New and confused. What am I Missing?

[america]

Alright so here's the deal... I just recently turned 16 and I'm a junior in high school (skipped a grade... too damn smart ). Anyway, here's my problem: I've never so much as kissed a girl or even had a girlfriend for that matter. I discovered these forums fairly recently and to tell you the truth, this place seems like a gold mine. It really seems everyone on this forum knows what they're talking about. But enough flattering you, let's cut to the chase.

Without beating around the bush, I used to be a major fat ass. Plain and simple. Toward the end of my freshman year, I started losing weight and it just kept coming off. I've slimmed down to 5'11" and around 175 lbs. Pretty damn good considering I used to be 5'8" and 225. Anyway... throughout my entire life, I've never so much as kissed a girl. Pretty pathetic considering I'm 16. I used to blame my lack of relations with the other sex on my looks. I knew I looked like a blob and I really didn't see that helping me out too much with the ladies. I figured slimming down would solve my problem. Sadly, I was wrong.

After slimming down and still having no success, I figured it was time to work on my personality. I'd always been that shy kid that did his work and hardly anyone knew. Let me tell you, those days are a thing of the past. I'm now friends with nearly all of the various social groups in my school (granted my high school is pretty small... less than 600 in the high school).

Now you may be thinking to yourself that maybe my problem is that I'm just bad at talking to girls or something along those lines... that's also not true. The problem is I make way more "girl friends" than "girlfriends".

To be honest, I'm completely lost as to why this is the situation. I will admit I used to fit the "nice guy" stereotype, but recently, I've broken away from that. I began to think that maybe it wasn't the fat that was causing me to be unattractive to girls, but that genetics just fucked me and I was butt ugly. Once again, I found out I was wrong through various female friends (two of which I'm pretty sure want to fuck me... too bad they have boyfriends -.-). I asked one of them straight up if they thought I was ugly, and she told me that I was extremely attractive (this girl is the most blatantly honest person I've met, by the way). I asked her to compare my attractiveness to pretty much the ultimate alpha male of our class that is dating the most fuckable (decided by the guys of the Junior class) chick in our class. She told me that compared to him, my personality and looks blow him out of the water.

So, why then, am I still single? Is it my personality? The way I carry myself? As far as I know, no. Once again, this was confirmed by more females. We were in a group of people discussing how much we've "done" with the opposite sex, and two of the girls there said that I looked like the kind of guy that has had sex multiple times before. I'm pretty sure the one chick almost died when I told her I've never even kissed a girl before.

So my question is this... what am I missing? Is there some secret nobody ever let me in on? Did I miss something while I was busy being a lonely, obese child that only cared about school?

Thank you for reading this gigantic post! Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[looknlisten]

Yeah, you missed being a man. Straight up I can tell you have 0 experience, shaky beliefs (looks ect.) And you think a lot. I believe guys should always start with videos before reading articles and shit, speak to the specialists to get started.

[america]

Videos? And who do you consider a specialist?

[Sloth]

the road to success is hard, but it's guarenteed if you follow the right path.
You're so worried about your lack of experience dude, don't let it embarass you. Just be confident in yourself IT WILL HAPPEN. And when that shit happens, one kiss can lead to more SO easily.

Welcome, you have a lot of reading and shit to do if you really want to learn, i suggest going to the forum 'articles' section and seeing if there's any articles there that catch your eye. I wrote one on 'The Basics' not long ago, it may be a good starting point

You'll be alright lad x

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