america
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Post by america on Jan 27, 2012 17:44:22 GMT -5
I'm not gonna lie, I haven't done shit with girls... yet. I never really thought that was a big deal, but my view suddenly changed today. A couple weeks ago, I was talking to this chick (maybe a 7... no real prize). At first, she was super responsive and showed pretty much every IOI in the book. Suddenly, however, I found myself losing her to the point where I just stopped trying. Today, my friend told me that he was talking to her today and she said the reason she stopped being interested in me was because she could tell I lacked experience. So is it possible to fake experience, or do I just have to obtain it by getting extremely lucky and finding a girl who doesn't care first?
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Post by looknlisten on Jan 27, 2012 18:01:11 GMT -5
Haha what the fuck why would you wanna fake experieces what a lazy fuck. No its not possible, only on the internet but we wanna get our dicks wet so maybe you wanna be looking into online dating
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america
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Post by america on Jan 27, 2012 18:20:40 GMT -5
Maybe I worded this wrong lol... I mean is it possible to make a woman assume you are more experienced than you actually are? It seems like the whole pickup thing would be a lot easier if I had prior sexual encounters with women, but since I don't, women tend to put me into the "friend zone" category. Basically, I have a really hard time escalating because of my inexperience.
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Jan 27, 2012 18:22:20 GMT -5
Tell a story about an ex girl friend.
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america
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Post by america on Jan 27, 2012 18:25:54 GMT -5
What ex-girlfriend? Lol I have absolutely 0 experience.
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Post by amarok on Jan 27, 2012 20:17:00 GMT -5
That's his point. He's saying fake it. But I believe differently.
It's not a matter of lacking experience. You just are putting forth a vibe that you don't know quite what you're doing. Have more confidence in yourself, and KNOW that what you're doing is right. Have confidence in your actions and she'll think you've had years of being with girls.
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qaz
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Post by qaz on Jan 28, 2012 0:11:00 GMT -5
You new guys don't understand pickup isn't supposed to have anything to do with getting lucky. Game is 0% luck (only exception is if she already likes you based off looks/social proof). Even still you have to take action and atleast live up to the person she thinks you are or else she will realize whatever beliefs she had about you were wrong.
When I first got into game I used to be like you and I could build the initial attraction but they eventually lose interest.
It's because your actions arent congruent with your words. Be confident with doing anything physical.
Pm me if you need further explaining.
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america
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Post by america on Jan 28, 2012 0:16:51 GMT -5
I gotcha. I have no problem with the whole physical escalation thing... that is until I start actually caring about the girl. I feel like I've developed the right PUA mindset, but only around girls I don't give a fuck about.
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Post by qaz on Jan 28, 2012 1:40:02 GMT -5
You're on your way, as hard as it sounds you have to not give a shit about ALL girls essentially. Value them equally in a sense. Otherwise when all is done you're still showing the girl that you value her more than girls that you care less about and making her seem like the prize out of the abundance of women that she assumes you also talk to. And that goes against all the teasing that you did at the beginning. There's no chase for her.
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Post by looknlisten on Jan 28, 2012 2:25:49 GMT -5
No you can't fake experience, you can beartly fake confidence. Your trying to build a fortress on water, your trying to fill a buck with a hole at the bottom, if you have not experienced your reality would not be that big therefor if shit happeneds in set its unlikely your gonna be like "hey this had happened to me before, oh I know what to do when she turns like that or when she says she has a boyfriend but is still very horny right infront of me or when she's testing"
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