We have to realize that we have VALUE!

[Michal]

Hi guys, its womanizer here.

Im not going to write a big article I think. Just some idea came to me ,when I was today thinking about ending everything with Wicky. I will talk just for me,because I'm not pretty sure,if there are more guys with same problem as me.

We are often forced to use in PU strategies called DHV,we do routines,card tricks,showing ours sixpacks and so on. Have you ever thought of core of this thing?! DHV -> Demonstrate high value,we are demonstrating that we are different from other guys and that we HAVE value.

I think that everyone from you have some girl which he is really attracted to,but this girl can does nearly anything with you.Because you are in love with her,or she is more confident,or she is just push/pulling you in her best way. (If you don't have this kind of girl,you had,or probably will have one like that)

Question is why she can does this to us?! Because we aren't realizating our own value. We are humans,we have feelings,we have personalities,WE HAVE US!(not U.S. hh) Why she can move with our feelings,why we are trying to change our personalities just because of her?! Why we are still dreaming about beautiful life with her IF the life can be much more better without her doing with us what she wants?!

-> Why the fuck,she can has US and we can't control US ? <-

Because we are blind,we have value when we are with other girls,but when we are with this girl,we have red cheeks,this glassy eyes and cute smile(Do you think this will be sexy for other girls?!). We have to realizate that this girl is just taking our OPPORTUNITIES(thanks to fullbang for letting me realizate this!) she is just playing with us and most of the time she doesn't know what she wants. If we realizate that we have our value,we will find us again,stop paying her attention and open your eyes for other opportunities,this girl is not GOD! we are gods of ourselves!

And who knows,if we stop paying attention to her,we will fuck on her game rules,maybe she will understand that we are THE GUYS.

Proud of my realization
Fucking on Wicky
Not going to play her game anymore
Giving her freezeout until she will realize that shits gonna real.
Paying attention for other opportunities.
Using her weapons against her.

Today it was just first day doing this and she became sad,she was offended that I wasn't talking so much with her. HOW IS IT ?! this was what I wanted to say to her.

She asked me at 2 classmates why I'm not talking to her I turned to her and with the serious face ,,Aren't we talking enough on FB?!"
(Because she was playing her game and didn't respond to my message)

Brace yourselves,friendzones ARE FALLING!

[Michal]

And I'm never ever going to listen to sad songs!

[infamous93]

Hahah nice man

[Michal]

Guys is definitely working!!! She is messaging me immediately when I'm online. She is sending me texts,she is calling me 2 times per day. Why the fuck if she loves me,she can't just accept it?...

[fullbang]

You hit the nail on the head with this post, ive been thinking the same thing lately...
Looks like she realized how much she lost and now she wants you back, difficult situatuon :/

[Michal]

Guys...yesterday she was crying in school because of our friendship,at night we were writing on facebook in so cold tone. I told her by accident that she is losting me,after that she went really crazy and sad :/ I said to her we need to talk next day after school. My friend told me that he is writing with her and that she is furious on her and so on and told him that he should never change because I changed. I was like oh fuck this isn't what I wanted to.
So I called her at night after few text messages and told her that we really need to talk because I still love her. She was like oooh yes we need to talk!
guys im ultra fucking happy pls hold me EVERYTHING ON YOUR BODY!!!

[Michal]

There is need for help guys! Im really feeling like lost right now.

She said that she loves me too.
She said that she could saw on me that Im in love with her.
She said that she will be probably happier in relationship with me,but when she hear word relationship she wants to puke and scream.
She said that she is okey with how it is right know but not completely.

What guys do you advice me? Tomorrow im going to psychologist,I have really bad emotions right now... I said to her that there are few options for this case:
1. I will forget about her,delete all contact ,just to stop loving her
2. I will stay with her like we are now,but it will be painful

Please if you really care about me ,help me with this situation :/

[JUMB0z]

fucked up dude,

in my opinion
the whole idea with wich you started with was great and, the freezout was a great move but the problem is: you care about this girl to much! So you lost your cool, that was your biggest mistake!
You should of done the bestfriend/boyfriend method!

but now you are in the middle of this mess
I'll assume that you want to get her
you say you got 2 options:
1. I will forget about her,delete all contact ,just to stop loving her
-this would be pretty hard and fucked up(depends on how often do you see her and how strong are your feelings)
2. I will stay with her like we are now,but it will be painful
-this would be awkward but with enough patience and effort put to it things could get normal again

this is how I see it and my advice is: GO FOR THE OPTION NUMBER 2

when things get normal and you still want her do the bestfriend/boyfriend method BUT you must be patient and watch your steps so you don't fuck it up
meanwhile just be her friend and have fun, don't let her control you
just have fun

I hope I helped
wish you luck

[NorwegianDJ]

No. Take action. Either you remove her, or you make her your GF; nothing in between.

[Michal]

Thank you guys

[Sloth]

if she truely loves you, if you push for it then a relationship will happen eventually. If not she never loved you and isn't worth your time.

also the bestfriend boyfriend method is bullshit. And i say that because it tells you to:
1. be high value
2. be fun
3. close

that has nothing to do with a bestfriend/boyfriend scenario, that's just basic fucking game. So the whole bestfriend/boyfriend method is horribly misconstrued with it's title. Why do we need a 'method' to tell us to be high value and fun and then close... that's why it's bullshit.

Womanizer read what i put first and think about it, cause it is the absolute truth.