mxer720
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Post by mxer720 on Oct 12, 2011 18:00:49 GMT -5
Alright, I haven't started a relationship(for real) in over 2 years. My last relationship lasted a year and a half... And began in middle school. Soo basically, I've never learned how to go from being friends to a relationship? Don't be a dick about, just help me out please Heres the deal, this hot ass chick told my friend I am hot, and told him to give me her number and text her... I actually want to make something out of this, and I've only been texting her a little bit about just plain things... How do I turn up the heat, and move this relationship forward? One option I'm thinking of starting with is hanging out with her this weekend or something... But neither one of us have told each other if we like one another or not... I just got a hint of it earlier when I told her my friend told me about what she said, but he was probably just messing with me. And she replied Maybe he wasn't... And then the subject changed... Help please? Thank you!
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Post by amarok on Oct 12, 2011 19:08:35 GMT -5
Escalate like you normally would, and then when you've gotten physical, and after awhile of getting to know her (this is up to you guys), you can either ask her out or just assume you're a thing. Personally, I like asking the girl out.
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jackjoles
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Post by jackjoles on Nov 2, 2011 11:38:47 GMT -5
If she is staring at you, or you are digging you a freak or she (or her digging freak). If she looks like you and you are not a freak, look back. She took your eyes, is a green light, looking away is yellow. If you feel lucky to run the yellow light, but be prepared consequences. Waiting for confirmation, if she turned, the light is green, and did not hesitate to carry out.
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Post by looknlisten on Nov 2, 2011 16:31:19 GMT -5
Be with her alot, every weekend go out with her do whatever you do normally and she will want you that's just the way it is. I havnt been in a relationship in 12 months, pointless if your not where you wanna be as a person, easily couldve been with a few nice girls though. Everytime I go out I wanna do better than before. My good friend once got 9 makouts in 1 night and fingered 2 chicks - 17 years old. When you get to that point there will be a lot of abundance in your life and getting into a relationship will make you feel more fulfilled. Just saying. But not expected.
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Post by Contempt on Nov 2, 2011 17:11:20 GMT -5
A.) if she said maybe he wasn't it means she wants your cock. You basically said "your friend says you want to blow me, but i bet he was kidding" and she basically responded "Nah, i'm already on my knees, come over to my house now."
B.) How to turn up the heat? Take risks, if she responds badly, its a shit test and completely blow it off. No excuses. Unless you actually piss her off, in which case you might want to revise what your saying a little bit. But hey, if you piss a girl off, then give a sincere apology, you seem like a sweet guy, so that wouldn't necessarily be bad. Oh, and act fast, girls don't want to wait 5-6 weeks to get it in.
-Contempt
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Nick
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Post by Nick on Nov 2, 2011 22:39:15 GMT -5
^ True that. Do what he says.
And by risks, I do believe he is talking about saying sexual things, asking her to hang out, etc... Keep it sexual and escalate.
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bingomaxxbuzz
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Post by bingomaxxbuzz on Nov 12, 2011 1:35:44 GMT -5
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