perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Jan 31, 2012 18:20:20 GMT -5
do you guys think its weird to show up to a party alone?
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Jan 31, 2012 19:16:53 GMT -5
no
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Shampoo
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Post by Shampoo on Jan 31, 2012 19:29:31 GMT -5
I wouldnt if I can help it.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 31, 2012 20:46:37 GMT -5
No... But avoid it if possible
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jbold
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Post by jbold on Jan 31, 2012 21:23:57 GMT -5
Yeah and you'll already be left out of most conversations. If you roll in with a "crew" it will give you people to stick around with until you feel comfortable to approach people you don't know. Also its good to stick with people just in case the party blows up you have people to run with/ possibly a place (someone in the group's house) to run to.
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Post by Sloth on Jan 31, 2012 22:07:41 GMT -5
yes it is weird but it's short term weird. Unless you're not really well known within the party, then it's long term.
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Jan 31, 2012 23:56:32 GMT -5
When I first got to SA, I was quite isolated from the social part. Therefore I didn't have anyone I'd go party with. I started going alone. I was lucky in the first few and got into an amazing state. Since then, everybody just knows me, and I walked around alone. Half a year later I started going with a friend regularly.
I do recommend going with a friend. It's much easier and like alcohol, you got something to anchor your state in. However, you often rely on him for your state.
These are parties with 200-1000 people though.
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Post by looknlisten on Feb 1, 2012 0:40:05 GMT -5
Haha half truths here .. 90% of the time coming with a friend is just a place for your ego to hide. My wing does black chicks and I do the opposite so maybe 30% of the time we don't bother even going together. We go on our aces and when you alone you can't hide anywhere so we basically forced to take action. The guys above wanna get "comfortable" first .. Na, firstly when you go out everyone is your friend and now when we step out alone we got lots of friends to laugh with drink with make chaos with just the type of people we are and ultimately your gonna end up one man anyway. When its two people going hard you grow fast that is for sure though. When you go out alone your guaranteed to meet someone new, jut now you meet a natural chill guy in a mix set, he hits state with you and boom look what you have. (When chill people hit good states good things happen) the worst dudes to mack with are uncalibrated community guys. Dude and the last time I consumed alcohol was last year june. People don't ask where are your friends, if you think everyone is your friend your gonna act like it. Is it weird in terms of society a little maybe yes (but it just shows what you think), is it weird when it comes time to take action no and taking action is the only thing that matters. Now when my mate and I go out together its like a fuckin party cos push each other hard, our own selves and we do it together. Go out alone and when you get back home and reflect your sticking points will be in black and white, when you don't go out alone you won't see shit. If your going with someone that brings the complete best out of you then go but if your going with someone just so you can hide and feel comfortable warming up with while standing with a drink by your chest - two man cock farm. Then basically your still alone.
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