Post by Chris on Sept 19, 2008 17:13:58 GMT -5
a few weeks ago, i figured that having oneitis isnt such a big deal. I mean hell, whats so bad about being attracted to a girl.
Well personally now, i actually think of it as a temporary mental disease. sometimes guys get oneitis with a girl they have never even kissed before! WTF!? why are you getting so into a girl that youve never even been intimate at all with? Heres why most guys do it: they are coming from a scarcity mindset and they think that girl is the only one for them, since they are attracted. ONEITIS WILL FUCK UP YOUR GAME NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR TECHNIQUES ARE!
Heres why: if you get oneitis, you begin thinking in terms of scarcity, which subcommunicates YOU DONT HAVE AN ABUNDANCE OF WOMEN. I dont care how good you are with body language, what you are thinking WILL COME OUT SOONER OR LATER!!! Your behaviors will change in subtle ways that come across as things like insecure, needy, attatched to the outcome and other BULL-SHIT, DUMB ASS BEHAVIORS.
Guys! I dont care if she is a ten and has a wonderful personality. Do not make her exclusive and allow yourself to get oneitis at least untill your in an LTR. Even then, you still should never get too attatched to a girl. it will send her running! If you find yourself getting oneitis, go sarging, go get some more targets. I now have made it a rule for me to always have AT LEAST three targets of equal importance. Trust me from experience, your game will spiral down once oneitis sets in.
Well personally now, i actually think of it as a temporary mental disease. sometimes guys get oneitis with a girl they have never even kissed before! WTF!? why are you getting so into a girl that youve never even been intimate at all with? Heres why most guys do it: they are coming from a scarcity mindset and they think that girl is the only one for them, since they are attracted. ONEITIS WILL FUCK UP YOUR GAME NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR TECHNIQUES ARE!
Heres why: if you get oneitis, you begin thinking in terms of scarcity, which subcommunicates YOU DONT HAVE AN ABUNDANCE OF WOMEN. I dont care how good you are with body language, what you are thinking WILL COME OUT SOONER OR LATER!!! Your behaviors will change in subtle ways that come across as things like insecure, needy, attatched to the outcome and other BULL-SHIT, DUMB ASS BEHAVIORS.
Guys! I dont care if she is a ten and has a wonderful personality. Do not make her exclusive and allow yourself to get oneitis at least untill your in an LTR. Even then, you still should never get too attatched to a girl. it will send her running! If you find yourself getting oneitis, go sarging, go get some more targets. I now have made it a rule for me to always have AT LEAST three targets of equal importance. Trust me from experience, your game will spiral down once oneitis sets in.
