hollyhood
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Post by hollyhood on Nov 24, 2008 22:47:00 GMT -5
damn im into this rly hot girl and im getting way to eager im starting to worry im coming off as desperate. seriously its way out of character for me to be so eager, im texting her and then she stopped texting me and i said "hey freshie get at me" im afraid i just ruined this in like 5 min. for some reason i just sent like three texts that had no response. i keep making excuses for her like oh shes just busy but im realizing she is just rly flakey but its like i have a good chance she just is hard to get a hold of, in person we have good chemistry and i swear she just wont text me sometimes. how can i salvage this
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nine
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Post by nine on Nov 24, 2008 23:00:48 GMT -5
NEVER text back without a reply. It's a cardinal sin.
Second, from now on when you text her, however long it takes her to answer, that's how long it takes you to answer. You'll notice her responses coming quicker.
Third, if she texts back and it's some one word answer or it's lame, just don't respond and she'll think she broke the conversation.
Nine
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optimus
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Post by optimus on Nov 24, 2008 23:05:48 GMT -5
NEVER text back without a reply. It's a cardinal sin. Second, from now on when you text her, however long it takes her to answer, that's how long it takes you to answer. You'll notice her responses coming quicker. Third, if she texts back and it's some one word answer or it's lame, just don't respond and she'll think she broke the conversation. Nine Money. Nine has got txt game down. The rule I follow is Never be the last one to speakIf she says something dumb, just don't reply. Check your phone every hour, but not much more. That way sometimes you'll reply in 20 minutes, sometimes you'll reply in an hour. Keep her guessing. |
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Nov 25, 2008 14:49:05 GMT -5
gotta remember those ^ lol dont even worry about it man, everyone is like that maybe shes just trying to save credit or whatever, who cares when she texts you, you can let her wait for the reply  |
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Nov 25, 2008 21:52:02 GMT -5
When they don't reply and i know they are there i just say "wow i love it when no one answers when i text. Love you too!"
then i don't text back
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nine
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Post by nine on Nov 25, 2008 22:12:15 GMT -5
Seems self-depreciating, I always find it pathetic when girls text me more than once when I haven't answered. It's like, "Can't you take the hint?"
Nine
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Amplified
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Post by Amplified on Nov 26, 2008 4:10:48 GMT -5
I need to start following Optimus' rule for checking my phone.
When someone doesn't text me back, I just throw her the same treatment when she eventually texts, but then do it a few more times.
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