriend and FINALLY my acne is starting to clear up enough for me to start pua-ing. I had this crush on a girl, i approached her, but it was my very first approach ever so it never went that good, i did not even get her name. So any time i walk by her at school i get that akward feeling in me. And i dont want that to happen with my next approach so i need help with openers that work at SCHOOL. By the way, another reason why i never had a girlfriend is, the language they speak here im not that good at it, so i cant talk to girls whos primary language is this language, so that cuts my options down by more then half.
Sorry for the long introduction
Help me please.

[Sloth]

you should try wearing make up to cover up your acne, i know plenty of guys who did that, if it makes you that insecure then why not? you'd get a major boost from it.

secondly that awkward feeling is pretty much AA, it's just your nerves fucking with you, girls don't bite and you would have no problem just going up and saying hi, so why not be more open to casual conversation?
I can't say i know what to do about the language barrier, but i will say that if you're trying to hook up with a girl it's like 30% what you say 70% how you act, so with these foreign girls if you have good body language, hold confident eye contact and touch them a lot (kino) (note: touch them does not mean perv on them) and concentrate on your actions, not your words then you'll be in with a shot.

Finally i was unsure what particularly you wanted help with, so if you've still got some big questions then shoot.

[Amb1valence]

What country are you in?/what is your native language and what do they speak there?

[gettingskills]

That akward feeling is due to: During that approach some guy (in her class, friend maybe)walked up to us when i was talking to her, since it was my first approach i did not know how to deal with that, so i prematurely ended the approach. I did not get her name or anything like that, and it was kind of a fail me being all nervous and all. So anytime i walk pass her i can just imagine her thinking, hey look its that guy who walked up to me and randomly said bullshit for no reason at all. And that is why i feel akward about it, because i failed it brings back bad memories of that approach. And i think i will have some AA when i start with the approaches, because of the fear that i will fail, and then there is yet another girl at school i feel akward walking by.
And i have this kind of crush on this girl at school who happens to be that girl i first approached older sister, funny stuff. So before i approach her, i would like to practice on some girls who i dont care if i fail with that or not, since i have this crush on her i want it to go well and succesfull, so i got practicing to do.

[gettingskills]

Country is Bonaire, it is near Aruba. And here they speak Papiamento and Dutch. My dutch is good so i would only approach girls who look dutch. I could NEVER do an approach in Papiamento, because i suck at it so bad. My native language is Dutch and English.

[qaz]

Sept 15, 2011 19:10:48 GMT -5 gettingskills said:

That akward feeling is due to: During that approach some guy (in her class, friend maybe)walked up to us when i was talking to her, since it was my first approach i did not know how to deal with that, so i prematurely ended the approach. I did not get her name or anything like that, and it was kind of a fail me being all nervous and all. So anytime i walk pass her i can just imagine her thinking, hey look its that guy who walked up to me and randomly said bullshit for no reason at all. And that is why i feel akward about it, because i failed it brings back bad memories of that approach. And i think i will have some AA when i start with the approaches, because of the fear that i will fail, and then there is yet another girl at school i feel akward walking by.
And i have this kind of crush on this girl at school who happens to be that girl i first approached older sister, funny stuff. So before i approach her, i would like to practice on some girls who i dont care if i fail with that or not, since i have this crush on her i want it to go well and succesfull, so i got practicing to do.

what I'm getting out of this is you're afraid the chick thinks badly of you because you only talked to her for a minute.

If it's that big of a deal I think Next time you see her you should casually just be like "hey it's you, I never caught you're name" problem solved.

Girls are really 100 times nicer than you're probably thinking. If something does get awkward it's not like she's going to bitch you out.

[canadiankid]

dude acne aint a big deal, I have it pretty bad. other guys have it bad too and still get laid
its something you notice more than others for most people

[Parkwhore]

I just want to chime in on the Acne part, I had it bad for about a year until I researched it and got my shit together. It's going to take time, motivation, and dedication similar to that of losing weight. I have a whole thread on how you should wash your face and such but the main things are...

-Get 8-10 hours of sleep every night
-Avoid stress
-Limit jacking off (hormones go crazy)
-Eat healthy (lots of greeens, NO SUGAR OR MILK, alcohol/weed doesn't seem to affect mine, and take vitamin E and zinc tablets)
-Dont touch your face
-Less is more, stop washing your face 10 times daily, applying 6 different creams, etc. Use the OCM method 1 time daily and the egg white mask 2 times per week and otherwise just chillaxx.
-Change pillow cases often, every couple nights.

[tozer]

Sept 16, 2011 0:12:43 GMT -5 Parkwhore said:

I just want to chime in on the Acne part, I had it bad for about a year until I researched it and got my shit together. It's going to take time, motivation, and dedication similar to that of losing weight. I have a whole thread on how you should wash your face and such but the main things are...

-Get 8-10 hours of sleep every night
-Avoid stress
-Limit jacking off (hormones go crazy)
-Eat healthy (lots of greeens, NO SUGAR OR MILK, alcohol/weed doesn't seem to affect mine, and take vitamin E and zinc tablets)
-Dont touch your face
-Less is more, stop washing your face 10 times daily, applying 6 different creams, etc. Use the OCM method 1 time daily and the egg white mask 2 times per week and otherwise just chillaxx.
-Change pillow cases often, every couple nights.

I have heard that not jacking off and holding it in would make it worse though

[Parkwhore]

Key word: limit.

[Sloth]

Also the world does not revolve around you, no1 really thinks about you like you frantically assume they do, they have their own shit on their mind. While your busy wondering if shes thinking bad thoughts bout you, shes busy wondering if people are thinking badly of her, so rise above it. Stop caring about it and relax

[gettingskills]

Thank y'all, imma try some of that acne stuff.
But here is a nice problem. That girl i was planning on approaching MIGHT be lesbian. Way years back i heard of this lebian chick at school making out and stuff, and she has the same name as that girl. And I saw this girl after school kissing another girl (just on the cheek though). And im not sure but it MIGHT have been that girl, i cant see well without glasses and i was not wearing them. So i recognize her by her backpacks color, hers is red and the kissing girls bag was kinda pink. So im hoping it was not her.

[libertine]

That sounds weird as fuck.

[Sloth]

kinky

[Amb1valence]

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