Juggling all these women! Need help!!

[mikedaman]

Ok so I used to be a helluva pussy, but now I'm getting so many invitations to hang out with girls I can't possibly fit them all in my schedule.

Here's the rundown.
One girl wants me to go to a haunted house with her.
One girl wants me to go to a movie with her.
One girl wants me to go to a Talent show with her at her school.
Another girl wants me to go to a football game with her.
Another girl wants me to go to lifetime fitness and work out with her. (she doesnt lift, just does cardio)

These are my invites in just 2 days...all of which are happening Friday and Saturday.

Now I'll make it easier on y'all: The girls I'm interested in is the one asking me to go to a game with her, and the talent show.
The girl asking me to go to the game lives in Utah but she came down to San Antonio (her original hometown before her dad got transferred due to a job in the Secret Service)
She's only here until sunday, then god knows when she'll be back. We've gotten sexual over text and skype, so things should go very well if we met up.

The other girl, who I'd like to date, (we went to a haunted house together and got very touchy/feely) She even asked for a second date minutes after we departed which is going to be on Saturday at Six Flags. She's an amazing girl, and we've gotten sexual too, so either way, If you judge this decision by whats gonna get "more pussy", they both are equal here.

The dilemma is...She wants me to go to a talent show Friday. (The girl i want to date.) But the girl I won't see for a long time wants me to go with her to a football game. I can't just cancel the girl for the talent show and say "I'm meeting another girl"- That would break her heart...because well, we've both gotten to a point to where if I asked her out right now, we'd be together in a heart beat.

So, The football game girl REALLY wants me to go, and I've got to be honest, I won't see her for a long time, and I'd love to get a chance to meet her.

BUT how do I go about cancelling this talent show meet-up without hurting the girl? Or, considering the circumstances, since I want to date this girl, should I just not go to the football game?

What would you honestly say or do here?

[Eastcoast]

Juggling all these invites is all about priorities man. When I get a bunch of invites I usually think about the following things.

1. What girl do I like the best/will have the most fun with.
2. What are we actually doing, is it gonna be a waste of my time or will it be fun.
3. What are my chances of hooking up with this girl? (assuming shes not your friend)
4. other factors such as her only being here for the weekend

You gotta weigh all the factors and make a decision on what you wanna do. That being said you can also think about how concrete the plans were for blowing her off. If you told her your gonna see her for the last month and you bail shes gonna be pissed while as if she just said "lets watch a movie sometime this weekend" then she has no right to be upset.

I cant make the decision for you cause I dont know any of these girls.
Im not gonna give you advice on bailing either because the way i do it I think im not gonna explain it right and your gonna get fucked over, so your gonna have to figure it out for yourself.

Good luck man! have fun juggling

[mikedaman]

Ok because, I won't see this girl for a long time when she goes back to Utah.
The other one I'll see saturday for sure.

So i just texted the talent show one, I couldn't make it because my mom made sudden plans.
I hope she understands, plus we're gonna see each other this weekend and I've already seen her twice this week.

Of course I'll have a blast with the talent show one. I always do. But I think the priority is the football one, because I won't see her for a long time, thats what Im going with. Critique me if I'm wrong.

[Nick]

I mostly agree with what you did. You probably should not have lied about it, though. People are more understanding than you'd expect. The truth usually works...

The girl you won't see for a long time is obviously priority. Just tell the other girl that. I think she'd understand if you weren't going to see one of your "friends" for a long time... and that you will make it up to her.

You made the right choice, though. IMHO

[Sloth]

when all else fails, when all logic deserts you and you honestly can't make a choice based on reason, THEN you go with your 'heart'

[mikedaman]

Went well, the girl at the game was being bombarded by all her friends (she is hella popular) so we didn't talk a whole lot...so i chilled mostly with my best friend who goes to that school because he got kicked out of the one we were in the year before together. I also had known 2 hot girls who would be there, so it was a hugh DHV to have the two girls laughing there asses off to me and my best friends stories from the past year. (no one had known i knew the 2 girls previously, the girl i went to the game to hookup with was like, damn your good with talking to random girls) I supposedly was wearing douchey clothes, but everyone thought i looked really sexy in them and i was "buff as fuck"...all the girls called me "mr. buff guy". Me and the girl didn't get physically, but after the game she said she was so sorry she didnt spend more time with me, she said she wanted to make out and do stuff with me, but she couldnt get away from her stupid friends. P.S. She randomly went up and slapped my ass while i was talking to the girls and my friend...i returned the favor

Saturday night at six flags, It was an amazing date with this other girl. Ended up K-Closing her.

Good weekend.