Maturity Levels

[Grape]

Well, here's something I've been noticing recently in my school and within my peers.

Half of them are grown men and women.
Half of them are immature little kids.

Now, I don't know about you guys, but I can only maintain ONE of those states for a day.
One day I'm a little kid making silly faces at the teacher.
The next day I'm a man talking about drama, news, sports.

That means I'll be a fun person to only HALF of my peers.
The immature kids hang out in their own social circle.
The mature kids hang out in their own social circle.

What I found out though, is that the immature little kid will be very very attractive and be a good way to hook girls.

Maturity will be very respected and looked up at by the guys.

So, how can we work circles with guys AND girls??
Isolation.
Take your time to individually talk to each person in your circle.
They're ALL different. So, mirror them and their maturity level and you will be fine.

Just remember, all great people have enemies craving to bring them down.
So watch out for shit tests and AMOGs.

Immaturity is going to DLV your image to the guys.
Maturity will DHV your image to the girls and guys, but your FUN factor will be absolute crap to the girls.

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Method 2 is being mature AND hooking girls. How to do that:
Tell me.

[Chris]

personally, IN MY OPINION, i will not modify myself to accomodate other people. I will be myself the whole time and not change. The price of success is having some people not like you, and who gives a FUCK what they think!? I think you can be mature and playful. Just dont be so playful that it is annoying. guys in my school like playfullness so i guess we are coming from different environments. But my advice is work on inner game. I started REALLY working on my inner game about a week ago and I feel myself becoming a better person and i will continue to do so for a while. Correct me if i misunderstood what youre saying.

[Grape]

lol. I see where you're coming from, and I totally agree.
If someone says "I hate hardcore music. You shouldn't listen to it"
I would go "Nice meeting you too bro. You're a nice guy." with complete sarcasm.

But I feel that there's nothing wrong building NLP rapport with people by sub-consciously "mirroring" them through voice, tone, body language, etc.
Here's what I do that's so different from most PUAs. I usually enter THEIR reality, and then slowly make it into my OWN reality using NLP.

NLP is NOT rocket science either. It's something we've all found out at a young age but never had a name to it. We called it confidence, being a leader, etc.
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Other than that, I found out a solution. from a motivated story.
We're all going to be FATHERS and HUSBANDS one day.
We're going to have children.
What are they going to think of us if we're not real men who care for loved ones, who can survive out there in the real world, and just be a great MAN?
This motivates and influences me to look up at my father figures and play the role of the great man wherever I go.

It's attractive and interesting. Everyone respects having a father figure around.
A father LEADS the way, PROTECTS his loves, acts MATURELY, and is FUNNY.
He has to act this way for his CHILDREN. He wants to make sure his children love and look up to him.

So, I decided I have to be this person. Why not practice and start now? Why not this very second?
And this is what motivates me.
I can be mature and funny. I just have to look up to my dad when I want to know how.

[Chris]

Hmm... im not really into NLP so i only have a vague idea of it but i totally agree with your father figure mindset. I think that's a good identity to take on.