New/First Girlfriend, how do I make it work?

[mikedaman]

Ok so I've known this girl about 5 weeks now. We've gone on three "dates" (Not sure what you consider it, since I'm in high school).
We went to a haunted house, lifetime, and six flags fright fest (this is in chronological order) over the course of 2 weeks.
I asked her out out on the six flags date (3rd one) And she agreed. For those wondering, we made it "Facebook official" The next day. At the end of the 3rd date, she went in for the kiss, and it was VERY short, because I wasn't prepared and kinda pulled away before I could stop myself and continue the kiss. She kissed me again before we parted, around the same time, (consider the 2nd, a peck)

Guys/Girls, its my first relationship ever, first kiss ever, first person I've truly cared about ever.
I want to really spark this relationship (She's experienced) and give her something she's never had before with a guy.
She always texts me back and stuff but I feel we're more on a friendly note then we are boyfriend/girlfriend.
How do we get emotional with each other and actually build a bond? I can make her laugh and all, but it feels more friendly then on the dating side.
I want to keep her for a long long time, she's amazing.

What do i do to build an emotional/deep/loving bond with her? She asked me to go with her to lifetime tuesday and play volleyball there with her. Should I even bother telling her she was my first kiss/relationship? Because well, it may help her understand a bit where I'm coming from and help us begin a bond.
Help me guys.
I'd hate to have to say this, but I don't want any cocky BS. I'm done with being a selfish little ass varsity football jock who doesn't give a crap about anything but "getting some" every day and night.
I want a true/honest approach to what I should do, for those who have experienced the same thing.
****To break up some confusion, I've kissed girls before. Just hadn't actually given a shit about them like i do for this one. Which is why I'm feeling more pressured than usual.*****

[swagger]

Escalate the sexuality.
Escalate the romance and flirting.
Most of all let loose and enjoy the fact that you have her, don't be overly considered about keeping her because if she doesn't want you for your natural behaviour then she does not want you, so be natural and see where it goes.

[Sloth]

mike its easy just keep kino up and be sexual, look at her like you want to fuck her.. in your head be thinking about what shed be like in bed, and it's communicated through your looks, that aint something friends do.
in terms of building rapport, it's easy, just talk, ask what her dream job is and shit like that!

Those bonds arent built over night though, just relax and stop assuming that this shit is so complicated.

[infamous93]

Dude you are doing fine, just get more physical with her if you want to be percieved as less of a friend.

Also try and make your friend groups mix, its one thing to be sexually attracted to someone and a different thing to like somebody's personality, mix your friend groups and you guys will grow closer.

[mikedaman]

I think Her and I in person do pretty well.
Thanks for that advice.
Since i'm not too sure how the boundaries work for boyfriend/girlfriend compared to "I'm planning on hooking up with this girl", how should i go about texting? Good morning texts, i do daily. But other than that, should she just text me first?
I don't want to talk about everything over text and then not have much to talk about in person.

[Sloth]

texting is the weak mans phone call. call her instead.

[DanZy]

Drop the good morning texts, they're lame and soppy. If you are going to text, have fun with it. You seriously need to escalate dude, it's fun and you'll become more accustomed to it with time and experience

[nesblu]

What DanZy said. Stop using the word "date", its a term that radiates lameness. Its more friendly because you don't escalate. You're lucky she kissed you first because most girls would wait for you to kiss them. Just grab yourself by the balls and escalate. You worry too much just let go and have fun.