Girls who will do everything but sex?

[thesaphireflame]

Basically my gf of almost 4 months is obsessed with me (I left her for 5 mins at a dance and she freaked out, says I'm perfect, attractive, ect) but wants to wait for sex. She thinks sex is "bad" and puts it up there with drugs/alchohol and says shes a "good girl". When people ask her how far we've gone she just says she's a good girl so she doesn't get viewed as a slut.

We'll talk sexually with each other and she talks about how she wants her first time to be special, but she wants too wait a while. She said on my/her birthday (a few months away ) without me asking when.

So I like her and wondering how to deal with girls like this. I could not say anything and wait but maybe you guys have some experience/advice. I don't want to pressure her, but I have told her I don't think sex is bad when she brings it up and stuff. Should I ask her why she thinks sex is bad? Or just say I want to be inside her while I'm giving her oral?

I'm the first person she's done a lot of this stuff with and I'd rather have sex with her then a girl I don't care about. Hopefully you guys can help me out

[Amb1valence]

You guys do oral and everything up to sex except sex? Fuck I hate girls like that. Make her scream with some good oral one day and just do what you said, like I want to be inside you and all that good sexy manly shit that'll make her all hot and bothered. It should happen naturally..........if she's excited enough (i.e. if you don't suck at oral) then it should just happen naturally. If EVEN AT THAT POINT she still wants to abstain and all that shit...and if that happens after a few times....then no. End it. Personally I don't think it's worth waiting for when there's so much opportunity right around the corner if you're just willing to venture out a little further.

[canadiankid]

Honestly I'd wait if you really like her, but don't wait past that Bday. My buddy got fucked (not literally) over by that... 16 months before he got laid. On the other hand, sex too soon if she's not ready could ruin your relationship