Magnum
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Post by Magnum on Dec 25, 2011 20:05:50 GMT -5
Hi guys. My name is Magnum, I'm 15 years old and I've been reading this site's posts for 5 months but never had the patience to make an account on this site. I want to be a PUA (no doubt). My only F****** problem is the approach anxiety. I've read many freaking things from MM to Andrew's and OHM posts (gotta love those guys ;D ). Anyway, I hope you can help me while I'm here so I can teach you something too (something like... nevermind ;D ). Thanks Magnum  |
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Parkwhore
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G-Eazy is my shit.
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Registered: May 15, 2011 21:15:59 GMT -5
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Post by Parkwhore on Dec 26, 2011 1:25:49 GMT -5
When it comes to AA, man up, that's all it comes down to. You just have to let loose.
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Michal
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Registered: Oct 11, 2011 9:37:23 GMT -5
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Post by Michal on Dec 26, 2011 9:46:34 GMT -5
mental masturbation but welcome anyway
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Post by Sloth on Dec 26, 2011 19:30:19 GMT -5
pal, AA isn't something you can read up on and fix.
only cure is action. Sorry if you were looking for an easy pass!
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Magnum
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Post by Magnum on Dec 26, 2011 19:39:50 GMT -5
yeah sloth i was looking for a shortcut. i guess im really screwed up  |
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jae
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Registered: Dec 15, 2011 0:24:33 GMT -5
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Post by jae on Dec 27, 2011 2:08:25 GMT -5
Nah man. Just use it as sexual tension.
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Post by looknlisten on Dec 27, 2011 7:42:35 GMT -5
No such thing as approach anxiety, social conditioning/pickup conditioning term. If your father/non pua friend asked why your afraid to approach you will not tell him cos you have AA. Therefor its an excuse to hide the truth. And the truth is your scared, and the only way your gonna get over your fear is by taking it head on. Saying you have AA is not taking responsibility for your down comings so how will you ever become better, dude tell yourself your afraid, your afraid of getting rejected and having to turn around while people are looking at you, whispering and possibly laughing at you behind your back. Then you will realize what you have been telling yourself is also another lie cos guess what ? Those people couldn't care less about what you where doing. You can't hide truth, its impossible just seek to find it, accept it, move forward.
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Post by Sloth on Dec 27, 2011 8:27:40 GMT -5
To pick out a key point from Slater's writing, the world doesn't revolve around you. People are too busy worrying what people think about them to care about you.
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Magnum
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Post by Magnum on Dec 27, 2011 9:18:23 GMT -5
i never said it was an excuse for my bad performance. i just still have this big amount of fear, thats all.
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Post by looknlisten on Dec 27, 2011 10:02:01 GMT -5
Then what are you going to do about it.
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Magnum
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Post by Magnum on Dec 27, 2011 15:33:08 GMT -5
im going to start opening like crazy because if i dont, i wont go anywhere. im tired of doing nothing and just thinking on talking to people. ill put field reports so you can tell me what i am doing wrong and for me to see my progress. thats what im going to do now.
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Post by looknlisten on Dec 27, 2011 17:24:25 GMT -5
Haha well then we have just won half the battle
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