Post by theman on May 18, 2011 18:42:51 GMT -5
Week 1 - Getting Started
Q: Was there a specific moment in your life when you thought to yourself, “I need to change something”?
A: Walking down the halls at school seeing people that I know and am at least pretty well acquainted with and being nervous just to high five or toss a head nod. There was no reason for this nervousness, and there really wasn't a risk involved at all. It's hard to explain because I'm not awful in social settings just uncomfortable. I pretty much decided that I need to be more comfortable in social situations.
Q: What is the single most important reason (to you) for learning PUA?
A: To be more comfortable with socializing, and in turn to get more girls.
Q: List three small goals and one big one you’d like to accomplish by the end of the summer.
A: Small Goals
1. Get better at soccer/athleticism
2. Get more friends and meet a lot of cool people
3. Become the leader that I should be
Big Goal: Get laid
Q: What are your three greatest strengths and your three greatest weaknesses?
A: Strengths: -Funny -Intelligent -Confident
Weaknesses: -Ego -Over analyzing -Escalation
Q: What kind of person are you now and what sort of man would like to be?
A: Right now I am a fairly confident guy. I'm the one in my social group (which consists primarily of other guys) that everyone looks towards to make plans, and I feel like I constantly disappoint. I can attract girls consistently but due to social status (not awful but not great) I rarely get opportunities. For example, I get an assigned seat next to arguably the hottest sophomore in our school. I have her eating out of the palm of my hand because she had no choice but to give me a chance ;D. But I blew this as well as many other chances because I was not willing to show any interest and tried to use her attention to fuel my ego. She got bored of it because she was doing all the work and I constantly played disinterested in fear of making a mistake. I suck at escalation lol. I want to be a true leader, I want to have to choose what I'm doing tonight... not search for something to do. I want to be a social connector with lots of girls in my social circle. The guy that doesn't think he just acts. I want to look forward to socializing. And finally I want to get girls.
I feel like all I did was bitch in this but I haven't really thought about this that much before. I promise I'm usually not this negative
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Q: Was there a specific moment in your life when you thought to yourself, “I need to change something”?
A: Walking down the halls at school seeing people that I know and am at least pretty well acquainted with and being nervous just to high five or toss a head nod. There was no reason for this nervousness, and there really wasn't a risk involved at all. It's hard to explain because I'm not awful in social settings just uncomfortable. I pretty much decided that I need to be more comfortable in social situations.
Q: What is the single most important reason (to you) for learning PUA?
A: To be more comfortable with socializing, and in turn to get more girls.
Q: List three small goals and one big one you’d like to accomplish by the end of the summer.
A: Small Goals
1. Get better at soccer/athleticism
2. Get more friends and meet a lot of cool people
3. Become the leader that I should be
Big Goal: Get laid
Q: What are your three greatest strengths and your three greatest weaknesses?
A: Strengths: -Funny -Intelligent -Confident
Weaknesses: -Ego -Over analyzing -Escalation
Q: What kind of person are you now and what sort of man would like to be?
A: Right now I am a fairly confident guy. I'm the one in my social group (which consists primarily of other guys) that everyone looks towards to make plans, and I feel like I constantly disappoint. I can attract girls consistently but due to social status (not awful but not great) I rarely get opportunities. For example, I get an assigned seat next to arguably the hottest sophomore in our school. I have her eating out of the palm of my hand because she had no choice but to give me a chance ;D. But I blew this as well as many other chances because I was not willing to show any interest and tried to use her attention to fuel my ego. She got bored of it because she was doing all the work and I constantly played disinterested in fear of making a mistake. I suck at escalation lol. I want to be a true leader, I want to have to choose what I'm doing tonight... not search for something to do. I want to be a social connector with lots of girls in my social circle. The guy that doesn't think he just acts. I want to look forward to socializing. And finally I want to get girls.
I feel like all I did was bitch in this but I haven't really thought about this that much before. I promise I'm usually not this negative
.
. Didn't go for any numbers but had some funny times. "what has 148 teeth and holds back the incredible hulk?... my zipper!" Totally shocked this shy girl with that one. But the majority of these interactions didn't last long so I'm not going to post anything in detail. Used my lines from last week a lot too. I opened every group of high people I've run into with "What year is it?" lol timetraveler impersonating FTW!
, but it will likely get me scholarships 
). My summer is slowing down and I need to take full advantage of it!
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