america
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Post by america on Dec 18, 2011 18:23:16 GMT -5
No matter how good of a PUA you are, I'm sure you've been flaked on before. I've always wondered though... what causes a girl to flake on you? This girl I'd been talking to for maybe a week recently (HB8) seemed extremely excited to hang out with me and a couple friends last night. However, about an hour before, she sent me a simple text saying "I'm not going tonight. Sorry  " I'm not too concerned... plenty of other fish in the sea. But does anyone know how a girl can go from extremely excited to not wanting to hang out over the course of 2 days? |
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qaz
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Post by qaz on Dec 18, 2011 19:09:45 GMT -5
I literally just got on to ask about this, it seems like no matter how good of game I have going whenever I try to hangout they always flake last minute and it's very frustrating. She always seems really excited to chill and sometime around the time were supposed to chill they flake and throw in a :/ or a with a last minute excuse. Maybe I'm just really bad with timing but I really don't believe that. I'm confused. |
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Post by Sloth on Dec 18, 2011 19:16:58 GMT -5
everyone gets flaked on, as far as im concerned it's their loss BIG TIME. and i don't mind telling them that, or better yet, showing them that, by having a boss time without them
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Post by canadiankid on Dec 18, 2011 19:18:13 GMT -5
Cause: not enough attraction, or not enough comfort. Quite simple, don't over think it. It usually results from a lack of chemistry, and it happens to everyone.
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america
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Post by america on Dec 18, 2011 19:38:31 GMT -5
You guys pretty much just told me exactly what I was thinking. I actually told her she was missing out. lol... Oh well, still went out with my friends anyway. We went bowling and I gotta say... I kicked some major ASS. I guess rejection improves my bowling abilities  |
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Post by Sloth on Dec 18, 2011 21:02:01 GMT -5
why didnt you just meet some girls at the bowling alley, that place is easy for starting conversations if girls are about
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Post by canadiankid on Dec 18, 2011 21:11:54 GMT -5
^true story
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Post by looknlisten on Dec 18, 2011 21:16:44 GMT -5
When a girl in highschool school flakes it's not a "lack of chemistry" or attraction or whatever. There are many factors to why girls flake, sometimes life is shitty and if she has no car she can't move anywhere, she may have gotten into a fight with fam, she may have to be somewhere else - moral of the story is you can't cry over things you can't control. If she flakes its not in my control so no point in it affecting my emotion. If it happens between 2 or 3 more times it means she doesn't like you or she's not very good at doing shit in her life therefor a low quality girl (who the fuck can't leave the house ??) .. To an extent choding is also a factor. I macked a girl and we couldve banged but she bearly wanted to leave the house and I couldnt go over to hers. So yeah, if flaking hurts you so bad then when you ask your girl to come make sure there is an abundance of girls at the venue already.
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Parkwhore
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Post by Parkwhore on Dec 18, 2011 21:30:47 GMT -5
When a girl in highschool school flakes it's not a "lack of chemistry" or attraction or whatever. There are many factors to why girls flake, sometimes life is shitty and if she has no car she can't move anywhere, she may have gotten into a fight with fam, she may have to be somewhere else - moral of the story is you can't cry over things you can't control. If she flakes its not in my control so no point in it affecting my emotion. If it happens between 2 or 3 more times it means she doesn't like you or she's not very good at doing shit in her life therefor a low quality girl (who the fuck can't leave the house ??) .. To an extent choding is also a factor. I macked a girl and we couldve banged but she bearly wanted to leave the house and I couldnt go over to hers. So yeah, if flaking hurts you so bad then when you ask your girl to come make sure there is an abundance of girls at the venue already. A+. |
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Post by canadiankid on Dec 19, 2011 2:01:27 GMT -5
Slater makes a good point
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" I'm not too concerned... plenty of other fish in the sea. But does anyone know how a girl can go from extremely excited to not wanting to hang out over the course of 2 days?
