need help

[potter]

took this girl to the movies, night went good.

next day she txts me saying she isnt feeling a connection.

been going down hill with her ever since, i like her, a lot.

whats this mean

[DanZy]

What does it mean? It means she doesn't feel an emotional connection between you. In other words, she doesn't want your dick. Please tell me you're not being serious

[infamous93]

Yeah it doesn't look good, you should back off and persue other girls, if she likes you enough she will come running back.

Either that or fuck buddies ;D

[looknlisten]

Haha verbal statement my man, she said there's no emotional connection so do things that evoke emotions out of her don't try to negotiate logically or do things that seem logical. Otherwise basically its game over.

[mxer720]

I'd quit talking to her...

[aussieenergy]

Ok so here's how it is. You've been on one date and she says she feels no emotional connection and you feel you have to start a thread for advice? NO. I suggest 1. You actually read some of the threads in these forums before you post AND 2. Don't get oneitis; persue other women and use my mental state of 'Don't give a shit'. Go by the book in the idea that you flirt with girls and:
1.act interested in what she has to say
2. Listen to what she has to say.
3. respond to what she has to say
AND
4. Be fun while you're around her, make her laugh. That way she'll feel happy around you because you've already created a 'happy atmosphere' for her while she's around you. Then just get kino with her and you're all good.

[Sloth]

chances are if you crack on with others girls she'll get mad jealous and want you anyway.

there's your advice..

[looknlisten]

^ BUT as you can see his game isn't exactly tops so that isn't in his reality for time being ..

[potter]

Oct 7, 2011 23:13:42 GMT -5 aussieenergy said:

Ok so here's how it is. You've been on one date and she says she feels no emotional connection and you feel you have to start a thread for advice? NO. I suggest 1. You actually read some of the threads in these forums before you post AND 2. Don't get oneitis; persue other women and use my mental state of 'Don't give a shit'. Go by the book in the idea that you flirt with girls and:
1.act interested in what she has to say
2. Listen to what she has to say.
3. respond to what she has to say
AND
4. Be fun while you're around her, make her laugh. That way she'll feel happy around you because you've already created a 'happy atmosphere' for her while she's around you. Then just get kino with her and you're all good.

i did all this.

i agree, if she sees me with other girls she'll get jealous, but i don't know how you guys come to that emotional conclusion

[Sloth]

we know from experience

[infamous93]

And from being fucking awesome.

[Adam]

Don't game other girls to get her jealous. Thats just another form of onitis

[amarok]

Right Adam. Game other girls because you want to, not because you want another girl. Which one is more fun?

[looknlisten]

^ and as we can see his game is not tops so that isn't on the menu for todays lunch. Breed winners people, I don't remember seeing a hot girl getting jelly cos the dude approached girls after she rejected him? All his doing is getting momentum and social value in her eyes, when he could be pushing his lifestyle and living for 10 men which is why you need to understand what's she's saying. She said there's no chemistry, meaning you are not making her get butterflies. That could mean overall that your vibe is lacking something or your not making her feel emotional and remember alex's A=E±V or some shit like that .. If you wanna attract you gotta feed her emotions (good or bad) and communicate your living well

[Sloth]

true, if there's no chemistry it isn't because it's simply 'not meant to be', it's cause you're doing something wrong.