Post by RMO on Nov 15, 2011 2:30:17 GMT -5
Been awhile. Heres another article folks.
this question is usually answered with: Everyone.
And if you're trying to build up social confidence that advice isn't half bad.
But what are we doing here? We're trying to get laid. Don't give me any bullshit on why you're here, it really stems from frustrated teenagers who want action but can't. And I will put forth the idea that approaching everyone will not make you better at getting laid.
Who do you want to fuck? Thats the very first question you should ask. I usually respond with, cute/hot girls whom I can talk to without wanting to blow my fucking brains out for at least 2 minutes. That ranges from HB 8 - 10 by your standards. As such I only interact with women under those standards only if I absolutely have to.
Why not? you ask. There are so many women that you can practice on, and it doesn't matter if you fuck up because you didn't want to fuck her anyway. You can fuck up 10000 times and be a better player then mystery because you've had all that practice.
I must respond with 4 reasons why this is a bad idea.
1. ugly girls are not hot girls
2. you do not have the same motivation
3. It feeds your ego
4. self-respect
The first one is kind of a 'duh' statement. Unattractive women are not attractive women. No shit, those two thing have antithetical adjectives. But the phrase 'beauty is only skin deep' is slightly applicable here. Hot girls weren't just hot the moment before you saw them, they were hot long before you saw them, they're usually been hot since they hit puberty, to their respective peers you sick bastards, and people have always treated them like hot girls. Usually hot girls have WAY more social calibration then ugly girls there are obvious exceptions of course like hot girls home schooled in the wilds of alaska as opposed to ugly chicks in huge high schools, but for the most part this observation remains true.
This social calibration contains the laws for social interaction and it embeds in all who are calibrated with how to show they are attractive and mentally stable for everyone to see. They call it a game, but it really should be called a meat market. Now if you're new to this shit you know that I recommend that all game comes from your inner reality, so you shouldn't change your game for certain girls, girls should be clamoring to be a part of your reality. HOWEVER if you game girls who aren't properly socially calibrated, and/or calibrated like a 10, you lose out on the ability to figure out which girls are the ones you want, or the ones that are crazy, or ones who are out to get fucked. Ugly girls just aren't good practice, because they aren't hot chicks. Its like practicing football by playing soccer. Sure they're both competitive sports with balls, but its not the same game.
Now for the even more important reason. Motivation.
I don't know about you guys, but there is one thing which will motivate me to get the girl more then anything else, more then alcohol, more then bros, more then getting back at the bitch that dumped you ( never been dumped, thats my job, so I'm kind of guesstimating with that last one) the most motivating thing in my arsenal is my boner. If she makes me hard, well theres very little which will keep me from fucking her. There is risk, there are emotions, this is not just a game, its a struggle of life and death and possibly blue balls. I can't get hard with ugly girls. I set my standards high and my penis sets them higher. If its not the same motivation, then when your comfortable flirting with these ugly hoes, you will be totally fucked when that girl you want shows up out of nowhere and you can't deal with the situation. Also you aren't practicing your true game. Take an alpha male with a boner and a hot chick and you will see the best game in the world being played, take the same guy, take away the boner and give him an ugly chick, he'll same some words, pretty much anything, and she'll be all over him. Challenge yourself.
There is a trap when your gaming ugly chicks. They're really easy. I'm not talking about the hb7-hb8 zone where those girl think they're hotter then hb 9-10s since they get approached way more, but the hb0-hb7 zone of girls who will do anything to have sex with anyone. This just feeds your ego, it makes you feel good and like some super player. In reality your just a cock to them and you could be a giant turd with a penis and she wouldn't care. Your ego is your only enemy. Remember that.
And my final reason, the most obvious one, is where is your self-respect? Flirting with ugly chicks is just fucked up man. Not only does it give them unreasonable expectations but it eats away at your soul. Respect yourself and your penis, go after quality girls.
there are currently 6,840,507,000 people on this planet, according to google, and with women accounting for around half of those people, thats a fuck ton of people. If you only live to be 80 you will have lived close to 30,000 days, and if you met 10 women everyday you would have only met .008ish percent of women on the planet. That number still stays crazy even if you only count the first world countries. you can ALWAYS do better.
You should approach hot/cute girls that you want to fuck, you should have fun with these girls and make them a constant part of your reality. Be that guy who always has the nicest girls just falling left and right for you, the guy that people wish they were.
On that note, don't be a dick to ugly girls, they're lives are shitty enough without you being a prick.
this question is usually answered with: Everyone.
And if you're trying to build up social confidence that advice isn't half bad.
But what are we doing here? We're trying to get laid. Don't give me any bullshit on why you're here, it really stems from frustrated teenagers who want action but can't. And I will put forth the idea that approaching everyone will not make you better at getting laid.
Who do you want to fuck? Thats the very first question you should ask. I usually respond with, cute/hot girls whom I can talk to without wanting to blow my fucking brains out for at least 2 minutes. That ranges from HB 8 - 10 by your standards. As such I only interact with women under those standards only if I absolutely have to.
Why not? you ask. There are so many women that you can practice on, and it doesn't matter if you fuck up because you didn't want to fuck her anyway. You can fuck up 10000 times and be a better player then mystery because you've had all that practice.
I must respond with 4 reasons why this is a bad idea.
1. ugly girls are not hot girls
2. you do not have the same motivation
3. It feeds your ego
4. self-respect
The first one is kind of a 'duh' statement. Unattractive women are not attractive women. No shit, those two thing have antithetical adjectives. But the phrase 'beauty is only skin deep' is slightly applicable here. Hot girls weren't just hot the moment before you saw them, they were hot long before you saw them, they're usually been hot since they hit puberty, to their respective peers you sick bastards, and people have always treated them like hot girls. Usually hot girls have WAY more social calibration then ugly girls there are obvious exceptions of course like hot girls home schooled in the wilds of alaska as opposed to ugly chicks in huge high schools, but for the most part this observation remains true.
This social calibration contains the laws for social interaction and it embeds in all who are calibrated with how to show they are attractive and mentally stable for everyone to see. They call it a game, but it really should be called a meat market. Now if you're new to this shit you know that I recommend that all game comes from your inner reality, so you shouldn't change your game for certain girls, girls should be clamoring to be a part of your reality. HOWEVER if you game girls who aren't properly socially calibrated, and/or calibrated like a 10, you lose out on the ability to figure out which girls are the ones you want, or the ones that are crazy, or ones who are out to get fucked. Ugly girls just aren't good practice, because they aren't hot chicks. Its like practicing football by playing soccer. Sure they're both competitive sports with balls, but its not the same game.
Now for the even more important reason. Motivation.
I don't know about you guys, but there is one thing which will motivate me to get the girl more then anything else, more then alcohol, more then bros, more then getting back at the bitch that dumped you ( never been dumped, thats my job, so I'm kind of guesstimating with that last one) the most motivating thing in my arsenal is my boner. If she makes me hard, well theres very little which will keep me from fucking her. There is risk, there are emotions, this is not just a game, its a struggle of life and death and possibly blue balls. I can't get hard with ugly girls. I set my standards high and my penis sets them higher. If its not the same motivation, then when your comfortable flirting with these ugly hoes, you will be totally fucked when that girl you want shows up out of nowhere and you can't deal with the situation. Also you aren't practicing your true game. Take an alpha male with a boner and a hot chick and you will see the best game in the world being played, take the same guy, take away the boner and give him an ugly chick, he'll same some words, pretty much anything, and she'll be all over him. Challenge yourself.
There is a trap when your gaming ugly chicks. They're really easy. I'm not talking about the hb7-hb8 zone where those girl think they're hotter then hb 9-10s since they get approached way more, but the hb0-hb7 zone of girls who will do anything to have sex with anyone. This just feeds your ego, it makes you feel good and like some super player. In reality your just a cock to them and you could be a giant turd with a penis and she wouldn't care. Your ego is your only enemy. Remember that.
And my final reason, the most obvious one, is where is your self-respect? Flirting with ugly chicks is just fucked up man. Not only does it give them unreasonable expectations but it eats away at your soul. Respect yourself and your penis, go after quality girls.
there are currently 6,840,507,000 people on this planet, according to google, and with women accounting for around half of those people, thats a fuck ton of people. If you only live to be 80 you will have lived close to 30,000 days, and if you met 10 women everyday you would have only met .008ish percent of women on the planet. That number still stays crazy even if you only count the first world countries. you can ALWAYS do better.
You should approach hot/cute girls that you want to fuck, you should have fun with these girls and make them a constant part of your reality. Be that guy who always has the nicest girls just falling left and right for you, the guy that people wish they were.
On that note, don't be a dick to ugly girls, they're lives are shitty enough without you being a prick.
