lightersix
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Post by lightersix on Sept 20, 2011 10:52:50 GMT -5
Hey guys I was wondering what you think about age differences, as in a relationship.
I just turned 18, theres a girl whos 15 who wants me, in your opinion is this too young? Im a senior shes a sophomore.
Im not desperate or anything but shes pretty hot, she wants me and flirts with me like mad throws shit at me in class smiles when i smack her ass etc. I go to a small highschool so you try to go after every oppurtunity you get.
She has a boyfriend right now whos not any competition to me at all. He actually cheated on her recently and she took him back but her body language tells me she doesn't really like him. Im wondering if its creepy to make a move though?
I mean, shes not a little girl and is physically mature so it doesnt seem weird to me, what do you think?
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Sept 20, 2011 11:02:35 GMT -5
My general rule is that I won't go for a girl more than 2 years younger than me. But it's not up to me, if it's the norm in your school then why not
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Post by looknlisten on Sept 20, 2011 12:26:54 GMT -5
Lunch is after 12 .. But with relationships ay 1 year younger max for me maybe 2 if I'm not in abundance
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Amb1valence
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Post by Amb1valence on Sept 20, 2011 14:06:26 GMT -5
Lunch is after 12 .. But with relationships ay 1 year younger max for me maybe 2 if I'm not in abundance Lunch is after 12......lmaoooo and OP if you were 17 and a senior, and she was 15 and a junior, I wouldn't be worried about it. But since you're 18, people who hear about it will ask like "oh hm, well how old is he?" when they hear 18, they'll probably think weirdly of you. If you were even 17, it wouldn't be so weird; but the age of 18 kind of signifies like being a man and shit so dating a sophmore would be pretty weird. I might date girls 2 years younger than me, but definitely no lower, and if I was 18 then I'd definitely want to date AT LEAST a sophomore who's 16. But it's up to you, if you don't care about social status then you can go for it but idk personally I'd just stay away. Then again I hate relationships period soo lol
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Post by amarok on Sept 20, 2011 15:19:28 GMT -5
That's actually the situation with my girlfriend ambivalence haha. I'm seventeen but she's 15 and a junior with a really late birthday (november). No one questions it and I never get more than a "Only fifteen?" To which I reply with her birthday and just get an oh, okay!
Any way on topic, I'm best friends with a girl that only dates older guys. I don't really see too much of a problem as long as you're okay with it and you follow proper hook up etiquette.
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Post by looknlisten on Sept 20, 2011 15:35:08 GMT -5
No offence bud but dating a chick two years younger is too much, just like imagine your dance when your 18 and you take her .. Doesn't mix. If she's flaming hot and fun its so so but I don't think you should settle for it. Just an opinion, just sayin
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Post by Parkwhore on Sept 20, 2011 16:46:56 GMT -5
Im 17 with a late birthday and my gf just turned 16 with an early birthday. Senior and sophomore. So a bit over a year's difference. I see no issue as long as they act mature, look mature, and most of all, are hot.
These 2 PUAs from my school who graduated last year had a competition to see which could fuck the most freshmen haha. One was walked in on by a girls dad while they were having sex and the girls dad almost pressed charges.
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Post by canadiankid on Sept 20, 2011 18:56:44 GMT -5
Im pretty sure its illegal if your 18, and she's 15... Not saying that necessarily matters but its something to consider lol, plus in small towns/schools everyone finds out everything
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gettingskills
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Post by gettingskills on Sept 20, 2011 19:27:22 GMT -5
I've seen worse. One of my friends when she was 13 she was dating this 18 year old guy at the school. Weird, they did things no 18 year old should do to a 13 year old. But i ACTUALLY dont see much of a problem with 15 and 18 year old, but thats just me. Oh and over here we have this saying in dutch: Hoe dichter bij de nul, hoe strakker om de lul. Translated to english is: the closer to zero, the tighter around the dick. So the younger the girl the tighter around the dick. You could use that as an excuse for why your dating a younger girl.
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lightersix
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Post by lightersix on Sept 20, 2011 22:27:33 GMT -5
I mean I live in the south, georgia to be exact so its more accepted and less accepted at the same time. If its a serious relationship I guess people see it as ok/"cute"
I know one sophomore girl whos datin a dude whos graduated actually, and hes not thought badly of. Shes hot, so everyone understands. Shit, I don't look down on em.
Its like we have a decent amount of hot girls, but so many are kinda "inbred" looking from all the similar genetics around here...so the girls from outside gene pools such as this one whos from florida are a commodity. And the inverse is true too, I mean im not gay but when your a guy and you can tell another dude is ugly its pretty bad.
But you guys are probably right, if shes real cool ill probably try it, otherwise I got other bitches tippin on my dick haha
lunch is after 12 lmfaooo haha the younger the tighter...psh if a girls that damn tight you just aint got the bitch turned on enough. still hilarious though, I just commited that shit to memory. thanks for the insights everybody.
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Post by Adam on Sept 20, 2011 23:12:04 GMT -5
You can date whoever you want as long as you don't give a shit. You know when people say "Oh so and so is not acceptable." and then somebody points ands says "but hes doing it" they're like "Oh no hes the exception" Do you know why he is the exception CAUSE HE DON'T GIVE A SHIT WHAT YOU THINK. Date whoever you want (within moral reason)
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Post by peterjack on Sept 22, 2011 1:14:53 GMT -5
Yet, only 10 percent of these marriages were between men and women with that optimal age difference. The span ranged from men marrying women as much as 20 years older to women marrying men as much as 25 years older; the average age difference between husband and wife was three years. Marriage customs or the availability of reindeer to support a new family (the Sami people are reindeer herders) might be the reason that more Sami marriages did not display the optimum age difference, Helle says. I question the value that we have placed on coeducation in high school and college. It is true that platonic friendships formed at these institutions are often precious and memorable. However, it is also true that sexual mishaps take place at school that damage people for life. We could ameliorate the temptation for short-lived same-age fornication-relationships if our culture said, "OK, coeducation has some value, but we will make a joint effort to set up younger women with older men for marriage in general."
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Post by infamous93 on Dec 9, 2011 20:53:01 GMT -5
I'm pretty sure that it's illegal.
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