Post by vincentthaman on Oct 4, 2011 18:13:48 GMT -5
Well, first of all I just want to say that I'm not some wannabe noob who just wants to post because of some dumb ass reasons.
I was actually reading this forum for a long ass time before I registered, and I registered now because I think that I have some experience and some tips to share.
So I'll try to cram a lot of stuff into this post, try to clear up some things and give you my view on others. I'm not saying that my way is 100% correct, it is for me but everyone is different.
I'll start with the most important thing, ENJOYING LIFE!
A lot of people lead pretty boring and dull lives, they fall into a routine, school, home, work everyday is the same, that needs to gtfo. There is a shitload of posts on this forum about this being your only life and so on so I'm not going to repeat them again, but you should really look at some of them.
To me the secret to happines is to constantly improve and do something at least slightly new everyday. Working out, finding a sport or a hobby that you really like doing. Some of my happiest days were when I would get up in like 8 am and go out and do parkour.
Find something you like doing and do it, its never too late.
Lets move on
Looks are probably the number one thing that is holding people back in terms of picking up and so on. I was there I always thought something along the lines. Man that guy is so much more good looking then me I shouldn't even try. Or man I wish I was better looking I would totally go do that.
Here is the truth, that has been said a thousand times but I dont care Imma say it again. Yes looks matter, but not in the way you think. There will always be some guys that are more good looking then others but the most important thing is what you do with your looks. Make sure your teeth are nice and everything is as clean as possible, fat or lack of fat is the thing that matters the least. I have seen skinny guys pickup chicks and fat guys pick up chicks, as long as your not UBER FAT or UBER SKINNY it will not hold you back.
As for clothes just get what you want to wear, its gonna feel akward at first but you will adjust but later you will start feeling like a badass. I bought a leather jacket and it was really akward at the start I felt like everyone was looking at me, but after I kind'a got used to it I did start feeling like a badass and the girls told me it looked hot. Buuuut that is not only because of the leather jacket, its because of your personality.
Which brings me to the next topic.
Now I'll talk about routines here also. Routines are here to get you started. A lot of people say be yourself, but thats shit, because you've been yourself for the last who knows how much and it hasnt worked out right? WRONG You weren't being yourself you were being your social self not your real self.
Remember all the times you wanted to do something but didn't, because of who knows what reason. Well if you did that you would be yourself.
Routines are here to move you out of your comfort zone, after you try some openers negs and whatnot and get some positive reactions you will realize, holly shit this actually isnt that scary/hard.
And bit by bit you will stop using routines and your real persona will emerge with that new confidence.
How do I know this, I've been there.
My first grade of highschool I WAS SUCH A PUSSY MAAAAN. I was NOT MYSELF I was the PUSSY VERSION and man if I could turn back time and go in with my new REAL self now, things would be quite different.
Recently I transfered to a new class and man, I went in there with my REAL ME this time, girls are diggin me, the guys are all friends with me, and so on, only good shit happens.
So be yourself is true, but that means bring out your trueself.
There is a list somewhere on this forum about attractive personality traits and if you have them in your persona it will even make you look better. Much better.
Remember when you were a kid and you were playing with your friends and you were roleplaying and/or when you had an idol on a TV show or a movie and you wanted to be like him, well I say why the fuck not, its your life right? Whats the point if you dont have fun, you cant use money after you're dead right?
Point is act how you want to act, wear what you want to wear, do what you want to do.
Beliefs
This is crazy and there has been a lot of posts on this but damn.
If you believe it will work IT WILL WORK.
If you believe that your sexy YOU ARE SEXY, (Well unless you look like shit in which case fix it as much as you can
)
One of my favorite things to do in a conversation is to say random lines or something tottally out of place or something bold. If she asks you "Are you looking at my ass" Dont say NO or SORRY say "yea could you stand there, theres better lightning there." That works so good, but you need to be true to it, if you say it and she senses you are scared or whatever it will fail. But if you believe it will work, it will and she will like you more because you're not like all of the others "how was your day, how are you, nice weather" boring convos.
I will probably add something to this thread that I didn't remember atm.
Oh yea there's one more interesting thing.
Masturbation
Now there are a lot of opinions on this, Im just gonna throw mine out there with some source. When I don't masturbate Im happier, more motivated, I feel more sexy and I have much more success with everything.
So try it out try not to masturbate for a whole school week.
If you want to learn more about it here themodernsavage.com/2009/02/04/effects-of-male-masturbation-on-attracting-women/
I was actually reading this forum for a long ass time before I registered, and I registered now because I think that I have some experience and some tips to share.
So I'll try to cram a lot of stuff into this post, try to clear up some things and give you my view on others. I'm not saying that my way is 100% correct, it is for me but everyone is different.
I'll start with the most important thing, ENJOYING LIFE!
A lot of people lead pretty boring and dull lives, they fall into a routine, school, home, work everyday is the same, that needs to gtfo. There is a shitload of posts on this forum about this being your only life and so on so I'm not going to repeat them again, but you should really look at some of them.
To me the secret to happines is to constantly improve and do something at least slightly new everyday. Working out, finding a sport or a hobby that you really like doing. Some of my happiest days were when I would get up in like 8 am and go out and do parkour.
Find something you like doing and do it, its never too late.
Lets move on
Looks are probably the number one thing that is holding people back in terms of picking up and so on. I was there I always thought something along the lines. Man that guy is so much more good looking then me I shouldn't even try. Or man I wish I was better looking I would totally go do that.
Here is the truth, that has been said a thousand times but I dont care Imma say it again. Yes looks matter, but not in the way you think. There will always be some guys that are more good looking then others but the most important thing is what you do with your looks. Make sure your teeth are nice and everything is as clean as possible, fat or lack of fat is the thing that matters the least. I have seen skinny guys pickup chicks and fat guys pick up chicks, as long as your not UBER FAT or UBER SKINNY it will not hold you back.
As for clothes just get what you want to wear, its gonna feel akward at first but you will adjust but later you will start feeling like a badass. I bought a leather jacket and it was really akward at the start I felt like everyone was looking at me, but after I kind'a got used to it I did start feeling like a badass and the girls told me it looked hot. Buuuut that is not only because of the leather jacket, its because of your personality.
Which brings me to the next topic.
Now I'll talk about routines here also. Routines are here to get you started. A lot of people say be yourself, but thats shit, because you've been yourself for the last who knows how much and it hasnt worked out right? WRONG You weren't being yourself you were being your social self not your real self.
Remember all the times you wanted to do something but didn't, because of who knows what reason. Well if you did that you would be yourself.
Routines are here to move you out of your comfort zone, after you try some openers negs and whatnot and get some positive reactions you will realize, holly shit this actually isnt that scary/hard.
And bit by bit you will stop using routines and your real persona will emerge with that new confidence.
How do I know this, I've been there.
My first grade of highschool I WAS SUCH A PUSSY MAAAAN. I was NOT MYSELF I was the PUSSY VERSION and man if I could turn back time and go in with my new REAL self now, things would be quite different.
Recently I transfered to a new class and man, I went in there with my REAL ME this time, girls are diggin me, the guys are all friends with me, and so on, only good shit happens.
So be yourself is true, but that means bring out your trueself.
There is a list somewhere on this forum about attractive personality traits and if you have them in your persona it will even make you look better. Much better.
Remember when you were a kid and you were playing with your friends and you were roleplaying and/or when you had an idol on a TV show or a movie and you wanted to be like him, well I say why the fuck not, its your life right? Whats the point if you dont have fun, you cant use money after you're dead right?
Point is act how you want to act, wear what you want to wear, do what you want to do.
Beliefs
This is crazy and there has been a lot of posts on this but damn.
If you believe it will work IT WILL WORK.
If you believe that your sexy YOU ARE SEXY, (Well unless you look like shit in which case fix it as much as you can
)One of my favorite things to do in a conversation is to say random lines or something tottally out of place or something bold. If she asks you "Are you looking at my ass" Dont say NO or SORRY say "yea could you stand there, theres better lightning there." That works so good, but you need to be true to it, if you say it and she senses you are scared or whatever it will fail. But if you believe it will work, it will and she will like you more because you're not like all of the others "how was your day, how are you, nice weather" boring convos.
I will probably add something to this thread that I didn't remember atm.
Oh yea there's one more interesting thing.
Masturbation
Now there are a lot of opinions on this, Im just gonna throw mine out there with some source. When I don't masturbate Im happier, more motivated, I feel more sexy and I have much more success with everything.
So try it out try not to masturbate for a whole school week.
If you want to learn more about it here themodernsavage.com/2009/02/04/effects-of-male-masturbation-on-attracting-women/
