Post by Grape on Jul 5, 2008 14:13:03 GMT -5
Need I say more?? I've been thinking about this for a while and it's all there is to becoming good with women... and the rest of society.
Don't be a creep.
That's all.
A creep would:
- Show interest in a girl who he does not even know and show it in an awkward and unconfident way
- Be too nervous or freeze up when around other people (girls)
- Be insecure about small things
- Make big deals about small things
- Have no self validation
- Do awkward things in the wrong moments (i.e. Talk quietly in loud venues)
- Give no respect to the others around him (i.e. Ass grabs)
- Be extremely sensitive to small things
It's all about NOT being the creepy guy. A person can only be a creepy person or a cool person. So if you want to be cool, don't focus on what to do, but what NOT to do. Then you would not have to fake 20 different characteristics of what makes up a cool person, you can have your own identity. Cool people all have very unique and different characteristics. However, all of them have many things in common. None of them have the characteristics of being creepy.
Don't be a creep.
That's all.
A creep would:
- Show interest in a girl who he does not even know and show it in an awkward and unconfident way
- Be too nervous or freeze up when around other people (girls)
- Be insecure about small things
- Make big deals about small things
- Have no self validation
- Do awkward things in the wrong moments (i.e. Talk quietly in loud venues)
- Give no respect to the others around him (i.e. Ass grabs)
- Be extremely sensitive to small things
It's all about NOT being the creepy guy. A person can only be a creepy person or a cool person. So if you want to be cool, don't focus on what to do, but what NOT to do. Then you would not have to fake 20 different characteristics of what makes up a cool person, you can have your own identity. Cool people all have very unique and different characteristics. However, all of them have many things in common. None of them have the characteristics of being creepy.